All of Silver-Trout-Smacker's talk about weddings and the things that surround them has sparked a question in my mind. If you were to be married today would you go traditional or would you opt for unique changes? If you're married, would you consider a second (or whatever #) wedding (to same spouse or not) differently handled or not? I'm a closet "event" junkie, always scouring ideas for any possible up coming event, especially weddings and Christmas parties.
Even though it would be a second wedding, I don't think it would influence my color choice of gown. I might not even choose a traditional long gown, but I might well choose white as it would be a new beginning. I don't think I'd have bridesmaids or a maid/matron of honor, opting instead for a very small ceremony with all in attendance acting in those roles. I'd definately go evening, so I'd have all day to futz with the details. I'd even be in favor of a non-religious officiant since my religious beliefs are so complicated. In fact I have "pre-picked" the type of ceremony I'd have, which is called a hand fasting. All guests would bring a ribbon to the ceremony to participate and add their blessing to the event.
To me the reception is the highlight of the event. The place where everyone can exchange hugs and wishes. I'd love to have a very large table beautifully decorated so that all attendees would sit together and share a meal. Lots of candles, cut glass and silver. Beautiful fragrant flowers, great wine and succulent food to feast on. There would definately be dancing and all kinds of music. Of course the venue would be near the ocean, which plays a huge roll in my life.
But I realize that not everyone can buck tradition.
