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i won.

my babies are coming home.

the tears are coming i can feel it....
well, we had closing arguments this morning.

the judge took the whole thing into consideration.
and my lawyer said this is frustratingly typical of this judge....he doesn't like to make decisions at the time.

her argument...
Okay, i'm sure most of you who saw my other post are sad for me right now......

I just didn't realize what the whole thing would entail.

the courtroom was literally half full of people supporting me.
SO many people came up ...
just letting people know what's going on.

i likely won't be on again before the end of it tomorrow.
there are three ways it could go....... i lose, he loses, or the judge takes it into consideration and gets back to us.

if ...
i need to count to ten. put myself in time-out.

my ex-husband can be such an ass!

what would you do about this?...
just got a call from my lawyer, the judge is making his ruling...in court....at 2pm and me and my family have to be there.

i know i have nothing to be worried about....but i'm worrying anyway.
i feel sick to my stomach.......

i haven't seen her cry in so many years i can't count them.
she stopped crying when i was a teen.
she's sobbing right now and i don't know how to help.
she's beyond overwhelmed.
shes' crying for the kids.
we're both terrified...
which means we won.

it was a total win.....for the kids.

i however am left feeling shamed, and embarrassed.

reprimanded by the court...not officially or anything...just the judges statement to me that this is serious...
a small victory.........
i finally testified......and my ex had some phone testimony from colorado.

that went very well for me and very poorly for him.
my lawyer and i had a good laugh about it during the lunch break.

he has his mother and father a...
my ex keeps emailing me.
trying to get me to "convince" him why the girls should come see me for christmas.

i REFUSE to get into this with him.

i told him.

i want the girls for the whole of christmas break.
i called my lawyer this morning. ...i got her secretary on the phone.

i told her i was scared, and that i feel like i'm not ready.

she told me that my lawyer was ready.....she would be filing for an extension if she wasn't ready....
i've come to the realization......

i'm going to fight. but not going to war.
i'm going to state my case, as i see it....and plainly.
with the realization that i've screwed up.

and knowing i've done my best.

i just got served.
he's trying to get the kids back again.
the hearing is the 6th of june.
i haven't been perfect....i've made mistakes....not to mention we are still reeling and recovering from the separation before...and that's serious...
custody and it's failures...
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