After spending a long run relationship which was much more than a friendship,some couples/lovers,say to each other, in a very polite way, "CAN WE REMAIN JUST GOOD FRIENDS?". How stupid of them,don't you think thats the insult of friendship?
Friendship also involves caring, loving, sharing emotions, and if you really remain friends following all the rules of friendship, there are every chances of returning back of those older emotions.
Conceal the feelings in your heart forever,and don't give air to the hidden sparks to avoid a big fire.
Maybe the reasons of separation are genuine,sometimes it is due to lack of feelings for each other,sometimes it is hatred for each other, sometimes also for the well-being of each other. But if you have decided to separate,just say GOOD BYE and never turn back, thats all, don't wrap the dead relationship in the fresh wrapper of friendship.
Some sweet memories of past will induce you to call him/her sometimes but never do that, let him/her be happy in his world and you in yours........
Vaishali posted on Nov 29, 2007
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rupert7 said on Nov 29, 2007....
Very wise words but emotions can make this difficult to do.Much strength is needed.I really just wanted to welcome you here.Hope you enjoy your stay.....rupe. -
Vaishali said on Nov 29, 2007....
You have to be strong rupert, or your life will end up in complicated relatonships, isn't it?
And ya, thanks for the welcome, hope you all enjoy here, reading me.
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rupert7 said on Nov 29, 2007....
complicated relationships.... oh yes!!! -
wakingharmony said on Nov 29, 2007....
Hi Vaishali & Welcome to SC I am sure you will have more friends than you will know what to do with... .Everyone I belive is like a big happy family & the more the merrier.... so jump right in make yourself at home. And Yes i do believe A Couple can remain good friends...as long as each one truly understands that and doesn't try to make it more than that again. -
Vaishali said on Nov 30, 2007....
Thanks harmony for the warm welcomeand i am enjoying here, got some friendsand hoping to get more, thanks once again !
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