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I went to the gym for a short one-hour work out between soccer games yesterday.  It was my way of getting a few minutes alone and relieving the stress from my hectic weekend.  One of the "regulars" that I usually see in the gym during the week was there.  I don't know him well but since we run into each other so frequently, we often exchange small talk.  He asked if the girls that walked into the club with me were my kids and then, of course, commented on how beautiful they are.  He then said that someone asked him the other day if I'm married and he didn't know the answer.  I confirmed that I am single.
 
I know he wasn't asking for himself as he often comes to the gym with his wife.  For some reason I chose not to pursue the conversation yesterday.  I'm not sure if it was because I was so focused on my work out or because I didn't want to come across as a flirtatious desperate bimbo or something ... but I am curious ... really curious.
 
This morning I went to the gym at my usual time.  I found myself looking at each member and thinking "Is he the one who wanted to know?"  I mean, come on, it had to be one of the men who come in during my "regular" time.  And it's not like there are many singles in my community ... if one of the men is actually single I think I should know about it (unless he is unattractive of course : ) !!!


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  • silverwhisper said on Oct 29, 2007....
    i'll confess, i'm curious why you didn't say that you're involved. ?

    ed
  • simplyklo said on Oct 29, 2007....
    Hmmm ... making me think are you - good catch!  Well, my relationship has been on again/off again for five years now and he always seems to find some "excuse" to walk out on us.  I love him and would marry him in a second but I know longer hold onto those dreams as if they'll ever really come true with him.  I don't cheat and when actually asked out I admit to being "involved" but otherwise I guess I just don't advertise the fact anymore.  I know - this all must sound ridiculous - I hate drama!!! : )
  • secretlife said on Oct 29, 2007....
    i wonder if it's the guy from spinning class???

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i must be off-guard or vulnerable when i'm working out! lol...

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