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In my opinion, sex is not the only thing that men want from women... Love and caring is the very things that men want... Other want them for their money and riches... and other want them to gain connection and power...
 
But in the world we have now, sex is the very first thing that MOST men ever think in their quest for finding their partners... And after that, it will develop to love, or otherwise, they will break-up...


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  • pickersplock said on Sep 12, 2007....
    I know what you mean, sometimes I think my husband married me for 2 things, the sex and my cooking.
  • jedimaster said on Sep 12, 2007....
    that's a good start... your cooking will be your way to your husband heart...
  • unknownblogger said on Sep 12, 2007....
    hey jedi, I agree with you that sex is the first thing that men want from women... but most of the time, it does'nt develop to a love because there are men who only want sex out of women...
  • Lucytorial said on Sep 12, 2007....
    I think that we can also turn this the other way, there are women who only want sex from men as well, although it is more common for males to be inclined in this way.
     
    My hb wanted me for my body at first, then because I let him be him and then he well didn't want me much anymore..... sex can wear thin after a while... but friendship stays forever in my books.... a lot of men simply don't or don't want to understand women, I've met very few who are interested.... and know what they are one > doing, and two > how to get great sex with the women they love by knowing HOW to love their women.
  • ALIENated said on Sep 12, 2007....
    Is Sex the Only thing that Men Want From Women?
    
    No, we also want pie, chicken fried steak, mashed potatoes, and gravy.
    All things considered, I would have done better marrying a restaurant.
    
  • pickersplock said on Sep 12, 2007....
    I rest my case.  Alienated, are you sure you're not related to Mr. Plock?
  • jedimaster said on Sep 12, 2007....
    unknown: most of relationship develop to love... it is just a matter of choice... you'll open your heart for love or not...
  • jedimaster said on Sep 12, 2007....
    I'm with you lucy, having sex to the woman you love is the greatest sex for us men...
  • jedimaster said on Sep 12, 2007....
    Nice joke ALIENated...
  • Lucytorial said on Sep 12, 2007....
    Very funny A..... Jed it is but its when a relationship is based on sex and there is no love... I'd prefer love sex and mash potato thank you! in that order..
  • paulwar said on Sep 12, 2007....
    no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Lioness said on Sep 13, 2007....
    Can't tell. Well, let the male species answer and justify for themselves. LOL
  • Suddenrain said on Sep 13, 2007....
    Unfortunately I have only met one man in my life who wasn't all wrapped up in the whole sex first thing, and I still question the motives behind that. Most men use their little head before the big one. :-/    ( I know, I'm sour)
  • unknownblogger said on Sep 13, 2007....
    Believe me... Sex is the only thing that men want from women... They won't give a dumb to a women if they are not sexually attracted to them...
  • reddragon said on Sep 13, 2007....
    Fellows, don't generalized your conclusions. I know a lot of men who want women because of love and not for sex.
  • unknownblogger said on Sep 13, 2007....
    Generalizing??? who's generalizing??? I'm not generalizing... I'm also telling of all the men I know reddragon...
  • jedimaster said on Sep 13, 2007....
    lioness: there are still men who like women not because of sex... thats why i used the word most men... not all men... I'm with sudden and red who believed there are still men existed here who love them not for sex but having sex with them because they loved them...
     
    Unknown: believed in us... belonging to those men does'nt mean there are no men who only think of sex...
  • hillbillygirl said on Sep 13, 2007....
    Coming from a single womans point of view....this is how it would seem.  Most of the men I have dated in the last year seem to want nothing but that.  Wich sex is great and its something we all need.  But there is so much more to a relationship than just sex!!!
  • exhibit_c said on Sep 13, 2007....
    If I were to lose Wife, I'd have to hire a bookkeeper (which is more socially acceptable than hiring a bed partner).
  • one_wired_kitty said on Sep 13, 2007....
    It definetley seems that way. I hated dating. I was basically expected to put out just  because he was seen with me. I was dumped many, many times because I refused to. It hurt ... and I became really resentful. I dated a few who would just cheat away like it was no big deal. I married one .... which just reinforces the fact (in my mind) that all they're after is sex.
  • hidufel said on Sep 13, 2007....
    I dont think sex is the only thing men want from women. There is a big problem here, in that, men =/= all men.
     
    Many men, do indeed seek the sex... and many of those men seek only sex. But there are men out there where its about just a bit more. Companionship, emotional comraderie. i dont think only women crave these things.
     
    Sex is a component of that sure, but it is not the end all be all of it. I think whats more valuable is the pure intimacy involved, and most of the time, for men, that involves sex. but there are a few men out there, where there is something more.
  • jedimaster said on Sep 14, 2007....

    To all men there... this is the only thing that i can say...

    Sex is not better than love. Love is the best thing in the world, but no-one knows untill they find it. Once you find true love you will never settle for sex. The trouble is, so many people think they are in love, when in fact it's just the chemicals caused by attraction. Love itself is very rare, but when it comes it stays for a lifetime.

  • jimidean said on Sep 15, 2007....
    Sex is not the only thing, and not the most important thing, but if it's not there, then something necessary is missing.
  • catch22 said on Sep 19, 2007....

    Dog & cats have SEX as well as cockroaches

    a true man makes LOVE.The sort that makes his emotions pour like rain in the desert.True men seek the sort of love that's worth dying for.If a sexual relationship isn't caused by the feeling of love it's just a doggie sex act.No thankyou.The soul of a woman is like a rare diamond.Worship it.BE A MAN!

  • catch22 said on Sep 19, 2007....

    Dog & cats have SEX as well as cockroaches

    a true man makes LOVE.The sort that makes his emotions pour like rain in the desert.True men seek the sort of love that's worth dying for.If a sexual relationship isn't caused by the feeling of love it's just a doggie sex act.No thankyou.The soul of a woman is like a rare diamond.Worship it.BE A MAN!

  • Suddenrain said on Sep 20, 2007....
    WoW, perfect comment C22.

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