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What I am on about? Who is Schrödinger and what about his pregnant cat?

Endulge me here for a moment. Erwin Schrödinger was a physisist who created a thought experiment concerning a cat, which, by the way, was not pregnant, in an effort to explain the Copenhagen inerpretation of quantum physics, which made it possible to conceive of subatomic particles in superimposed states (that is to say, they could be doing any number of things and be in any number of places at once), and only upon observation or measurement could they be discovered to be in any one particular state. At the moment of measurement or observation all other possibilities collapse. It’s kind of like choosing a lottery ball from the bunch spinning around in the old machine. Any one of the numbered balls may possibly come out but only when you stop the machine and a ball falls out do we find what number it is. Apparently this concept is acceptable with subatomic particles but not larger objects.

Your eyes are glazing over, aren’t they? Here’s a mocha latte and a cranberry pumpkin muffin I got from MissMimi (thanks, love).

So, Schrödinger came up with this idea that was not meant to condone abusive treatment of animals but express how this quantum quirk could be understood in the macro-world. He imagined a cat in a box with some method to kill the cat. (Some versions have a hammer falling to strike the cat dead, others have a vail of poisonous gas that will be released once the vail is broken.) There is a mechanism that will at some time cause the actions that will bring the cat to its doom but we don’t know when this will be. So, when we approach the box the cat is either alive or dead – or possibly dying horribly – and until we open the box and observe the mistreated cat, it can be in any state: alive, dead, or any number of stages near death. Hopefully, we open the box before the cat has been killed. For a moment the cat is in all possible states, meaning the cat is alive and dead at the same time, and in all states of the throes of death. Then we open the box and all states other than the one we observe collapse.

And that brings me to my point, if you are still with me. But even my point has a preamble. And amble I shall!

K and I are planning to marry next March. You know that most of you. We are arranging to be married in New Zealand. Before then, however, as many of you know, we had planned to go to Europe for Christmas. We had a date with the Alps! From there on I was looking to the future and planning possibly a trip to China next summer, certainly more hikes in Japan, the purchase of yet another camera, and I was beginning to plan an exhibition have been wanting to hold at a prestigious gallery in Tokyo for a couple of years now. After two years we were thinking to take a couple of months off and do an extended trip to maybe a dozen countries or so. All these things were possible. All we (or I) had to do was save the money and make the plans.

Then something happened. Or rather didn’t happen. K’s period was late. That in itself was nothing that hadn’t happened before. (Some of you are cluing into the pregnant cat part now, aren’t you?) But recently we had gotten a little careless; not really careless, no, but anyway, damn the torpedoes, we went ahead and had unprotected sex a few times. Let’s just say that we were very glad to be together and would together face anything the Life, Fate, God, the Universe, or whatever else threw at us. And that’s why this time the delayed menstral flow caused all plans to be frozen. Was she preggers? If she was, it would change everything. I saw all our plans suddenly as a path with many forks and another path with other forks branching off in the very near future. This new fork included a baby and was very different from the fork without the baby. Our future was in a superposition of states, or so it occurred to me to think so.

For a couple of weeks we wondered. She had small cramps and felt as though her period was coming. But after almost three weeks there was reason enough for her to visit the local woman’s clinic. The box was then opened, so to speak (eww, the innuendo just occurred to me), and we found the cat alive and pregnant. Or rather, K was pregnant.  There was no cat. That was just a thought experiment made up by some guy named Schrödinger. (I told you to wake up.) At that moment, all the possible futures on the branch without a baby collapsed and the only branch we saw ahead of us now was with a baby. The trip to Europe had to be cancelled. Oh, well. We can still go ahead with plans to marry in New Zealand it seems but the wedding dress sizing will be an issue. And we are not to drive on any unpaved roads. Hiking in NZ is out!

So, anyway, it seems next year in June there will be a MiniHot or Hotakette in the world. Am I ready? That’s the subject for another post. Am I happy? It certainly is exciting and my brain is on the subject almost all day. All to come in a forthcoming post.

However, in closing I will add that I left two clues here on SoulCast a couple of weeks ago and gingersoul picked up on them right away. Unless anyone else has guessed, ginger gets the prize for being the most perceptive. A big hug to her for paying attention.



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  • phoeby said on Nov 11, 2007....
    hi
    how do you get those 2 little dots above the o like that?

    phoeby
  • hotaka said on Nov 11, 2007....

    I copied the name from Wikipedia and pasted it here.

     

  • phoeby said on Nov 11, 2007....
    oh. ok. thanks
    phoeby.
  • quietone said on Nov 11, 2007....
    congrats hotaka! Now you are going to have to go get some portrait lenses!  :)
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Nov 11, 2007....
    OMG, hooray for a baby!! :)

    ((huge celebratory hugs))

    Congratulations, hottie! :) June is a great birth month for wonderful little surprises - little one was a June baby, too.

    ~Infernal
  • evil_twin said on Nov 11, 2007....
    Congratulations, man :-) You know, I did pick up your clue. I saw you say that K's period was late, but I didn't say anything. Only because I was waiting for you to elaborate and tell us what was going on! I thought, "surely he wouldn't drop a hint bomb like that and not write about it?"

    But this is great news. Isn't it? If it were me, I'd be a little terrified right now. But also happy. Sometimes the best things in life are unplanned by us, but someone else up there has a better plan.

    Good luck to you guys and congratulations again!

    -evil_twin LA
  • silverwhisper said on Nov 11, 2007....
    i did notice but not before GS did. while i'm a bit surprised, congratulations hotaka!

    er...how's this going over with her family?

    ed
  • botoni said on Nov 11, 2007....
    This is wonderful Hotaka! I m claiming honorary Grandpa status as of now!
  • pickersplock said on Nov 11, 2007....
    Congratulations!
  • MissMimi said on Nov 11, 2007....
    Oh, hotcakes!  A baby!  Congratulations to you and K! 
  • nursecutie said on Nov 11, 2007....

    Oh......you lost me completely at the beginning!! My eyes glazed over.......LOL But Kyle already told me the news so I skipped ahead to the good part!!

    Yay!! Congratulations, Hotaka! I am very happy for you guys :)

    xxoo natalie xxoo

  • gingersoul said on Nov 11, 2007....

    Hottiebabe......lol......i am very detail oriented person but specially for anything concerning my dearest friends.....:-)

    So i take the prize and a kiss from you...right? :-D

    Only you would have announced this great news starting with Schrondiger and his pregnant cat......lol...

    I am afraid you will not have the more than deserved avalanche of congratulations since you didnt put in the title the magic words...PREGNANT and BABY.....lol..

    But here again...for you and K...my biggest, happiest, Italian.....CONGRATULAZIONI!!!!

    If Bottie claims his title of granpa........i am your baby's special godmommy.....can i? MiniHot and Hotakette are great cute names for your little one.........

    I am very happy for both of you.....{{{{{hugs}}}}} 

     

     

  • Actorguy said on Nov 11, 2007....
    Congratulations Hotaka!!  My quantum physics is awfully rusty but I've always worried about that darn cat!
  • fearing said on Nov 11, 2007....
    Wonderful news about a baby Hotaka!  Congrats!  I admit, I was completely lost with the physics stuff but I got the part about the baby.  lol!  
  • destinydiva said on Nov 11, 2007....
    wow congratulations!!  I hadnt picked up on anything, but I did have a soulcast dream the other night, you were there taking pictures and nursecutie was pregnant!!!  so i was kinda close!!  :-)  he he

    congratulations!!  love how you posted the news :-) xx
  • Alyss said on Nov 11, 2007....
    Congratulations! I did wonder myself from your previous posts dear hotaka but my own experiences have made me very, very wary of bringing up the subject for fear of causing harm.

    But now you've made the announcement I can say I am very pleased for you and K. =)
  • Zayda said on Nov 11, 2007....
    Congratulations Hotaka
  • englishdatingconfessions said on Nov 11, 2007....
    what an interesting way of publishing your good news! Congratulations !!!
    kids change your life....  but without a doubt ...they change it for the better

    kate x
  • secretlife said on Nov 11, 2007....
    Congratulations hotaka!
    you're embarking on quite a climb....and i wish you every happiness in this new adventure!
  • Battycat said on Nov 11, 2007....
    Congratulations hotka, I'm sure this will be your most exciting adventure :-)
  • Lioness said on Nov 11, 2007....
    wow hotaka, that's wonderful news!!!! congratulations on your new blessing!

    (sorry,  my mind boggled on that cat thing. lol)
  • hotaka said on Nov 12, 2007....
    This is a first. Not only is my post on the feature page but at the top too! Thanks everyone who commented thus far. I am touched. You guys... Aww shucks. (No, thanks, silverW, I don't need an oyster right now. Save it for the fish fight.)

    Okay. Replies. Replies. But not reprise. That would be Japanese pronunciation.

    pheoby, glad I could help. Umm... you didn't actually read the post, did you?

    quietone, I doubt I will be able to afford lenses much longer, and I don't mean longer than portrait lenses (photographer's joke). K already confirmed that we need a video camera now.

    infernal, yes, I have a good feeling about June. But I wonder how the child will be - a Gemini born on the cusp of Cancer just before the summer solstice? I always figured if I had kids they would be mixed up.

    evilT, thanks man. And hey, you could call me daddy but just do it in a PM, okay? I am trying not to be terrified. Just take it as it comes and deal with it. Part of getting this far is by putting on blinders and rose coloured glasses. It'll all be fine. Just fine. I am a duck: floating serenly on the surface but paddling like mad beneath. As a groom to be I am sure you will know that feeling.

    silverW, I was sure a few more discerning SCasters would clue in but only ginger said anything (in a PM - wonderful system that is). I am not surprised my little message clicked with you. Her parents are really excited about this. My mom and dad will find out with the morning post on Friday, maybe Thursday. The bomb is on the way. Mom's gonna be freakin' delirious. She said she gave up hope of becoming a grandmother.

    botoni, you get special status for sure. Someday I hope little MiniHot/Hotakette will sit on your lap and hear stories of the wild Canadian West with Indians (First nations people, I know), Stampedes and gay rock singers. We'll look you up when we go dinosaur hunting in the badlands.

    pickers, thank you!

    MissMimi, thanks, and thank you for the cranberry pumpkin muffin!

    nursecutie, Sorry about the occular glazing. But if I just came out and said it that wouldn't be me. Your turn is coming in a while, eh?

    ginger, yes, a hug and a kiss. I have kept K updated with your PMs. You can be honorary SoulCast godmother for the little one. Cheers, soulsibling.

    Actorguy, hey, you know what they say, "Anyone who thinks he understands quantum physics doesn't." It's easier to be humanitarian and worry about the fateful feline.

    fearing, don't worry. I am usually lost in the physics myself. That's why I am now reading the seven books in the Narnia series. Much easier to digest. Thanks for the congrats.

    destinyD, that is a coincidence if I ever heard one. Maybe nursie should go get a check up too. If she is preggers, Kyle, it wasn't me! So, about my irony. I always said I loved kids as long as they were someone else's. I always said I was too selfish with my time to give it up for children and I always said I had too many things I wanted to do in my life to have time and money for kids. My mom said she gave up on hoping my sister and I would have kids. My friends never thought I would have kids either. And here I am, having to give up many of the possibilities I held dear and I am very excited with no regrets. Kind of ironic that the guy who never wanted kids is thrilled to the gills (yes, I said gills Fallyn) at the prospect of becoming a dad.

    Alyss, that you picked up on the clues doesn't surprise me either. You have been with me since you came on SC and I think you know me well enough. Thanks for noticing and exercising decorum. But your comments would have been welcomed in a PM. Btw, I was thinking about you this morning and wondering how you are doing. I'll stop by later.

    Zayda, thank you super Z. Don't worry. I won't be reading Dune to my child until he/she's at least 19.

    englishdatingconfessions, a long name but I like it. Thank you for showing up. I'll stop by to visit you later. Hey, I announced my marriage in a post about currency exchange. Why be normal?

    secretlife, thanks so much. And you can be sure once the little hiker is old enough we'll be off to the mountains together.

    Battycat, hey, thanks. Yeah, what an adventure. This one will go on the rest of my life. It looks fun!

    Lioness, the cat thing was just an obstacle course to see who could get through. Anyone who did (or was astute enough to skip over the cat thing) is a real friend. And anyone who didn't but realized what they'd missed is a friend too. Lemon or sugar? We set trick questions to test the faithfulness of the people we love. But it's all with a wink and a smile.
  • Fallyn said on Nov 12, 2007....
    YAY hotaka!!!!!!!!!!!

    i will post you something on how to treat a pregnant kitty.....or...um....something like that. *grin*

  • hotaka said on Nov 12, 2007....
    Thanks Fallyn. Er... I hope the quantum physics part didn't rub you the wrong way. I just read your angry post.
  • Fallyn said on Nov 12, 2007....
    *laughing*

    to be completely truthful....i'm actually quite an intellectual.......
    i just haven't had the head for it lately.......

    i love things like quantum theory and all that......

    just not when it is being force fed me and being made to wake up and stare someone in the eyes while they ramble on about it for 2 hours.......
    or while i'm being told to ignore a crying baby so i can hear about it....etc.
    it wasn't the quantum physics that had me pissed. it was the way in which it was being "taught" to me.
  • mobil said on Nov 12, 2007....

    DADDY ! Congratulations, that was quite a well written around the horn way to tell this story Hot. All my best you to you and to K and of course little HotaK.

    No climbing but K will be doing some heavy lifting till June. Daddyhood is a great place Buddy, I know you are way up to it. God Bless

  • hotaka said on Nov 12, 2007....
    HotaK. I like it. I think I will be refering to the baby that way. Good one, mobil. Thanks for your kind words. I am pleased to have your name on the comment list.
  • Alyss said on Nov 13, 2007....
    hotaka, Even asking in a PM could have been crossing a line that could cause harm so I kept quiet and waited. Assumptions can be very dangerous and offence can be caused with a careless word.


  • thenack said on Nov 19, 2007....
    Congrats! Any idea if its a quark or a lepton(being the two basic "thingys" that all life is made of, much like boys and girls are both needed)? Doesn't matter though. Good luck and all the best!

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