• sweet_cookie01 said on Sep 05, 2007....

  cheating is a disease... it should be avoided... nothing good comes out of it.

• unknownblogger said on Sep 06, 2007....

  sweetie, as you well know, cheating is one of human weakness and it is very difficult to avoid... especially to us men, who always grab to the opportunity when they come...

• jedimaster said on Sep 06, 2007....

  blooger, your wrong... we can avoid cheating if we want to...

• sweet_cookie01 said on Sep 06, 2007....

  i dont think you can justify something painful and unfair like cheating... a real man for is one who knows what he may lose if he cheats and respects the woman he is with...

  i respect your opinion but i greatly disagree, i have met alot of cheaters and i have met men who are faithful... the cheaters usually try to justify their weakness.

  i strongly agree with jedimaster... you can avoid it if you want to.

• slirpuff said on Sep 06, 2007....

  My bride says most men think with their
  dicks, that's why they cheat... they don't
  think about what their going to lose just
  the thrill and feeling of doing something
  bad and dangerious...
  I feel if "both" are having their needs met
  in a marriage, there will be no cheating..
  I know a man who goes out and gets blow
  jobs because his wife says it's discusting..
  He's getting his needs met through cheating...
  I don't say it's right, it's just a reason it happens...

• JadeDom said on Sep 06, 2007....

  Women definitely cheat. The first girl I ever went out with slept with 5 men whilst we went out... I wasn't one of them. Ah well. Strangely you'd have thought it would have bothered me but it didn't.

• Trombonist said on Sep 06, 2007....

  Cheating in marriage is equivalent to cheating in a business situation. Marriage is a binding contract between partners. If both parties want to be able to have extra-marital relations, then they can specify that in the pre-nuptial agreement. If they do it without their partner's agreement it is ilegal and immoral. If it just happens by accident, then they don't have a very strong relationship with their spouse.

• Eilan said on Sep 06, 2007....

  Why make generalizations?
  

• botoni said on Sep 06, 2007....

  To me honesty in a relationship is the issue. If a couple chooses consensual nonmonogamy it is one thing. If one partner is messing around and lying about it there is a completely different dynamic.

• unknownblogger said on Sep 06, 2007....

  Honestly, I respect all of your opinion... we can be faithful if we want to...
  But may I ask if there is anyone in you who is faithfull enough and say that he/she still didn't cheat??? Actually, I don't want to generalized... What i'm saying is, we as a human being will bite the apple if it is offered to us...

• Aaron+Wanda said on Sep 23, 2009....

  I have been with my man for over 8 years plus, and he can say without any doubt that his woman (me) has never cheated. That is because I believe when you make that commitment (make sure your honest about whether or not you really want to be with them for life) as a woman/man your going to make dam sure your woman/man is satisfied and that comes with being honest and communication. There is absolutely no excuse for being a weak individual (being strong enough to look for happiness and make sure you actually making those right choices towards how to choose your partner) It just comes down if your a real "man" and a real "woman" aka a strong person.

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