knowing all the possible ramifications, whatever they might be: whatever it is, would you actually, if given the opportunity, live out your deepest, darkest, hottest fantasy?
a simple yes, no, or maybe will suffice. don't feel obliged to describe it, unless you really feel the need to share:
and unlike my norm, i'll begin: no. some fantasies just work better if they remain fiction rather than fact.
ed
silverwhisper posted on Nov 27, 2007
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Mr_Box said on Nov 27, 2007....
Interesting question.No, I don't think I would actually live out my favorite fantasy. Because if I did, I think it would have negative consequences.Some things are best left to the imagination. -
Fallyn said on Nov 27, 2007....
yes, no and maybe..........i have too many to narrow down to just one.\
some of mine would be too dangerous in real life.
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evil_twin said on Nov 27, 2007....
Um, no. I don't think I'd actually carry out my secret fantasy. It would be complicated in the end. It's not freaky though. Actually, it's pretty tame I'm sure compared to most people. But the emotional fallout would be something of the bad. So no. I'll keep it in my head.
-evil_twin LA
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beyondtheveil said on Nov 27, 2007....
No. But only because I'm married with children. -
lisamay said on Nov 27, 2007....
nopei am living out one fantasy nowthe deeper, darker, secret one ... i would not actually do.lisa -
the_infernal_optimist said on Nov 27, 2007....
As much as I'd be tempted if it was really feasible, no. It could hurt a lot of people I care about, and I doubt it'd be as hot IRL as it is in my head - two of several reasons it shouldn't ever come to be.
~Infernal
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MissMimi said on Nov 27, 2007....
No, not a good idea. -
uniquely-ironic said on Nov 27, 2007....
no, the fall out would negate any benefit of the fantasy -
mysterious said on Nov 27, 2007....
maybe ;-) -
hazues said on Nov 27, 2007....
oh yea if she was there again! -
flytimes said on Nov 27, 2007....
Hi Silverwhisper It's always a pleasure to see you here.. With regards to your blog, I have fullfilled every fantasy i have had..Now my new fantasy is finding a companion to spend the rest of my life with..it seems like not much to ask, but under the present circumstances, i think this fantasy will remain, just a fantasy... -
PassionTraveler said on Nov 27, 2007....
If I'm not in a committed relationship, and all the appropriate precautions and comfort levels are achieved, yes, I would.
If I'm in a committed relationship, I'd live out the parts that won't jeopardize what I have with my partner. It wouldn't be the complete fantasy, but it would be just as fun, I would hope. Maybe more so, if it's someone I really care about.
And yes, it's pretty kinky.
PT
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englishdatingconfessions said on Nov 27, 2007....
Yes, I would, I have lived out many already. -
CreativeWoman said on Nov 27, 2007....
Probably not.
CW
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destinydiva said on Nov 27, 2007....
hmmm you know I think there are a few that I would do.... and a lot that as you said are better left a fantasy :-) xx -
karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
I have to say that yes, I was planning to live out all of my deepst, darkest fantasies.
Mind you, like evil said, mine are pretty tame.
@evil--so yours is 3 way sex??What esle could be pretty tame and have
devistating emotional consequences.Tell me if I'm right, will
you?Another girl or another fella?Though I bet it's another girl, right?
Anyway, I hope yet to live out all of my deepst, darkest fantasies with
someone that makes nice babies and will invest in a sound proof bedroom
with me, lol!
@Everyone, you guys, it make sme wonder what you all fantasize about, if you aren't willing to go through with it, how 'bad' could it be?
C'mon now, shareeeeee! -
elpasotruth said on Nov 27, 2007....
Never,the ramificatons would not be worth ruining the fantasy! -
wakingharmony said on Nov 27, 2007....
I have lived out many fanatasies...I am a rather strange one in regards as to having to be a fanatasy pleaser.... I get total enjoyment out of it. The most bazarest being........about 12 yrs ago I met someone online (I was single & so was he) we became rather close and decided to meet. he had a vague idea of how i looked but I had not a clue...except he said he was ugly. He was a firm believer in that "looks" do matter, I was...It is the soul that mattered to me. He said that if i meet him I would change my mind....I wasn't all that confindent my self. So I flew to where he lived, meet him in the dark and made love....composed my self then came back in to meet him Wow!! No was not anything to look at but I didn't say that.... I was connected at the heart, I stayed for 3 days had wonderful time went home but after that it ended. he ended it.... it was him that didnt have the attraction..... He was still in love with his ex... he wanted her back in the worst way. I~think i may have even been used to make her jealous. I dont know and hold no regrets...It was amazing! Now I am married....a little clue don't fullfill all your fantasys....then they become realities and will never be the same....most of my fantasys now are a different spiritual level, it is something i have discovered in myself that is beyond anything i have ever experienced. Nice Post Ed :-) -
karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
@Wakingharmony---Whoa! Amazing! -
wakingharmony said on Nov 27, 2007....
Thanks karta!! was a little leary about posting this. Don't know why..My husband knows and a few others....I guess I didnt want negative from my friends here...but I am who I am -
silverwhisper said on Nov 27, 2007....
mr box: obviously, you and i are in agreement.
fallyn: i know what you mean.
kyle: yeah, i'm thinking the same.
beyond: that's fair. :>
lisamay: yeah, the darker ones i find are often like that.
infernal: [nods] very good reasons. :>
mimi: any particular reason?
u-i: it's all about the ramifications sometimes, isn't it?
mysterious: ah, thank you for being the first one to say something like that. :>
hazues: welcome to my blog and thanks for visiting! :>
ft: good to see you again! :> that's very cool that you've been able to fulfill all of 'em!
PT: heh...somehow, i just knew it would be kinky... :D
english: the lone voice saying yes, huh? :> welcome to my blog and thanks for stopping by!
CW: so a definite maybe, huh?
destiny: o yeah, definitely.
karta: welcome to my blog, karta devera! if people wanted to share some of these, i'm sure they would have. while i can't speak for kyle, i should point out that threesomes are a very common fantasy for many men. :>
elpasotruth: there's that word again: "ramifications"... :> welcome to my blog! :>
wh: that's quite extraordinary, wh! i'm dumbfounded!
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karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
@ Ed--thanks for clarifying things for me Ed, mighty nice of ya!
;))Threesomes, really? And to think that if I had died yesterday, I would have never know that!
@wakingharmony--I see nothing wrong in living your life to the fullest as long as it hurtd noether you nor anyone else! I admire that!
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crybabylu said on Nov 27, 2007....
hey Ed---have you been over there reading hazues's blog. Sounds like you have...........Haha!... Oops! guess y'all know where I've been, huh? (by the way, I don't have any fantasies, guess I am just plain boring and dull.....love, dee. -
karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
neither you nor*
:))
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moonriver said on Nov 27, 2007....
an evening of foot massage, neruda and red wine with my favorite sc blogger. followed by dancing and jumping all night long on a trampoline. i would if i could. i like to ramify in my spare time... *wink*
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sadheartedangel said on Nov 27, 2007....
I def. wouldn't...it would hurt too many people!! Including myself in the end!! Plus I think it is better to have a fantasy than to live through it...that would make life boring!!
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lfbno7 said on Nov 27, 2007....
there is no way i would live out my deepest darkest hottest fantasy. i wouldn't want to. -
karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
@ moon--lol *absolutely repulsive* i think you ought to get therapy for that! Does the poor woman know what you would have installed for her if *push came to shove(? (pun very much intended)
:))
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vacantmind said on Nov 27, 2007....
Yes! Yes! Oh God Yes! -
travelr712 said on Nov 27, 2007....
silver - i'm in the camp of i don't want to ruin the fantasy, because i don't think the reality would be nearly as good. besides, there's just some things you shouldn't do with a cumquat... ;-P -
moonriver said on Nov 27, 2007....
karta -- yes of course. when two people, already tipsy with red wine and neruda, jump on a trampoline all night long, she should expect that push will always come to shove. she will need strong legs, biceps and shoulders ... :-)
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wakingharmony said on Nov 27, 2007....
threesomes can be fun with the right people involved... but really some fantasys should be ket just as...And Iwould never recommend that anyone do as I did I had a sense of security ..someone knew where aIways and he knew it too no matter how comfortable I felt.... I wouldn't recommend it ...just so you know. I also agree some fantasies are meant to be just that. -
cakebottom said on Nov 27, 2007....
I agree with you. Some things are just better in my head.
Besides, if I were to live out some of them, I think it would take away the reason I fantasize about them. Fantasy is a way to live out someone I'm not, if only in my head, and to dream of things I'd never do.
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lampshade said on Nov 27, 2007....
Yes, but I don't know how I'd get that much Jello into my apartment. -
wakingharmony said on Nov 27, 2007....
lamp~ try the Bath tub the porclin is cold and add a bag of ice for cold water hehe -
karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
@moon---LooL You have kids right?Why else would you even own a trampoline!?
G'nit moon....
G'nit teapot, G'nit world. Moon, can you change your name to Sun?
Coz girls are moons and boys are suns, according to my well beliefs, lol.
Nahhh, not really, just teasing ya moon, you girlie girl!
Girlfriend!
Gal....OK I hope you smiled.G'nit, for real this time! -
evil_twin said on Nov 27, 2007....
karta, um, like ed said. If I wanted to say what the fantasy was, I would have! But if it was a threesome, there would be no other guy there. Trust me.
-evil_twin LA
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Fallyn said on Nov 27, 2007....
trav...*laughing* my god.
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karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
@ evil, OK either your sense of humor was suddenly surgically removed, or I just misread you for a nice laid back guy!
No need for that *tone of voice* evil.
Did I ever imply you were obliged in any way to say?
Excuse me for asking an innocent question.
If you need help removing that sudden stick up your butt, let me know! -
evil_twin said on Nov 27, 2007....
Wow karta...did I really sound upset? I was just answering your question. Kinda wish I hadn't now.
-evil_twin LA
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karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
There was a tone there.I didn't say you were upset, but there was a definite tone there! Wow to you to evil, what can I say:)) -
evil_twin said on Nov 27, 2007....
I'm sorry karta, but I don't know how you could have gotten a bad tone from what I wrote. I was actually amused by your question. So whatever you think I said wrong, I have no idea.
-evil_twin LA
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wild-ting said on Nov 27, 2007....
No. It's a fantasy, and so it shall remain a fantasy. -
Mr_Box said on Nov 27, 2007....
Hey karta.devera, that was an incredibly rude response. Was that really necessary? I have no idea who you are, but that was a total overreaction and uncalled for.
I didn't see anyone else being singled out and asked to tell everyone what their fantasy was.
Not cool.
And ed, yes, we do think alike on this subject.
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crybabylu said on Nov 27, 2007....
oh...oh! What happened here? Did I miss something?.....lol, dee -
karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
@Mr Box--evil is big boy, he can defend himself, providing he is being attacked, which he wasn't. I was not rude I was making a point using very colorful language, if Bukowski does it he's a genius, if I do it, I'm rude??Well, a matter of opinion, I guess.
@evil--Amused really, good.
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karta.devera said on Nov 27, 2007....
provided that*
*Amused, really? Good
:))
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Mr_Box said on Nov 27, 2007....
Karta.devera, he is a big boy. But when people say rude things to my brother, I get a little defensive. And telling someone they've got a stick up their ass is rude.
Ask anyone.
I'm done here though because this is not my post to destroy.
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Twylarants said on Nov 27, 2007....
Hey Dee, I'm dull and boring too. The only fantasy I have these days is winning the lottery. Not exactly hot, or deep, or dark.
And I happen to think EvilTwin is a very nice young man.
Really interesting question Ed. How do you come up with these good posts?
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travelr712 said on Nov 27, 2007....
karta - you sounded a bit rude to me, and from reading how evil's response looked in type, i guess i can understand how you might have taken it as rude, but we all know him here, and we don't know you. give it time, don't take offense from a first glance. you'll make more enemies here than friends if you jump before you understand the history of the people that have been here for a long time. -
Eilan said on Nov 27, 2007....
I've fulfilled quite a few fantasies already, but the deepest and darkest of them? Probably not. -
LadyGamer said on Nov 27, 2007....
No. Some of my hottest fantasies are not possible. I mean that. Not actually possible. Period.
My imagination is deep, unbound and expanding.
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tbs230 said on Nov 27, 2007....
I don't know...
My fantasy might be a little traumatizing, so just because I could...I don't think I would.
It depends on who I was living the fantasy out with...
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Zayda said on Nov 27, 2007....
Probably not simply because something things are meant to be just that: fantasy. -
RollingC said on Nov 27, 2007....
Some things are better left unfulfilled if they may have negative repercussions later on. I've had enough of my fantasies fulfilled and have some more to go but realize that some things are better left in fantasy land. -
lfbno7 said on Nov 27, 2007....
LG I think we have the same fantasies -
karta.devera said on Nov 28, 2007....
@Mr_box--You mean a stick up their butt, you missquoted me there sir, how thoughtless and rude of ya!Are you all done here now, and off to your home in a land called Passive Agressivia?Hmmm, alrighty then!I was really just talking to your brother sir, so yes be done with it please! -
karta.devera said on Nov 28, 2007....
@traveller712---the way some of you ganged up on me just coz I am new here, makes me think I have slipped into a time warp and went back to high school!
Seriously traveller712, what made you think I can't handle some enemies, and am that hung up on being liked by everyone?This whole 'incident' is just one big miss understanding, if you ask me.However, I do not like to be patronized and told what to do no sir, anyone who knows me knows that as well, and now ý'all know it too! So you say I 'sounded' rude--perhaps, but I was not rude first, I just give back to people the same type of energy they put in with me.Deal with it or feel free to consider yourself my *enemy*, lol! -
moyz said on Nov 28, 2007....
if i could i would...definitely....but as long as i am with someone who'll understand..if not...then it better just stay as a fantasy!!! -
Featherpet said on Nov 28, 2007....
Yes. Given that even my fantasies still involve all my safety requirements, I would Certainly love to live it out, and IF all the qualifications were met I would gladly submit to it.
And yes, if anyone cares so much, I will write a story in my blog about it. ;)
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silverwhisper said on Nov 28, 2007....
karta devera: you got defensive when you asked evil_twin specifically what his fantasy was (and not anybody else) and he said he wasn't interested in discussing it. and frankly, that's none of your fucking business. insofar as it's anyone else's business, it's nursecutie's, and certainly not that of some stranger who only 2 days ago discovered his blog entries.
i think you owe evil_twin an apology.
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silverwhisper said on Nov 28, 2007....
dee: i haven't, actually.
moon: heh...how often do fantasies involved red wine and trampolines? :D
sadheartedangel: welcome to my blog! i know what you mean about the fallout of some fantasies.
lbf: that's how i feel about several of mine. :>
vm: jeez, sounds like you were living it out as you were typing! :D
trav: bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!
wh: well said, and definitely agree re: threesomes. :>
cb: yep, as you can tell, i'm right there with you. :>
lampshade: bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha-ha! welcome to my blog!
w-t: well, some fantasies can be safely experienced but yeah, not all of 'em, if you ask me. :>
mr box: we do indeed, sir. :>
twyla: well, as a writer of erotica, it's a question that comes up for me quite a bit. :>
eilan: heh, i like how you left a little "wiggle room". :>
LG: i'll confess, when you say it's not possible that makes me suspicious.
tbs: fair enough. :>
super z: some things, absolutely.
rollingc: always good to see you! it's looking like there's some consensus on the matter here.
moyz: having the freedom of being w/ someone who wants you to experiences those things is a thing of beauty. :>
featherpet: you sound like someone who's done a good bit of thinking about this. if you're interested in sharing, putting it in your own blog would certainly seem to make sense. ;>
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karta.devera said on Nov 28, 2007....
@Ed-- I will agree to disagree, Ed.
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silverwhisper said on Nov 28, 2007....
i deleted a comment i made 8 minutes prior, b/c i realized that it was too namby-pamby.
karta: in point of fact you're demonstrably wrong. you were being insulting and rude. mr box pointed it out first and he's absolutely right. or maybe you should find someone to help you get that stick out of your ass--you've obviously lost your sense of humor.
see, that's pretty rude, esp since you're more or less a stranger.
"agree to disagree" about what? whether or not evil_twin is owed an apology? well, since you don't realize you were being rude i suppose that logically follows. but you were.
as to his fantasies, whatever they are, i am absolutely right: they're none of your fucking business. hell, they're certainly none of mine, either, and i've known evil_twin for most of this year by now.
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karta.devera said on Nov 28, 2007....
@Ed--I do not know why you are even in the middle of this incident?
Further more you are repeating yourself, you already told me once that I was being rude, and that I owed an apology, and that I am new here, as oppose to you and the others.
I think you might have some control issues ed and frankly good luck with that.
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silverwhisper said on Nov 28, 2007....
karta: i'm involved b/c it's my blog page. i repeat myself, despite my distaste for doing so, because you fail to understand. you also appear to have problems w/ reading comprehension, as i never took you to task for being a newcomer.
you don't know me, karta. neither do i know you. i don't presume to know you. you would do well to extend others that same courtesy.
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travelr712 said on Nov 28, 2007....
wow, has cam come back under yet ANOTHER screen name here?karta, it seems obvious to me that you are here to intentionally start a fight with someone, and you don't care who. believe me, i have no problem doing that with you. but i choose not to, because i find people with that mentality just not worth the time. their only goal is simply to argue, no matter what the issue, just so they can feel superior.i sincerely hope you are not a person like that. if you are, please feel free to stay away from my blog, i have no time for that, and will delete any comment you make there, as well as block you.if you are not, please accept my appologies for drawing an untrue conclusion about you.now, let's see what type of person you really are. -
karta.devera said on Nov 28, 2007....
@Ed--So you never said I was a complete stranger to Kyle that has discovered him 2 days ago, as oppose to you who were his buddy for a good share of the year now? And you will continue to repeat yourself until *I understand*, HUH?
Interesting.
@Traveller--something is either obvious to you or it isn't?You cannot so obviously have me down for a lunatic who goes around people's blogs picking completely uncalled fights, and wonder if I was not really like that at all, at the same time. In fact if this is the case I think it's safe to say that you are confused. Frankly I am a little confused as well, as to what the hell is your problem, some of you act like teenagers.The only normal reaction I got from people involved in this imaginary fight you have with me was that man Kyles.I find his brother, his friends ed and trav totally out of place pathetic.Now I might be wrong but I will never find out, coz frankly I need a virtual space with less control freak lunatic running round.Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, it was not a pleasure and let's not see each other around. -
silverwhisper said on Nov 28, 2007....
karta: o, i said that all right. you fail once again to understand, however: you've known him for 2 days. what sensible person asks such a question after knowing someone for so short a time?
the funny thing of course is that i'm finding you pathetic. have a pleasant existence, karta.
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Twylarants said on Nov 28, 2007....
holy mackerel. -
travelr712 said on Nov 28, 2007....
karta - well, i guess i found my answer. karta, you sound like you are spurned and jealous over unrequited love. please refrain from entering my blog, or commenting on any of my posts. if you do, i will block you. if you are truely leaving, i can't say i'm sorry. but actually, i think i was correct, karta is cam under another screen name. -
silverwhisper said on Nov 28, 2007....
trav: honestly, i think it's entirely possible that karta's got no relationship whatsoever to anybody else we've encountered previously on SC.
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travelr712 said on Nov 28, 2007....
i'd say you're most likely right, silver, i just found it a bit interesting that when i brought up that fact, karta left is all. hey, this makes 73 comments. is this your record silver? -
silverwhisper said on Nov 28, 2007....
well, she did state her intention to leave anyway, so let's not read anything into her departure, you know?
a record? o heavens, no. i've got one with well over 200+ somewhere, actually. but this is definitely a strong showing.
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travelr712 said on Nov 28, 2007....
aww ed, you never let me have any fun!200? what was the topic? -
evil_twin said on Nov 28, 2007....
I really started something here, didn't I? Yikes. But frankly, the reason why other people jumped into this, karta, is because they're my friends. That's what friends do. So thanks guys. I never really imagined this was going to turn into a mini war. I think it's over now though. At least I hope so. Everyone back to fantasy talk, okay? :-P
-evil_twin LA
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silverwhisper said on Nov 28, 2007....
trav: yep, i think so--i think it was this one.
kyle: yep, definitely back to fantasy talk! :>
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ElectricLight said on Nov 29, 2007....
YES! most definately.... -
silverwhisper said on Nov 30, 2007....
cool. :>
ed -
Suddenrain said on Dec 01, 2007....
Yes, I would, in the blink of an eye. -
silverwhisper said on Dec 01, 2007....
i think that's pretty nifty, suddenrain. :>
ed -
Cussane said on Dec 01, 2007....
of course, and you can then visit me every tuesday and thurday between 7-9, please bring a file with a cake in itCussane -
Fallyn said on Dec 01, 2007....
wow. -
in_bocca_al_lupo3 said on Jan 18, 2008....
No, because then the fantasy itself looses it's appeal once you've done it. I did something, not my favorite fantasy but a fantasy to be sure, and honestly, thinking about it was more exciting then the actual action itself. -
silverwhisper said on Jan 18, 2008....
you know, i've had that experience myself once or twice, i have to say. isn't it depressing? you're all, "all right, it's happening!" and then the reality is sorta like, "meh"?
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in_bocca_al_lupo3 said on Jan 18, 2008....
Oh, perfectly put. You get all excited thinking "oh my god we're gonna do it we're gonna go for it" and it's happening and you're like "wait, wasn't this supposed to be...erotic or exciting or something?".
Thought can be so much better than reality. Tends to be, actually.
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silverwhisper said on Jan 18, 2008....
on average, yeah, i'd definitely agree. :>
ed
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