Responses to my posts have been interesting. I am not surprised that some people do not approve, while some neither approve or disapprove. Im a big girl, I can take the criticism.

I am just writing as a way of expressing thoughts and feelings, which is what blogs are for.
I am not advocating anything to anyone. Far be it from me to tell anyone they "should" or "should not" do anything.
I could be totally wrong and only time will tell. Or I could be on to something that will turn out to be good. Too soon to tell I am sure.

But I do appreciate the feedback.

Soon I will write about my second experience.

I have written about the possibility of having sex with people other than my spouse. Its not like im out doing something every other day. In the past six months i have had exactly two extra curricular sexual experiences. Ok, I did do the second guy twice, so Its more like three times with two people.

At present there are no plans for the future. I do not know if I will do more or not. I am finding that the experiences i have had, and just the idea of it, are fulfilling in themselves for now at least.

There is a huge distinction between having an affair and having a good screw. I did not have an affair. There was no emotional involvement other than just basic friendship. It was pure sexual experimentation, thats all.