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Since my bride hit 50, our sex life has headed
south. Two years ago, we became empty nesters,
and ever since then, she said all I want to do is have 
sex with her 24/7. She said I'm acting like a 20 year old.
When the kids were in the house or even visitors,
it was only done after everyone was in bed asleep.
She says it's not because she doesn't love me,
but her sex drive is not as strong as it once was
and once every two weeks is more than enough for her.
I've tried, secret get aways, romantic dinners, HOT
movies and even full body massages.
Sometimes she just gives in to please me but it seems
more like pity sex and when I say that it pisses her off.
Are there any women out there that have any suggestions ??
And no, I'm not taking any Viagra.. I just find her HOT...
 


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  • exhibit_c said on Oct 15, 2007....
    Same here, more or less.

    The thing that works best for me is to get sex on the to-do list, along with baking bread and taking out the garbage. Not romantic, but at least she sees it coming.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Oct 15, 2007....
    I'm no expert and I haven't reached 50 yet, but is it possible that she is having hormonal fluctuations?  I know during menopause it is common to have dry spells due to hormones.  The other thought is that perhaps she is depressed about something.  That can also shut down the sex drive. 
     
    It's a tough time for you, but I find it sweet that you are still hot for your wife.
  • Eilan said on Oct 15, 2007....
    My husband's 50.  I have a few (okay, 14) years to go before I get there.  We'll see.
  • exhibit_c said on Oct 15, 2007....
    I did read a survey within the last year that found that interest in sex was highly variable in women after 50. Some wanted it as much as ever, some didn't.


  • Artemis223 said on Oct 15, 2007....
    Slirpuff - this is definitely worth talking about, I would think ... what wife wouldn't want to hear that her hubbie still thinks she's hot?
     
    It might be hormonal.  It might be stress - how long has the nest been empty?  Is this something that was a difficult adjustment?
     
    I hope you work it out ... I have a little over a decade before I hit the big 5-0, but my old man is 56 and hotter than ever. 
  • ALIENated said on Oct 16, 2007....
    I figure what you are describing explains why you see so many old farts with
    younger women. I am pretty sure I could satisfiy several young women each
    day from what I have seen over the years. And I consider myself an average
    guy.
    
  • sweet_rose said on Oct 21, 2007....
    I am 32, and with a man that is almost 50. God bless an older man! He is my perfect lover in every way possible. Let your wife know she is HOT, then get her ass to the gyno to test her hormones. Then make love to her morning, noon and night. :-)

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