Why?
Why do some people think that dating someone for 3, 4, 5 months, even up to a year constitutes as long enough to get engaged and married???
I know everyone is different, but if you are still really young and have a semi disfunctional relationship, why the hell would you think getting married is going to solve your problems?
Or are you just NUTS?!?!? Do you people know why our divorce rate is so high? It is partly due to idiots like you who are all smitten after two weeks of knowing someone, and then deciding it would be a great idea to take a stroll down the aisle. Does anyone take marriage seriously anymore??? People get engaged, married, and then divorced all within a year these days... it's, for a lack of a better word, RIDICULOUS.
Marriage should be a union between two MATURE ADULTS who have spent years learning and growing together, sacrificing, going through ups and down and then coming out a better, stronger couple. Why are some people in such a rush? If you have found someone you think is special, and that person truly loves you then he/she will still be there if you wait and don't marry them tomorrow.
Just WAIT people. Slow down and get to know one another first and maybe, just maybe, your marriage will last longer than the rest of 50-something % of America. Just a thought.
Does anyone else feel as strongly as me about the divorce rate here in the states?
BB
