• mrhowto said on Jul 31, 2006....

  Also, when women in skimpy-as-fcuk clothes sit right the hell opposite us and have trouble conceling their underwear. Why on earth do they look at us like it's OUR fault they're getting starred/smiled at etc? Surely they want this kinda reaction, otherwise why would they dress that way? I think you can tell a woman who respects herself, as she will dress and act respectfully. In which case, the natural reaction is to be respectful back. But turn this around, and everything changes...doesn't it?

• Elevator said on Jul 31, 2006....

  I couldn't agree more. I can understand that women are under a lot of pressure in the world, but that doesn't mean guys don't either. What a person wears is the extention of their body language and they're are going to wear revealing clothing, then what hot-blooded straight guy isn't going to look?

• mrhowto said on Jul 31, 2006....

  Thanks for the feedback. Glad someone agrees. Moreover, what the hell is it with that 'low-rise' jeans trend with the thong strap hanging out the top and builder's crack in full view? Don't they know how crazy this drives us? Or is that the point? Well next time I see it, I swear I'm gonna need some serious damn will power to stop myself giving them the mother of all wedgies! If you really want to tease guys that bad, I think it's time we did something about it and went on an all-out wedgie rampage lol. Look out ladies!

• silverwhisper said on Jul 31, 2006....

  look, as guys we like visual stimulus. it's the way we are. but because we aren't actually animals, we don't behave like that. :> ed

• anonymous said on Jul 31, 2006....

  ^^ what he said ^^ And, good idea with the wedgieing...definately a self-starter ;)

• bandanna said on Jul 31, 2006....

  lol. totally agree, although i do often find myself trying to lick the butt crack. after pouring alcho-pops down there first of course.

• ALIENated said on Jul 31, 2006....

  Guys, guys, there may be ladies present. Answer (to your question): Yes, pretty much.

• hunter_boyce_chandler said on Jul 31, 2006....

  How would you feel if the woman you just described was your daughter? Chances are that she is someone elses' daughter or wife. Why should she have to dress like an Amish potatoe farmer just because you have no respect for women or your own role as a man? You should be ashamed of this disrespect. Which line was this on?

• kelly said on Jul 31, 2006....

  It shouldn't take a high school education even to have figured out that, yes human beings have impulses and that, no we don't act on them in a civilized society. Don't think for a minute that you have to try to not have these thoughts/feelings. It's just how we are. We do, however, have to treat others with respect. Women wouldn't like us if we were sexless eunuchs now, would they? They (in general--always a dangerous assumption) like us to be attracted to them and we're basically required to be semi-aggressive since we're the ones who are supposed to be asking the woman out. In the end it's a balancing act between the animal and the cerebral, but it doesn't mean you have to be an...well, you know.

• JadeLondon said on Jul 31, 2006....

  Asking if all men are assholes is like asking if all women are bitches. What do you think? And I don't really understand the trend of thongs & hip-huggers, either.

• mrhowto said on Aug 01, 2006....

  Cheers for all the feedback peeps. HBC, very good point. I didn't look at it like that. It wouldn't be my daughter, because I don't have one yet. It goes without saying that she's someone elses daughter. And as long as she's over 16 I see no real problem in that. Men and women are going to get together one way or another regardless of who's daughter or son they are. However, as you rightly said she could have been someone elses wife/partner...the lucky sod - and you have to respect them for that reason I guess. I do respect all women, and hell-yeah I like a woman who can dress well. Amish potatoe farmers really don't do it for me lol. What I was trying to get at is that a woman can dress well, while being somewhat revealing etc, without being a complete slapper. Things don't need to be done to extreme. Its easy to tell if a woman respects herself, or not. If she doesn't(or acts and dresses like she doesn't), and get's hit on though by 'the wrong guy', just who's fault is it?

• Elevator said on Aug 01, 2006....

  Can't say i agree with the whole men being the ones that are supposed to ask women out. The way i see it, we are all equal and while the world tries to fight for equality there always seems to be some loophole, some silent rule that governs us. Why do men have to be the ones to approach? Is it because women want men to do all the chasing? I went through that long strenuous stage in my life and now i think that if a woman really is interested in a guy she could try doing the approaching. Don't get me wrong, there are probably women out there that do. But to have everything on display, showing it all off for the one she [b]may[/b] bump into that she [b]will[/b] find desireable, and then ruthlessly scowling at the guys that could actually be genuine for her seems like overkill. Yes, any person on the planet should be able to be what or whoever they want as long as they don't hurt others, and should express themselves accordingly. Then again, there are game tactics being made that are really unnecessary. For some reason, i feel the need to recommend the film 'Hitch' to those who have not already seen it.

• 00purple666 said on Aug 01, 2006....

  I think sometimes men's lustful urges are a throwback from caveman days where the man sees a woman he likes and the desire the spread his wild oats takes over. If a man however tried to club me over the headand carry me back to a cave I'd have something to say about it. Another point I was discussing with some friends is that women tend to go for assholes because in caveman times the woman needed a strong type man to battle off wooly mamoths and the like to protect her and her children in those times "nice" men just couldn't cut it. Our brains just haven't caught up and these primitive ways seem to come through! Personally in a man I like something in between caveman and nice guy lol x

• Elevator said on Aug 02, 2006....

  Now thats a really good eye-open. I'm screwed then, because i'm a nice guy!

• FatalFlame said on Aug 03, 2006....

  Dude men are assholes in general because of our surroundings and experiences with women..The more I treat a girl like shit the more she wants to be with me and you as the guy is like hey I'm being an asshole cause if I was nice you'd either milk me for all I'm worth and leave or just fucking cheat on you and dump you or sum F'd up combo of both so you treat her like crap kinda to protect yourself....weird huh???

• GrapeKoolaid said on Aug 03, 2006....

  I can tell you that I am a most depraved, perverted individual. I think about it constantly. I love women. However, like so many of you have pointed out, we do live in polite society and certain behaviors(like clubbing your mate over the head and dragging her back to your cave) are not accepted well. I treat them with respect, and take furtive glances at what they choose to reveal about themselves. Regarding ladies fashion: What's the deal with all the muffintops? Muffintops, for those of you who may not know, is an unfortunate, yet aptly named side effect of the fashion trend that is low-rise jeans. It's when the flesh above the waist of the pants spill over to create the appearance of a muffin. Not sexy.

• mrhowto said on Aug 03, 2006....

  Haha fantastic, you guys make me laugh. It's soooo true though, I've always been too nice perhaps to women and do get walked over from time to time(ok, all the time - as does a good friend of mine). Then they wonder why men are horrible to them lol. Maybe shall try being horrible once in a while, just to test the theory. Ladies, is this right then, what you really want is a bit of roughness etc, but are just too shy to ask? Muffintops...well that's the first time I've heard that, but yes now I can see it. I did think it was kinda nice in a strange depraved way, but now I have the image of muffins in my head, you've completely ruined that for me! ;P Oh well...will just have to wait for the next fad to coem along I guess...

• saturngoat said on Aug 04, 2006....

  Geez, you guys sure do get the insensitive women. If a guy is a total ass to me, I give him utter hell for it and keep him at a distance. I don't take crap from a man. I'm one of those rare women that thinks "If you're nice to me, you like me. But if you're mean to me, you hate me." Thing is, I respond better to kindness. But if you act mean and nasty, be prepared to wake up one morning with a 3/4 ton truck parked on your kidneys. But then again, I'm probably one of those gals that is "passed over" for her looks, because I don't do revealing clothes. I don't run around in my undies unless I'm home. And I don't really care for tight clothes, because it's uncomfortable for me. To be perfectly honest, I'm not looking for a guy anymore. I've run into too many assholes that I don't have any faith in the human race. If God came down and asked me if he should spare humanity, I'd say "No, kill us all."

• anonymous said on Sep 02, 2006....

  My sister dresses provacatively for the express reason of being ogled. She has low self esteem and feels better about herself that way. I, on the other hand, don't want strange men thinking about me sexually, so I tend to be more conservative. So, I think if a woman dreses that way, she is looking for the attention. Maybe it's just my opinion, though.
  

• whiteAngel. said on Jan 01, 2008....

  let's say 90%.there is no doubt that there are an exceptions but the fact is that they naturally can't deal with monogamy.They are "programed" to spread their semen.I've read a book named "Let say it straight:men are a$$#oles" and it is written by two men,psychologists(not gay if anyone asks).It's pretty thick :) and separates men in groups and tables,such as "the don Juan","the mummy's boy",etc.And the most memorable thing for me is the advice:"Do not try to change your man,cause you can't".

• anonymous said on Jan 18, 2009....

  I had a date new years eve with a man I had flirting with me all the time at work. I was pretty excited, but he came to my house with about 15 movies and we had a movie marathon all night. He slept with me and did not touch me all night. weird huh? I am a very attractive woman, but I decided this guy was really bad for my self esteem. Dont get me wrong, I am glad he respected me, but If its just friendship you want, be honest. I could have spent new years eve with my friends, and had a great time. I still see him at work and I try to be nice to him, but I felt he totally mislead me. He calls me all the time and even proceeded to tell me how he wants to marry a latin woman. WHAT AN ASSHOLE!!!!!

• anonymous said on May 23, 2009....

  i have looked up a lot of this stuff about men looking at other women and i think it's all crap! it's not a guy thing, it's called have a little respect for women (especially a wife or girlfriend), and yourself. we're not animals and we can control our sexual urges. the whole caveman thing is just an excuse! WE'RE NOT CAVEMEN!!! shouldn't we act better than that? men who gawk at other women make me sick!!! grow the fuk up and show your girl that you have at least a little respect for her!!!

• anonymous said on Sep 13, 2009....

  The non-assholes are hard to find. I've dedicated a website to helping men to NOT be assholes: findingmrsright.com

• temple said on Sep 22, 2009....

  yes

• anonymous said on Sep 23, 2009....

  Yes. But women are attracted to assholes and have bred it into the entire population, so it's actually their fault and not ours. :)

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