• lfbno7 said on Oct 10, 2007....

  I got all kinds of cheating stories.  My wife wasn't made for monogamy.  In her defense, I don't think monogamy comes natural to people, not with so many years of marriage.  Why sentence yourself to a life without any new romance, when romance is such a cool thing?  Some people don't have Jiminy Cricket in their ear telling them to be good.

• hillbillygirl said on Oct 10, 2007....

  Wow ....I think I would probably go off if I found someone elses panites in my closet. I can tell ya one thing I guarentee I wouldn't put them on and have him fuck me!!! Hell no....maybe shove them over his head and say looky here what I found!!!

• risquewriter said on Oct 10, 2007....

  Well, I definitely could not wear the panties but I might make him wear them!  But since I myself have cheated, I'd have to cut him some slack and listen to the entire story and find out why he kept the damn panties in the first place.  My husband says when guys cheat it's only for the sex.  I don't really believe that because I'm always trying to nail his ass and he's cheated on me too.

• silverwhisper said on Oct 10, 2007....

  honestly, i'd think that a better form of vengenace would be to ride him cowgirl and gag him with 'em. :>
  
  ed

• moyz said on Oct 11, 2007....

  lol...Silver...that one is interesting!!

• simplyklo said on Oct 11, 2007....

  I definitely like the idea of gagging him with them - that's hysterical!

• hillbillygirl said on Oct 11, 2007....

  Very good idea SW ....making a mental note of that incase I ever need to use that ;)~

• silverwhisper said on Oct 11, 2007....

  [bows]
  
  thank you, ladies. :>
  
  ed

• jimidean said on Oct 11, 2007....

  first question to ask, how long have you been dating this guy?  Is there a possibility that they were there before you ever came into the picture?  If they're tucked away in some back corner he may have forgotten they were there.
  
  
  In reference to the story, however, since she could still smell pussy on them, i would assume they were fairly fresh.
  
  
  I agree somewhat with what lbfno7 wrote.  All throughout history people have had lovers; it was considered normal for a man to have a mistress, and women to have boys.  We've learned to be so indignant these days, and so narrow minded.  We allow ourselves to be hurt so easily.  What it really comes down to is a lack of communication.  Why do we get hurt?  Fear.  We are afraid that they no longer love us.  Jealousy.  Was she better than me, does he love her more?  Again, this is fear.  If you are open and communicative with your lover these questions should never come up because you should always know the answer.

• moyz said on Oct 12, 2007....

  interesting way to view things Jimidean

• redhare said on Oct 14, 2007....

  wow thats kinky! i'd pound it really hard if i was him.

• anonymous said on Oct 24, 2007....

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