Early on a Saturday. You kiss me, touch me, whisper you love me.
That means you want to get laid before you go golfing.
Ive been reading some posts and some erotic literature, so I am kind of in the mood anyway, so I kiss you and whisper "yes lets go ."
We go to the bedroom. We never do it on the couch. You never just overwhelm me and fuck the shit out of me on the kitchen floor. Its always the same thing. Some kissing and touching and you wait for me to lead you to the bedroom.
Is it not possible to have sex anywhere else?
More kissing, we both get naked and get in bed.
You suck my tits, your fingers tease the edges of my pussy.
You say you love me. Yes i know that and I love you too, but you dont WANT me. You dont desire me in a way that would make you want passionate sex with me.
More kissing, more fingering my pussy. Its getting wet, I am aroused some. But you dont want to eat my pussy. I get maybe a minute of half hearted licking...
Soon you are on top of me and I feel the head of your dick push against the opening of my vagina. Im wet enough i think, so i spread wider and help you get in.
Nice slow stroke at first and it starts to feel good.
But then you tense .. your body shakes, and i feel your cum inside me.
You lay there still for a minute
Tell me you love me again
and get dressed and get ready for golf.
You say it was good and ask me if i came.
I lie, i say, of course i did ...
but its like they say. if you have to ask her ........
You make tender caring love to my body, but it is you who is pleasured by it.
You won't fuck me.
You won't ravage me.
But i know someone who will.
Who could blame me really ?
lisamay posted on Oct 27, 2007
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wantingmore said on Oct 27, 2007....
I understand you completely! There's sex and there's making love. For those who have never experienced the difference, it's hard to understand. -
AlwaysThinking said on Oct 28, 2007....
Fucking and making love...its the slowness and the mood is what i consider the difference.
the sloppiness, the talking, the feeling, you inner self wanting to make it nasty...this is where the fun is.
People make too much of what sex is. If you have too people consenting its all what you make of it. It can be wet, nasty, anal, vaginally, sucking, licking, and/or kissing. Let loose find you companion and find a fuck buddy.
Sometimes its one of the same, other times its two different people.
Don't forget to laugh and enjoy each moment.
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silverwhisper said on Oct 28, 2007....
lisamay, was the sex in your marriage hotter/more passionate before?
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lisamay said on Oct 28, 2007....
No Silver it really wasn't.
For years Ive tried to get it to that point, to no avail.
Perhaps its because im on the internet more, but Ive found a new world online, and Ive realized that much better sex is possible.
And available.
I have been open and honest at home, and my husband knows of my desires.
He just seems unable to do anything about it, or unwilling ... I am not totally sure there.
For the first 2-3 years of our marriage, it was pretty good, though not incredible. We had two children, and he seemed to just lose interest in sex.
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silverwhisper said on Oct 28, 2007....
i'll be honest...on reading this, the first thing that flits through my head is that a lot of men have trouble reconciling the fact that their wives are sexual creatures as well as the mothers of their children. is it at all possible that's going on here?
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lisamay said on Oct 28, 2007....
ed
i think thats entirely possible, if not probable.
but even in that, i felt a desire to jump in and defend my husband ... lol
YES, I am a sexual creature, and he just doesn't get it.
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silverwhisper said on Oct 28, 2007....
i wish that he was able to reconcile those things, lisamay. :>
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lisamay said on Oct 28, 2007....
thanks ed
i do too, but there are people who think there is nothing at all wrong with having other sex partners..
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girlfriday said on Oct 29, 2007....
hi lasamay, i so identify with ur thots that it was a revelation to me!! its weird but my husband too has given his "consent" to sex outside our marriage but it just never seems to work out. there is this friend of his who has the hots for me and i have major hots for him! we both know it my husband knows it. what my hubby does not know is that his freind and i have also become great friends...no dont get me wrong...we dont "do" anything...just chat on the phone...but we have become so close that its now difficult to get by the day without at least saying hello. the taboo nature of our relationship excited both of us initially...but it also made us open up to each other like never before...about our positions...what we like what we dont...what we would like our respective partners to do ... even about kids,general hanging out stuff... which was missing from both our lives earlier. you may think he is potential lover material...and it is true but i love my husband too much. cant think of hurting him. but then again i cant help having hot thots about all three of us , or just this frnd and him and stuff rack my brain... literally every night i go to bed!! dont know why i am telling u all this.... maybe i see a kindred soul in you ...
waiting to hear more from you....
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lisamay said on Oct 29, 2007....
I understand what youre saying GirlFriday
They key is talking it out with your spouse.
Doing it behind their back would be really bad... if everyone is agreeable, then its not a problem, .. as I see it.
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desertsienna2 said on Nov 01, 2007....
You should be telling your spouse what you want and remember that problems in marriage cannot be solved by outside sources of distraction. You are simply running away from your own problems. It would be better to get counseling and solve these issues in the relationship. Give it another chance. At least, then, if it doesn't work out, there may be grounds for a separation and divorce. -
wantingmore said on Nov 04, 2007....
Alwaysthinking...I too think that it's the feeling involved that makes the biggest difference. I also LOVE the wet, nasty, anal, vaginally, sucking, licking, and/or kissing!!! And, oh, it is soooooooooo much fun! -
Fallyn said on Nov 08, 2007....
*sigh* i've been there........more times than i can count......
i know i fixed it......i can't remember exactly how....i think it involved roleplay of some kind.....but then we were both gamers.....so that helped in that specific instance.
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lisamay said on Nov 10, 2007....
oooooo fallyn
role play is so exciting :)
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Fallyn said on Nov 11, 2007....
*grin* oh yes it IS.
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