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O.k. yes I'm going there. What is Brit's problem? Instead of actually attending court with her lawyer and doing all the things the Judge outlined in his order she's out shopping?WTF? If someone told me I had to attend mettings in hell held by the devil himself to get my sons back I'd be falling then I'd pull up a chair. I guess Whoopi said it best:" Maybe she just came the realization that she is not cut out for this. Some women aren't maternal and maybe she's just not feeling it." Maybe she is happy just seeing her kids when she wants and she actually doesn't mind giving K-Fed a check every month since he was the chick already in their relationship.
 
It's kind of hard to root for someone who clearly I'm starting to see DOESN'T want to be rooted for. Her priorities seem misconscrewed but then again this could be DENIAL,GRIEF,or I hope for her sake just plain STUPIDITY and Hollywood EGO!
What ever it is I hope she pulls it together if for no other reason but her kids. Some of us gotta remember that when we get old and no one else is there they might be. And plus they pick your nursing home. I do agree however with what Sinaed O'Connor said:"That when we start critizing the way that mothers mother in the media then that is a dangerous thing."
Thankyou Mrs.O'Connor you gave me a different eye and prospective that I never saw on the situation. And inspite of Ms.Spears blunders you are right.
 
We have enough problems with the government trying to police how we discipline our children in our own homes and anywhere else we please. That is why we have the problems we have today with our children.


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  • botoni said on Oct 05, 2007....
    My vote is that the vacant space between Britts ears is never going to amount to anything else. Its my contention that she is so ego-centric she might not even be aware she has kids or that there are other people in the same universe.
  • polarheart said on Oct 06, 2007....
    That girl fell off the wagon really hard.  I have an assumption that later in life she will seriously regret the way she is acting now.  Its just a sad case of from glory to ruin. . .who knows what it will take to wake her up?
  • dailyachesandpains said on Oct 06, 2007....
    HH:  I have been reading about her way too much and actually CARING~!  Never in a million years did I ever think that I would give a shoe lace about her...never.
     
    Something has gotten that girl, and hard.  I know, it's not easy being Britney, it can't be.  I just want to call her and ask her, beg her, to move to Vermont, or somewhere other than LA where the paps don't want to even bother going to. 
     
    She has alienated her family that she once seemed so close to.  She had kids back to back, almost (it's so hard after having one...meaning possiblitiy of PTSD).  She has gone through a public divorce.  Public everything, really.  The shocker for me is that it doesn't even appear that she wants to be "normal" at all.  I think this started a while ago with her 24 hour marriage in Vegas. 
     
    She makes over 700K A MONTH!!! A MONTH!!!!  I think if she can't handle being a mother (clearly she can't) at this point, she should just cough up the child support and have Fed-ex take care of the children.  She should WANT to and not fight about the money (when the time comes), you can't put a price on children.
      I never thought I would ever say that the kids should be with him, since his ex has claimed he was never around.  BUT, it appears that he may have changed from what I read.  I honestly do not believe he's out for the massive amount that he would get in child support.  I think he may have finally "got it", that the children need their parent(s).  From what I've read, he didn't have the best life growing up...maybe it's finally hit him that he doesn't want his kids to be raised like he was...even though the kids can have the world with money and toys, there's more to being a parent than that stuff, as most of us know. 
     
    Can you just imagine reading stuff about you every single given day about what you haven't done right...it has to be hard!  However, she's not willing to do anything to change her behavior to give anyone anything good to write about.  MAN, I just wish she would let someone help her or have someone arrange an intervention...maybe her freaking assitant can do something!
     
    I am afraid that this girl is going to kill herself, literally!
     
    Sorry, this got so long and maybe scattered, but it's really late here as I type this!
     
    Daily
     
     
  • queenparanoia said on Oct 06, 2007....
    i think she need some serius help... and a lto of support for her family... i hate it when the media enable her more...
  • husbandhater said on Oct 06, 2007....
    Ladies and Gents,Ali needs to GO! She is obviously telling Brit what she wants to hear and not hitting her with the REALITY and truth she DESERVES! A real friend would not lie to you just to be a hanger on,spend your money, or to remain in your good graces. A real friend will tell you the truth no matter what the COST. This is part of why her relations with her family is strained. They woke up,told her her behavior is weird and that she wasn't a kid anymore. She had 2 kids she should take care of them. It's not about her it's now about them. Then you here she has a restraining order out against her mother and all this stuff.
     
    I still don't buy Kev's I'm a new man act b/c Leopards don't change spots over night. He chase the kids as soon as the Alimony ran out. If he was so concerned why didn't he pull all of this crap when the divorce was going through? That many months hasn't went by where she wasn't pulling this crap before. And he's got a nanny for the kids just like she had. If my ex was this unfit I'd of pulled out all the stops DURING the divorce to seek full custody.
     
    I hope she figures it all out before she wakes up one day Alone,abandoned,or in a grave. I'm glad that even if Kev-Fed's motives aren't all that pure he has enough sense to be a good Father to his kids. I heard some nice things about the way he is with them and motives or not I tip my hat to the dude. He's doing what he has to do and there are not many men much less parents that you can say this about.
    If he has earned my respect for nothing else he has for THIS!
     
    Brit has Michael Jackson's Peter Pan syndrome: She grew up in the Lime Light and never really had a chance to be a normal all out kid. There was a role reversal b/c she was now supporting her entire family and they were her employees not her family. You now have a dysfuctional adult running around who emotionally is probably btwn the ages of 13-16 and hasn't learned to cope nor deal like a real adult or person should. I'm no pshycoanalyis but this is just a thouhgt. She NEVER really did grow up.
    What rational person scoffs at a judges' order and ditches court dates?
  • botoni said on Oct 06, 2007....
    Daily & HH....You ve both made me ashamed that I dont have much sympathy for her. I truly believe she is totally maladjusted and needs help desperately. I feel sad for her that all this has happened. My thought is that there is little likelyhood she will make any positive changes. The base to me is that she has to want a different path and it doesnt seem that she does.
  • LifesLittleMistakes said on Oct 06, 2007....
    While I do agree with many of your opinions about her, I still cant bring myself to feel any kind of sympathy for her. She is a bad parent plain and simple. If it were anybody else who was caught driving with thier child on their lap, they'd be charged with child endangerment. Just because she had a "hard life" doesnt give her or anybody the excuse to be a bad and/or neglectful parent. I had my son when I was seventeen, my daughter at twenty one. My life wasn't the easiest or the best but once you have kids then your focus needs to be on thier needs not your own. I worked hard to get where I am today in life, and it seems like that is something she is not willing to do. To me it seems that she only focuses on her wants and not want the children need. Some people aren't ment to be parents and she, in my opinion, is one one them people. Maybe she will get her act together sometime in the future, maybe she wont, only time will tell. But I am getting so tired of hearing about her plastered all over the tv and radio. I dont know, I geuss I'm just rambling on now. Sorry
  • anonymous said on Oct 06, 2007....
    In all honesty I think she fell head first off the wagon  before being struck the [wagon] right behind hers.
     
    Maybe having her kids taken away was the best thing for her and the kids. It seems to me that .. at least for right now .. K-Fed is the best option until Britney grows up, which she seriously needs to do. In all honesty, I think that the problems she's having are bad enough as it is and the media frenzy is just making things worse.
     
    Can't  we all   just back the fuck off and give Britney some space to get her shit together?
  • one_wired_kitty said on Oct 06, 2007....
    I feel sorry for Britney. This is probably the best thing for her and the kids. Maybe this will give her the chance she needs to grow up, which it doesn't look like she got the chance to do.

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