It all looks good and works well in all the Hollywoood movies, the classic hunks are envied by all men worldwide and they are every girls fantasy. The fact is that a lot of us guys look at these role models and spend a lot of time and effort styling ourselves with the same smooth looks, manner, charms and class as some of these heroes only to wonder what went wrong when it all goes flat, on paper it all looks great, a nice looking guy, great job, security, style and when you meet that girl you were attracted to and try and woo her with a passionate date, wow, she ain't interested, well she makes all the lame excuses and you move on only to find out that she's dating a guy that's the complete opposite, unemployed, rugged, aggressive, rude and bad mannered. Well the situation here is one that used to get me confused, but I later got to find out that a lot of women when they were younger had their image of an ideal dream man they would like to be with, but as they got older they accepted what was closer to them and got used to that style of relationship which would continue for a length of time, unfortunatlely a lot of these women put up with a lot of abuse which was either physical or mental which in both cases left mental scars and emotional turmoil. I have noticed that on a lot of occassions that dating women who have endured problems throughout most of their past relationships often can't help reliving their ordeals and it's no wonder that to date an easy going 'boy next door' would be boring if he isn't the type of person to keep her nerves to the extreme edge 24/7. I often felt like the #1 jerk when I was placed in these situations but I decided to change thing would s around by being creative, more imaginative, raw, wild and flambouyant, not in an extavegant way but differently in away that would capture her heart and soul that wouldn't compete with her past but let her know that there is good and bad in men, both would be wild, but the choice for her to accept would be a painful or exciting experience and if you work it well you will win her heart with a heart felt experience she can never forget.