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Do you mind when soulcasters have their own name for you? Do you think it is rude or impolite? Does it upset you if it is your name shortened or changed? or do you like it?

I get called des, destiny, desty...miss diva!!! :-)

I dont mind at all... I like it cus it feels kinda personal...hmm not sure that came out right...I hope it did....

I have my own names for some soulcasters.

I dont remember how I came about using them, (except for mr7's and thats cus I could never type his name right so I just made it mr7!! :-)
Or if I asked is it ok to use them...

So tell me...what names do you like or dislike being called?
What 'pet names ' do you have for other soulcasters?
If you could invent your own pet name that everyone used what would it be?

Just Curious :-)

Destiny xx




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  • beyondtheveil said on Nov 05, 2007....
    Actually, I much prefer mine to be shortened.
    Its good to hear you don't mind either, as I call you des.
    gingersoul is ginsoul
    uniquely-ironic is unique, and unique she is
    secretlife is secret
    There are so many others....
  • destinydiva said on Nov 05, 2007....
    Its good to hear you dont mind cus I call you beyond! and gingersoul ...ginger
    unique & secret the same, I guess mostly its out of sheer laziness! :-) especially if I am replying to loads of comments at once, but once I use my own name for someone once it usually sticks :-) xx
  • destinydiva said on Nov 05, 2007....
    cept with evil twin and nursecutie!! I change all the time with those two, nat, natalie, nursecutie......evil, kyle.....  I'm gonna have to stick to one name for you guys I think, as I confuse myself!!  :-) mr twin is pretty cool! and sounds nicer than evil!!  :-) xx

  • the_infernal_optimist said on Nov 05, 2007....
    I tend to shorten the usernames of most SCers, especially those with particularly long ones and those I interact with regularly (I have nicknames for almost everyone I know IRL - it's one of those not-so-awkward ways to show affection, IMO). I also tend to call people by name when they give it (Kyle, ed, Natalie, etc.).

    There are a few SCers I have nicknames for that aren't strictly abbreviations - hotaka is hottie, botoni is bottie, wombat is wombie, ed is all kinds of variations on a silver tracks/fish theme...

    I love having nicknames, too - it feels friendlier somehow. There's not much I wouldn't answer to, especially when the person using it is a good friend. I have no idea what the "perfect" pet name for me would be.

    ~Infernal
  • skald said on Nov 05, 2007....
    I call you Destiny because I kind of like it. Ginger I call Ginger as I don't get her name right and I think Ginger is Cute. Polar I call Polar rather than Polarcakes. Rupert is Rube now and I could go on and on. Then as I am not a native English speaker and I sometimes shorten names I wonder if I do something wrong. You know saying making some bad name out of the name.
    I really don't think mine can be shortened. Some try a pet name an then lengthen it. lol
  • destinydiva said on Nov 05, 2007....
    skald~ yeah yours is nice and short so I never shorten it anymore :-) we could call you skaldikins :-) thats cute  what dya think? :-) xx

    infernal~ "it's one of those not-so-awkward ways to show affection",   that was what I was thinking when I was typing the post, about liking how different people have different names for each other, it is nice, and friendlier somehow :-) xx




  • isthisit said on Nov 05, 2007....
    I dont so much mind my name on here being shortened, however once my name on another site was mfgdpos, and everyone would shorten it to mf. and as I would be in a chat room or elsewhere I would be in a good conversation and then someone would call me that, and forgetting it was part of my sn, I would think people were getting mad at me for some reason!
  • destinydiva said on Nov 05, 2007....
    isthisit ~ lol  thats the kinda thing  I would do! I have a 3 second memory span!!
    how did you come up with mfgdpos?? thats one I would defo shorten :-)  interesting name you have here tho :-) welcome to my blog xx
  • uniquely-ironic said on Nov 05, 2007....
    I guess I never wondered if a nicname I came up with was offensive.  I always figured someone would say something to me if they didn't like it.  I do abbreviate a lot of them.  Bot, SL, SW, BTV, ET, nurse, Destiny to name a few.
     
    I'm considering combining Evil_Twin and nursecutie like they do the hollywood couples.  How about Evilnurse, Evilcutie, nurseTwin or cutieTwin?
     
    I think as long as nicnames are used with affection I'm all for it.  I think it's smart for people to use u-i or unique instead of the whole long thing.
  • Twylarants said on Nov 05, 2007....
    Do you think people would really mind?  It's just a user name, after all. I don't type well, so anything short is good for me.  I'm just happy someone talks to me.  Call me whatever you want, it's not like I'll remember it anyway :\  lol!!!
  • lfbno7 said on Nov 05, 2007....
    i get called all kinds of things, and it's my own fault for picking such a stupid name.
  • secretlife said on Nov 05, 2007....
    i like it when people shorten my nickname---
    secret or SL are the ones people use most.
     
    funny, but i'm not as good at shortening others---
    normally i just use the first part of a name- like Alien, or beyond, or ginger, or daily or destiny for you....sometimes i use initials....like CW or TNP...
    it's easier to shorten the name for people you know a little bit- but i'll admit most of the time it's just laziness on my part!
  • botoni said on Nov 05, 2007....
    Getting re-named is fun. I enjoy the things I get called on here. Makes me know I m part of the gang. I twist and turn others names at will and I really hope if I ve cross the line I ll get told to shape up.
  • Fallyn said on Nov 06, 2007....
    i think ifbno should be iffy. *grin*
  • destinydiva said on Nov 06, 2007....
    fallyn, yeah that kinda suits him :-)  he he xx

  • Fallyn said on Nov 06, 2007....
    it's sure a whole lot easier to type!
  • destinydiva said on Nov 06, 2007....
    thats why I call him mr7!! :-) xx
  • destinydiva said on Nov 06, 2007....
    unique~ thats a good idea ...I like cutie twins :-) xx

    tw~ lol!! you crack me up!! your lovley...so sweet   :-) xx

    mr7~ yeah, have to agree....  its a stupid name!!  lol  :-)  well its not...its just hard to spell!!  whatdya think of iffy??  kina suits ya dont ya think?  like you would say...look out for that mr7 he is a bit iffy lol!!!!!  only playing with ya :-) xx

    secret~ hiya :-) yeah same here...a lot of it is laziness, but then it kinda sticks doesnt it :-) xx

    botoni~ yeah I have seen some of your nicknames :-)  botti!! I like that one :-)
    or maybe thong guy??  he he :-) xx






  • Mamie said on Nov 06, 2007....
    i think the nicknames are cute, personal and fun!
  • destinydiva said on Nov 06, 2007....
    well said mamie!!!  :-)  I dont have a nickname for you... I think mamie flows just nicely :-) xx
  • evil_twin said on Nov 06, 2007....
    I don't mind people having nicknames for me. I think the one that most people use, is the one that makes me laugh every time I see it. E_T. Because I can't help but think of the movie ET. It doesn't bother me at all though. But everyone can call me Kyle if they want.

    Mostly I abbreviate names here if they're too long. I call you Des all the time because Destinydiva is too long! But it never occurred to me that anyone would care if I shortened or abbreviated their names. I don't have any actual pet names for other Soulcasters though. Except for Nat :-)

    -evil_twin LA
  • wild-ting said on Nov 06, 2007....
    I don't mind it all.
    I do it because I am a terrible typist. Also, for the more difficult names or the ones with odd spellings and/or numerals it's easier to do a shortened nickname.
    Too, I've noticed since being on the Net so much I've gotten to be a lazy writer and/or I write informally. I use a lot of shortened, abbreviated or slang terms.
    -WT
  • Mr_Box said on Nov 06, 2007....

    I've only been here a short time, but I've got nicknames for just about everyone. Especially Miss Gingery-Soul.

    I enjoy calling people Mr. or Miss or Ms. followed by their user name. I'm strange like that.

    I certainly hope I've offended no one. I like nicknames. They make things seem more personal.

    My favorite nickname I've been given here is a tie between Sexy Boxy and Boxalicious.

  • silverwhisper said on Nov 06, 2007....
    i tend to shorten people's usernames when they're a big long to type, often using initials in some cases (e.g., gingersoul --> GS) whereas with others, a shortened form (e.g., the infernal optimist --> infernal). i don't follow any real rhyme or reason to which names i abbreviate vs which ones i shorten, i don't think, although as a rule i tend to abbreviate rather than shorten.

    me, i prefer to go by "ed" since let's face it, it's quicker to type than "silverswhisper" and as short as "SW". :> it also has the merit of you know...being my name. :>

    ed
  • pookiedookie said on Nov 06, 2007....
    i think that is endearing.
  • satyr said on Nov 06, 2007....
    Mine seldom gets shortened, but I shorten others.  I view it as a sign of familiarity and closeness. 
  • Fallyn said on Nov 06, 2007....
    well. satyr....the only way to shorten it would be to call you sat...and well....satyr is just SO much cooler. :P
  • PassionTraveler said on Nov 06, 2007....
    I refer to myself as PT, others call me Passion and PT, but yeah, sure, I'd love a nickname. Anyone wanna give me one?  ;-)

    As for GIVING nicknames, I'm like most. It's usually initials or a shortened version of a moniker that I use to refer to my fellow Soul Casters, however, the only soulcaster I ever called a nickname out of character was GhostBlogger... I welcomed his only post by saying "Welcome, Oh Apparitionous One." He seemed to like that a lot. Said it sounded Regal. ;) LOL.

    Other than that, nah, it's just standard moniker crunching for me.

    PT
  • queenparanoia said on Nov 06, 2007....
    well for me the names you called are okay. some of you call me queennie and missmimi is calling kewpie. it's okay for me. as long as it's not anything embarrassing or malicious... =) 
  • Fallyn said on Nov 06, 2007....
    passion.....how bout Pash?
  • PassionTraveler said on Nov 07, 2007....
    Bring 'em on one and all, Okay Fallyn, to you I'm Pash! go for it!. Anyone else? Any others?

    PT
  • Fallyn said on Nov 07, 2007....
    *grin*
  • isthisit said on Nov 08, 2007....
    destinydiva!  I had tried for over a half hour to come up with a name that noone had already had and I was getting frusterated, so I finally said (and I am quite vulgur at times) said out loud to myself. you gd mf pos  (obviously abbreviated for what I REALLY said) and just put them all together and that was my new sn, funny noone else had thought of it! lol
  • lfbno7 said on Nov 08, 2007....
    hi, miss deevee.
  • botoni said on Nov 08, 2007....
    There are times I have to be very careful about how I nickname. I suspect Dazed and Confused would not like what I ve almost written several times with out thinking. D&C just doesnt cut it.
  • crybabylu said on Nov 09, 2007....
    i don't care what anyone calls me, in fact, if they could think of a better username for me they could call me that.
  • crybabylu said on Nov 09, 2007....
    once in awhile i write destiny,  but i really like "diva".
  • Twylarants said on Nov 09, 2007....
    "D&C just doesn't 'cut' it".......that's hysterical on a very 'eww!' level.    
  • preacherman said on Nov 09, 2007....

    some people have been writing "preach" already for me, and several are writing 'cry'  for dee,  but then others are going ahead and using her name, and she loves being called dee, which isn't her full name, it is a nickname for her real name, but if i told u i'd either have to kill u?  Ha!  or she would kill me for tellin,  she hates her real name.

  • destinydiva said on Nov 10, 2007....
    preacher....hey that enough info to guess but not enough info to be in trouble for telling us.....  so does that count for having to kill or be killed???  :-)
    judy? dina? deelila!! ?? :-)

    tw~ yep I agree... eeew level!!!  I like that :-) xx

    babylu~ I like diva!!  :-) xx

    botoni~ lmao about the d&c  gag....cut it...as tw said...another level of eeewww  :-) xx

    mr7~ miss deevee I could warm to that one :-) xx  helllllloooooo  :-) xx

    isthis it~ lol  took me awhile but I finally worked out what the initials stood for ! lmao  :-) xx

    pt~ monika crunching!! love that term :-) I call you pt....I guess if I didnt have the whole trav history....  I'd prob call you Ptrav :-) xx

    queenieP~ how could anyone ever be malicious to you :-) xx

    saty~ it is familiarity and closeness, I think that too, but fallyns right satyr has the cool factor!!!!!!  :-) xx

    pookie~ I shortened yours already! :-) endearing it is!  :-) xx

    silver~ lol ya know...my name!!!  that hint of sarcasm was very funny :-) I still call you silver and its longer than your name!!  weird huh! I guess names just stick, I do occassionally call you ed! depends what mood I am in :-) xx

    mr box~ thats what I do....mr river mr grape has anyone seen mr grape amr 7 .....  and yours is already done for me!!  he he mr box ! boxalicsious is the best IMO :-) xx

    has anyone seen mr grape around lateley? seems awhile... hmmm will have to go check out his blog :-) xx

    wild1~ he he I got a new nickname for you already!! :-) It does make ya lazy doesnt it, I'm a textaholic too!!  so I always abbreviate everything! :-) xx

    evil~ I like ET sounds more cute than evil!!!  maybe I'll try and switch...but its true once a name sticks it sticks!!  :-) tho it never feels right putting evil! I back and too between evil and kyle! if i put kyle it usually means i had one of those pondering moments of 'oohh evil sounds not nice...I;ll put kyle' he he I do that ! ...in my head!! :-) xx




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