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I am writting this for suppport from anyone.
I have always felt that my husband was cheating, many things have contributed to why I believe this.
He is the type to get angry and turn the whole thing around and make me seem as if I am crazy or trying to make him look bad to people.
He leaves different times throughout the day and night, and doesn't contribute financially at all to the raising of our 9 month old son.
I support myself, 14 yr old daughter and son and nanny.
My husband doesn't do anything here but exist. I have always felt that he has another home because his actions are that of a man in love with someone else, he daydreams, won't go into stores with me and I think it's because he doesn't want his mistress to see him .
 Tonight he's just come back after hours who knows where.
He brings a folder in and a paper fell out without him knowing.
I stood with my jaw dropped as I read this womans words to him and how much she loves him.
It's what I won't confront him with, he will only become loud and try to throw it on me saying I wrote it.
I told him I want this marriage over... I meant it.  Donna


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  • silverwhisper said on Oct 05, 2007....
    in whose name is our home?

    keep the note, give it to a lawyer, and check out his mobile phone records.

    ed
  • secretlife said on Oct 05, 2007....
    i cannot imagine why you would care since he contributes nothing to your family anyway.
     
    take the note to a lawyer.
     
     
  • simplyklo said on Oct 05, 2007....
    I agree - it's not worth confronting him yourself and going through a useless fight where he'll try to deny everything and turn it on you ... sounds like the guy is a liar, a cheat, and verbally abusive.  Take it to a lawyer and no matter how hard it is for you get him out of your life as quickly as you are - it's not as if he's been truly contributing anyway from the sounds of it.

    Best Wishes!
  • confuzzledwife said on Oct 05, 2007....
    he sounds like a complete ass- you are obviously supporting your family without his help, he is taking off, cheating.. really, you are getting nothing out of it- LEAVE him ASAP
  • missdonna said on Oct 08, 2007....
    Thank you . Donna
  • Taffy000 said on Dec 08, 2007....
    I'm sorry you're going through this.  My husband is cheating too but in a different way.  I've only seen phone numbers & had women call him on the phone.  I don't know if he's meeting them physically.  I tend to doubt it as he doesn't like to drive.   He's talked about having children.  I do NOT want to be in a situation like you are.  I don't believe in romantic love.  I do feel my husband "loves me" but I also know he's not being honest.  In your case I say go ahead & leave if it upsets you that much.  I'm "upset" but not surprised.  I think my husban'ds a coward.  I don't think he's actually physically meeting women I think he'sjust p;laying around on messenger & the phone & I DO NOT like that.  What do I do?  Play around myself? 
  • Aaron+Wanda said on Sep 23, 2009....
    If you always had doubt about your husband why would you stay? Where is the strength in leaving when the guy is treating you like crap whether or not you knew he was cheating (proof or no proof). I don't understand why the hell you would allow yourself to be put down and degraded in that sort of way, you don't see that he doesn't even care or see you and the kids? I mean you guys are nothing to him. Why the hell... haven't you left many many years ago? If you chose to turn the other cheek then thats your own fault, I have no pity for you because it sounds like you already knew the truth but just turned a blind eye towards that and I just can't wrap my mind around the fact that you don't have the strength to leave and find real happiness! WHY DO YOU PEOPLE NOT WANT HAPPINESS AND ACTUALLY ACTIVELY TAKE PART IN SEEKING IT.

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