• Fallyn said on Nov 10, 2007....

  *VERY big hug* i've never been robbed, but i do know what it feels like to be violated and it SUCKS!!!
  i'm so sorry this happened queen.......so sorry.
  

• polarheart said on Nov 10, 2007....

  Queenie, I am so sorry to hear this.  It is esp terrible that you were in the house when that person came in.   I thank God for keeping you and your sister safe.  Your dad will start to calm down soon, I think he was just afraid and sometimes parents get it wrong too. . .dont be too mad at him.
  ((((((hugs)))))

• evil_twin said on Nov 10, 2007....

  I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I can just imagine how scared you are right now. I think your father is scared too and he's not letting on about it. He's focusing on the monetary loss, because I think it's probably too hard for him to acknowledge what else he might have lost. But it'll be okay. You'll be safe now. I know it doesn't seem like it, but you will be.
  
  -evil_twin LA
  
  

• Zayda said on Nov 10, 2007....

  Queenie: First, I am so glad that everyone is okay and that nothing worse happened. I can't imagine how scared you were and still are.
  
  
  I think e_t is probably right. I bet your dad is scared too about what happened and more so about what could have happened, but he doesn't know how to express that fear so it's coming out at anger at the situation which is being channeled as anger at you.

• queenparanoia said on Nov 10, 2007....

  hello guys thank you for your comments. me an my father are okay now... i'm updating what happened next. visit my next post.

  fallyn: it's okay fallyn i'm okay now. stress but i'm okay.

  polar, eviltwin, zayda: youre right my father was only worried about us. dont worry guys he's okay now... 

• secretlife said on Nov 10, 2007....

  oh queenie this is a terrible thing.
   
  i'm glad you and your sister are safe, and that your dad is seeing a little more clearly now.

• hotaka said on Nov 11, 2007....

  I think it is most likely that had the robber been seen he would have fled. A former student of mine was followed home one night and as she lay in bed she saw a hand come around her bedroom door. Someone entered and took her purse. She screamed and the person ran away. She swears she locked the door but the robber got in anyway. He was just trying to get something valuable and then he was off. He got her phone and i-Pod and her new train pass plus some other minor things. She was not hurt of course but she was terrified of going to sleep for the next week or so.

  Still, to think that someone was wandering around your house with everyone home is really freaky. The nerve of the robber to just walk in like that. I am glad that you are okay. Your father needs to chill out. He should be protecting his family, not blaming them.

• queenparanoia said on Nov 11, 2007....

  secretlife: tahnks secret. everythings okay now. i think the police can find the robbers soon... they had a very good lead...

  hotaka; that's terrible with your student i hope she didnt get phobias with these... good thing the robber didnt see he might have stabbed us! but dont worry hotaka teh chance of him getting caught is pretty right now... and dont worry about my father i think he just freak out... thanks for your concern sweet panda!!! =)

• silverwhisper said on Nov 11, 2007....

  holy hell, queen!
  
  kyle beat me to it, and i'm glad to see that your dad's gotten his priorities in order again.
  
  damn, why the hell is this year so rough on your damned phone?!
  
  [hug]
  
  like everyone else, of course i'm glad you and your sister are OK. :>
  
  ed

• queenparanoia said on Nov 11, 2007....

  ed; i'm so unlucky with cellphones... ut i guess i'm more lucky that i'm alive right? dont worry i'm okay now... =)

• Fallyn said on Nov 11, 2007....

  *HUGS* we're all glad you are alive.

• lfbno7 said on Nov 11, 2007....

  I'm a New Yorker. "Robbed" is old news. Join the club. Your father is transfering his anger and fear and upset feelings against you because they have to go somewhere and he can't point them at the robber. It's pretty understandable but it's a drag for you. He's like a baby hiding under covers and thinking he's safe if only everyone locks the door. It's very childish of him. He's being a baby.

• CreativeWoman said on Nov 11, 2007....

  Queen,
  I'm just happy that no one was hurt.  I'll bet the robber thought that no one was home.  Did you call the police?
  
  CW
  

• queenparanoia said on Nov 11, 2007....

  fallyn: {{{{{HUGS}}}} thanks... =)

   

• ellamae14 said on Nov 11, 2007....

  queen: I didn't know. i'm sorry. I know how it feels. and we were not actually robbed then. a few years back we had the same incident in our house. someone made an opening in our roof and we saw it before the actual robbery took place. The robber have fled. But since that day- we had that fear inside that someone will break into our house one day. You are very lucky nothing bad happened to you. malamang adik ang nagnakaw sa bahay niyo. Pag ganun, ok lang na makuhaan ka ng alahas- kasi hindi na nakakakilala ng katwiran ang tao kapag bangag sa droga. ingat kayo palagi, hindi naman sa nanakot pero malaki ang posibilidad na bumalik yun. at malamang nagmamatyag pa rin sya. wag kang padaig sa takot. kaya mo yan.

• queenparanoia said on Nov 12, 2007....

  ellamae; i agree he might be an addict. and dont worry we have a suspect already... yup the fear is still there... but i'm fighting it.

• czarxtian said on Nov 12, 2007....

  that sucks! yep, only in the phils. remember my post just recently about my stolen celphone? someone entered our house too while i was away for just less than 10 minutes. and my dad was upstairs. the mobile phone was the only thing that went missing. the thief ignored my watch and my dad's phone (some kind of a primitive one) even though it was near my phone when it was stolen. I was just buying something in a sari sari just about 50 steps away... How I love that phone too. 

• queenparanoia said on Nov 12, 2007....

  czarxtian: me too!!!!!!!! huhuhuhuhuhu hindi ko nga pinagsasawaan eh!!! dont worry i'm fine.... =) grabe talaga mag cellphone snatchers dito!!! =)

• Fallyn said on Nov 12, 2007....

  i wonder why cell phones are such hot ticket items.

• queenparanoia said on Nov 12, 2007....

  fallyn: did you now that the philippines is called the text message nation? most people here have cellphones... and sadly, there are more cellphones snatchers in here too... it's a third wolrd country after all... but dont worry i have a feeling my cellphone will be returned... =) 

• Fallyn said on Nov 12, 2007....

  well, i hope you are right.,
  text message nation? that's interesting.
  

• queenparanoia said on Nov 12, 2007....

  fallyn: well most people here used the cellphone's text message than the calling part of a cellhone... =)

• Fallyn said on Nov 12, 2007....

  ah, i see.
  i think i use mine about equally.
  sometimes i like to text cause then they can answer at their leisure instead of having to talk on the phone.
  

• queenparanoia said on Nov 12, 2007....

  fallyn: you see it much more cheaper when you text than to call... that's why most people here just use the texting in cellphones... =)

• wakingharmony said on Jan 15, 2008....

  ((((((((((((((((((Queen))))))))))))))))))))) I am so sorry to hear this. I agree with lfbno your Dad is feeling scared and like he can't protect his family.... I am happy you are ok and your little sister... I read how much you love her and I am sure your spirit would be broken if anything ever happened to her. You are a good Sister & daughter!!!  I was Robbed when I was 20 when I worked at a Fotomat store was really scary!

• queenparanoia said on Jan 16, 2008....

  dont worry waking... me and my family are okay... this ordeal has already passed and the robber was already caught... =)

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