My first affair, or extracurricular sex, happened last summer in June.
It was a roller coaster of emotions, before during and after.
I do some traveling with my job. I have a friend who works for the same company I work for but lives 200 miles away. At some point I decided that he would be the one.
We talked online for several months and talked sex more and more. We cybered some. He talked me through my own sexual frustrations. He is a great guy, and understands that I am not looking for a new husband. Once I was sure he understood that, I felt more free.

The opportunity finally presented itself. I was going out of town - to Dallas - for 3 days for a conference. My friend worked it out so he could be at the same conference. We stayed in different hotels.

Now I am one to analyze things to death, and he had to have a lot of patience for me to get through all my thoughts and concerns.
The first night there we just talked and talked. We went to his room at his hotel and made out some. This was kind of by design. I needed to get my courage up, so we had agreed that we probably would not have sex that first night.

We did make out a long time, and touched a lot. Lots of kissing and touching. More touching than i get even with sex at home. I sucked his cock and he came in my mouth. Now I have been with only a couple men before this. Previous blow jobs I had given lasted less than a minute. This time it was well over five minutes. Wow, i thought. Had he pushed it at that moment, i probably would have went ahead. The experience showed me that i really wanted this.
Some might disagree, but I dont feel that was having sex. To me, a penis has to penetrate for it to be "real" sex.

I went back to my room and called my husband. Told him i was there safely and that the meetings were boring, which was true. I did not tell him i had spent two hours in the arms of another man and that I was intending to fuck him.

I felt guilty, dirty, and ashamed. I also felt extremely horny, erotic even, and liberated.
I so wanted this.
I do love my husband, but my husband is just plain lousy in bed. He also has a very low sex drive. Once a week is a lot to him.
You must also understand, that I am 42 years old, and had never been given an orgams by a man. My friend convinced me he could do the job. For years I would finish myself off.

So the second night, after the conference, we went back to his room.
I felt more  at ease, more relaxed, and a few glasses of wine didnt hurt.

My friend started by giving me a nice massage of my neck and shoulders. Kissing my neck very softly.There was no rush, no feeling of pressure. He seemed truly interested in my pleasure, which was very different.
I was nervous but also aroused.

We sat on the couch and talked for about an hour, between kissing and touching.
He even told me i could back out if i wanted to.
I didnt want to, but I did remember that I needed to call my husband to check in. I did this from his hotel room. That was the weirdest feeling in the world. I was telling my husband that I loved him, which looking at the man who was about to fuck me.

We had to start from scratch almost, but I was determined to allow him to give me what no one else has.
We spent about an hour kissing.
Then we got into bed and kissed more. He fingered me to a high arousal point,.. he softly kissed every inch of my body.. i really dont think there was anything not kissed... maybe the bottoms of my feet . i dont know.

 and then got his head between my legs and started licking.
I felt his tongue against my clit. Oh my goodness. It didnt take me long. I started cumming and cumming. Waves of pleasure ripped through my body. He held me down and kept licking. I had several orgasms in a row and his tongue seemed to only get longer.

He asked me if i was ready, and I said i was.
He got on top of me and i felt his dick slowly slide into my pussy. (we were using condoms)
Slow long strokes as he kissed my mouth, my face, my neck. He even managed to get his hand on one of my tits and pinch the nipple ... oh my.

So far so good. In 20 years of marriage, I had gotten to this point and it was at this point that my husband usually cums.

But not my friend. He kept going, It felt so good, I had never felt a dick going in and out of my pussy for more than a minute, but now it had been five minutes and he was just getting into it.
I came again loudly. Thrashing about the bed with him still on top of me and fucking me steadily. It was my first orgasm that did not involve me doing the work.

He screwed me for about 10 minutes and came. But it was a wonderful 10 minutes. I hd never felt anything like it.
We laughed, we cried.. we kissed.
He had me suck his dick to get him hard and we fucked some more.

About 3 a.m. I stumbled to my hotel and to my room. Dazed. Confused, but one well-fucked bitch. I had never felt like that before in my life. It was just so good.

The next day we went our separate ways

Maybe sometime we will hook up again. But it was a great experience. Two friends getting together and fucking. I dont see any harm at all. Because we were honest with our expectations and fair with each other.

My husband knows he doesnt satisfy me partly because i ask him for sex a lot more than he wants to give it. He has told me that he doesnt mind if i get it elsewhere, he just doesnt want to know.

I didnt tell him obviously.

I went back home and that night my husband wanted to fuck me. I let him. I couldnt help but compare the two experiences. From the time my husband started kissing mei to the time he came in my pussy was about 20 minutes. That was about normal. But on the night I fucked my friend, that time was more like 3 hours...
I cried softly for a few minutes and drifted off to sleep ... still thinking about my friend and what he had given me.