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For those who have read my earlier posts would know the situation between me and my hubby.
We were in a midst of breaking up and even divorce. That was what I wanted initially.
I couldn't stand his behaviour anymore one day and decided to leave him. He didn't want to let me go. During this time only he showed me and told me that he loves me very much and couldn't live without me.
I've already moved out at that time and had to leave my kids with my in-laws. During this time I met someone and he treated me with such loving and care. I was on the verge of divorcing my husband and planning to marry this guy but the only thing was he was also in the midst of divorce and has three kids. It's not that I don't love kids but if it's not your own it still feels different. And I knwo my hubby wouldn't let me take the kids. Even though in court the mother would win custody but I'm not that cruel by preventing my kids from their dad.
I could slowly see the changes in him. During this time I fell sick and was admitted to the hospital. He was much more caring and to show me that he really loves me he tore all the pictures of him and his Japanese ex whom he knows I was always jealous of!
Lastly, I decided to move back and give him another chance. I actually missed my kids too. Now I felt that he is ever more loving and even though we still have some minor arguments but he still shows me his affection every now and then. Now I love him even more than ever! :-)
Luckily all this happened for a good cause. I feel much happily married now!
p/s: I'm expecting my third child now! :-)

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  • mymave2006 said on Nov 03, 2007....

    hi... still remember me....im back to soulcast ...im not opening soulcast for a long time....wow! good to hear from....im happy learning that you finally found the best love ....he he he...and that you and youe hubby arte in good terms now...Goodlucjk!!!

    yeah...everything happens in a purpose, and the best thing about it is we learned from all the experiences we had..

    love is sweeter the second time around....

     

  • elia_ann said on May 27, 2008....
    hi mymave...
    I haven't been blogging for awhile noe cause the work load is damn heavy at the moment.
    And my internet was blocked previously. Now once my internet is back online I'll try to blog again.
    my adsense is increasing too but slowly...
    but how come we do not get messages that somebody commented on our blogs??

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