• uniquely-ironic said on Nov 14, 2007....

  You can research it to be sure, but a lot of it depends on the bride.  If she is very traditional you may be responsible for a wedding shower or other more elaborate chores.  Why not schedule some time to sit down with her and discuss where she could use your help?

• skald said on Nov 14, 2007....

  Wish I could help but we don't have the maid of honor at our weddings. 

• Fallyn said on Nov 14, 2007....

  UI....we're sitting down on sunday.....it's going to be a very small wedding..but she's as lost as i am.......i think she is pretty traditional when it comes to these things though...and she's having trouble with her mother....i just want to help the day be extra special.
  I don't necessarily agree that she's doing the right thing by getting married.....but i haven't been around her fiance so her mom may be over paranoid.
  but i know from my own situation people being freaked out about it made it worse...not better.
  i just want to support her in any way i can.
  
  i wonder if there is a web site i can look at....like emily post or something.
  

• Fallyn said on Nov 14, 2007....

  skald......what are weddings like in your country?

• uniquely-ironic said on Nov 14, 2007....

  try this one.  I've used it to help plan my wedding as well as research other ettiquette.  So far it's had pretty good advice.

• Fallyn said on Nov 14, 2007....

  thankyou UI.
  
  i'll check it out.
  

• Fallyn said on Nov 14, 2007....

  looked at it.....PERFECT. it's got the whole list of things the maid of honor is responsible for!

• uniquely-ironic said on Nov 14, 2007....

  Good :) 
   
  Makes it easy when someone makes the list, huh?

• Fallyn said on Nov 14, 2007....

  no kidding!

• queenparanoia said on Nov 15, 2007....

  so sorry... i haven't been asked to be a maid of honor!

• Fallyn said on Nov 15, 2007....

  queen...well....it kinda came out of the blue for me too....considering ALL my closest friends are guys!
  
  she's pretty much the same way.....so didn't have a really close friend to be hers....and we were quite close when we were little kids....and our mothers are BEST friends.....so she asked me.
  

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