I have personal limits as to what I will discuss with my colleagues, and how far I will let them into my personal life. I don't believe its good to be too close to colleagues.
I have however found that some people just blurt it all out - they don't care if you want to hear it!
Strange. I would be too shy to unveil half the stuff, but others are really comfortable with it.
I don't know how I decide when its best to stop? Maybe I share too little. People feel that I don't warm up to them? But which is better? Oversharing / undersharing?
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danetteb posted on Nov 13, 2007
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Fallyn said on Nov 14, 2007....
i couldn't say which is better.....i know i tend to talk to much...i get really nervous and then all of my life story comes out.....i'd rather be a little less open about things.....
not here necessarily...this is the place for it i believe......but in real life....a little less open...a little more propriety would be nice in myself.
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silverwhisper said on Nov 14, 2007....
i'll talk about my wife and hobbies w/ colleagues. if a colleague has moved from co-worker to friend i'll talk about other things, too, but as a rule, i don't like being too open w/ colleagues, either.
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danetteb said on Nov 14, 2007....
Yeah, I believe here it is OK, but still, it has limits for me.
I will probably never share with you the one thing that I'm dying to share.
I don't know why I want to share it though. Maybe just because I hope that I will feel better afterwards. I suppose that's what psychologists are for, hey :P
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Fallyn said on Nov 14, 2007....
you can post anonymously to share it if you need to. -
danetteb said on Nov 15, 2007....
True! :)
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