today i read abt transactional analysis , and found it really interesting..

most interesting is wat i read abt te games ppl play;;;; these r some of my favorites :

 

now i got you son of a bitch -- in this we wait for the person to make a mistake , lay a trap for him , and wen he inevitably does , we pounce on him... havent we alll senn this happen in relationships where we wait for the other person to make a major mistake , so that we can vent out all our frustration

 

another one is poor me --- which im sure all of us play at sometime.. here we portray ourselves as helpless and weak cos we want to avoid responsibility .. we see it every day in families

 

there are many many more.. anyone interested wud find it an engrossing read