• dailyachesandpains said on Sep 16, 2007....

  Hey Queenie:  I'm so sorry you're still not better.  Have you gone to the doctor?
   
  I think any shrink here in the US will tell you that positive thinking is productive in changing the "mental" and physical quality of life.  My therapist always stops me when I start talking about pissy things and reminds me to talk of the positive during the second half of our session.   When you start thinking the negative situation, put it aside and think of the good that is involved in a situation.  If you miss a test (negative) you can make it up (POSITIVE SIDE). 
   
  If I were a doctor, I would say you suffer from anxiety.  You are so obsessed about your grades to an extreme level.  Not a bad thing, sweetie, but you have to sloooooow down.  I would hate to see you end up like me and worry about E V E R Y T H I N G!  You are so worried about pleasing others, work to please yourself FIRST, then others. 
   
  You can do it queenie!  I'm sending positive vibes your way!
  {{{HUGS}}}
  Daily

• queenparanoia said on Sep 16, 2007....

  thank you daily and i could feel the positive vibes already!!! =) youre right i should stop worrying so much... =)

• blastfromthepast said on Sep 16, 2007....

  Another trick to feeling better and obliterating negative thoughts is to write down all of the things that you have to be grateful for.  The more you write, the more things you'll remember.  Guaranteed, you'll feel a whole lot better about your life! 

• queenparanoia said on Sep 16, 2007....

  thanks for the blast! =) i'll do that... =)

• evil_twin said on Sep 16, 2007....

  Queen, I do think positive thinking works. If you sit and concentrate on all the bad things in your life, you will feel horrible. Stress and worry break down your immune system and make you sick. But if you push the negative thoughts aside, and concentrate on the positive, you can't help but feel better.
  
  And anything that gives you happiness, even if it's something really small, is worth thinking about. A favorite TV show, a book, a store you like to shop at. Anything. Give yourself something to look forward to every single day, and then concentrate on that.
  
  There was a time not too long ago when the only thing I ever looked forward to was coming home from work and watching TV. Not much of a reason to exist, is it? But I found enjoyment in it, and it really helped me keep going when it seemed there was nothing else to look forward to.
  
  Try to stay positive :-) One thing I know for sure, it can't hurt!
  
  -evil_twin LA
  

• Blu_berries said on Sep 16, 2007....

  You know how, we no better but can't contect to the action of doing better, it's really just a bad habit like losing weight we have to change our mindset it's hard but depending on how bad you really want to, you can take still air and turn it into wind or the other way around whatever you in particularly need only you can tap into the true you for example only you  knows  how you feel and only you can explain to yourself why you feel this way, be opened and forgiving to yourself leave everybody out and get to know how you feel, why you feel this, where  it really comes from so on and so on, it goes back to before your existance.  Just contact that person in you that really wants the best for you whatever it is as long your being polished, it's making you better for you, it's helps when you can live with yourself

• secretlife said on Sep 16, 2007....

  i'm a believer in positive thinking too.
  even when you think there's nothing positive.
  i used to keep a journal and every night i would write down 3 things that i was
  thankful for......it helps to remember those things....
   
  feel better!

• Jenna said on Sep 16, 2007....

  Queenie....sorry you have been down my dear.  I agree, positive thinking helps....but for me MOVEMENT is key.  When I take a walk, take a yoga class, hop on my bike.....afterwards, I always feel so much better.  Somedays I fight it so much....but lately have been forcing myself to do it.  Try it.....go take a walk....really it does help.
   
  Hope you are feeling better real soon!!!!!!

• boyzmom said on Sep 16, 2007....

  Another thing that helps is to stay away from the negative people. Misery really does love company but only when that company is as miserable as them. Try to fight it, I know you can, you just have to work at it when you are feeling healthier! Take care Queen.

• sweet_cookie01 said on Sep 17, 2007....

  hi queen.. miss ya!
   
  feeling down with the flu... poor dear... i hope you are taking your meds on time. Drink plenty of water and take that shower!...hahahha... sometimes a good bath washes the bad mood away...
   
  have that facial, have your nails done... things will perk up i am sure... kisses for you!

• tekeriada said on Sep 17, 2007....

  I wonder what negative thought may you have.
  It may turn out some of them not negative at all.
  It is hard to believe there are just negative things in your life...
  It is not very likely.
  Really ,cannot you think of any positive things?
  About illness...
  Some people are ill if they want to stop....for some reason..
  Others ill because they have lost stand.....
  There is another method of copying with negative thought is to examine them
  Are they really true?
  Is the situation really that bad?
  Other possibilities..
  Are you afraid of success?
  Is there any reason why you do not want to succeed?
  
  
  
  

• lfbno7 said on Sep 17, 2007....

  ok i'll try it.  positive, positive.  i am positively famished.  i need breakfast.  but what will that breakfast be?  same damn thing i had everyday last week.  i'm sick of it.  but if i try something else i'll get a bellyache cause that's what my body does.  dammit, friggin fraggin damn damn dammit.
  
  hey, you're right, that positive thinking is a charm.  i feel pretty good.
  

• queenparanoia said on Sep 17, 2007....

  evil_twin: kyle, today just i learn to appreciate little things in life that give happiness to me. like the way my friends make me and playing my favorite computer games. so thank you for sharing youre experiences with me! =)

  Blu_berries: thanks for the advie!!! =)

  secretlife: i really admire you secret because eventhough i know you so many problems today you still think positive. and i admire that in you very much... =)

  jenna: good idea jenna! i'll try that!! =)

  boyzmom: youre right. today i try to ignore the negative people who pulls me down. thanks for the advice! =)

  sweet: i miss you too ate sweet! i'm still kinda sick. you know the weather naman in here! thanks for asking! i hope youre feeling better too!!! =)

  tekeriada: ummm actually i think of positive thoughts now. thanks for you comment though... =)

  lfbno7: well i'm glad it works for you too!!! =) 

• harriedpsychmajor said on Sep 17, 2007....

  Positive thinking can have a good biological effect on you, too. Worry and stress can be powerful enough to affect your hormone levels, and that can take a toll on your immune system. But if you surround yourself with favorable circumstances, you will feel a lot better. I'm sure you've heard that "laughter is the best medicine." Well, they're right about that. Pleasure exists as a way to alleviate pain.
  
  Feel better!
  

• willbrich said on Sep 17, 2007....

  I definitely need some positive thinking now. Thank you queen for reminding me!

• queenparanoia said on Sep 17, 2007....

  harried: wow thanks for that info!!! =)

  willbrich: youre welcome!! =)

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