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for what its worth, i've been married for more than six years now. i guess i have said that in one of my posts. happily? yes, because i chose to be. but i'm happy because i'm content with being a mother to my kids, and my husband provides us with what we need and most often with what we want. i'm a fulltime mother and housewife... that is what i usually put in th "occupation" portion of the resume. my friends envy me. i can have my night outs, go malling with friends, have fun with my kids, cook if i want (though most of the time i ask the house help to cook for us), rearrange the pieces of furniture in the house, log on to the internet forever, do whatever i please except spend time with my husband. this is the trade-off to all that. my husband is workaholic. he told me i should be happy because i don't get to see him for reasons that he said was good for the family. if i demand time from him all hell breaks loose and our fights become really physical and violent that i get to wear sunglasses at night when i get to meet some friends. and still they say they envy me. if only they knew! six years and counting... hopefully, my lovestory isn't as tragic as shakespeare's romeo and juliet

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  • silverwhisper said on Jul 29, 2006....
    ice queen, why don't you report his multiple instances of spousal abuse to the police? why does he think hitting a woman is a good idea? has he done this in front of the kids? if so, they're learning things you probably don't want them learning. ed
  • ice-queen said on Jul 29, 2006....
    no he doesn't do it in front of our kids. with a country like ours, i don't think the police will hear me out. not that i didn't try though. justice in this country is as bad as the leaders appointed into position
  • silverwhisper said on Jul 29, 2006....
    at least he isn't doing it in front of the kids. guess that's a silver lining. if you file a complaint w/ the cops, you can begin a history. i hope the violence hasn't escalated over time. i suppose you've already considered the possibility of counseling? ed
  • ALIENated said on Jul 30, 2006....
    A friend of mine said he was told that at one time his grandfather would beat up his wife, my friend's grandmother. They lived in a small town and that became public knowledge. One night a group of the local KKK showed up and [i]recommended[/i] to my friend's grandfather that he stop abusing his wife, and he did. I am not advocating calling on the local KKK, but you might want to seek some help as everyone here usually and rightly recommends.

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