are there times that you just want to scream until you either lose your voice or lose complete control over any other emotions that you may have control over? Still in a marriage where the husbands lack of interest in intimacy or sex altogether is pushing boundaries of sanity. I don't know what to do...I have done all I can think of and still nothing...I've suggested other techniques and still nothing...he gets pissed off if I even suggest toys of any sort for substitutes for things he either refuses to do or is just not interested in doing....if anyone has any suggestions or ideas I am completely open and grateful.
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WeepingWillow posted on Sep 05, 2007
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secretlife said on Sep 05, 2007....
a man is either interested in an intimate relationship or afraid of intimacy altogether--- i've not seen much in the way of middle ground.men can be interested in sex but not intimacy-my husband is afraid of intimacy.he's not very interested in sex either, and i think i pretty much went thru every possible way to get him interested in it-my personal feeling is you cannot change someone else, you can only change yourself. if you two can go to counseling together, you have a place to start. if he won't go, then you can only change yourself. that means 1) you decide sex isn't important to you and let it go 2) you get a divorce because it's more than sex you miss 3) you find a lover.otherwise you might not go insane---you might just become an angry, lonely woman. -
genalonewolf said on Sep 05, 2007....
He almost for sure has a problem somewhere. Something is bugging him. Talking with him might be a good way to loosen him up and get him to tell you what is the real problem. Or there is the slim chance he just isn't interested in sex, highly doubtful though! -
sweet_cookie01 said on Sep 05, 2007....
a man doesnt want to engage even if you make the first move? he must have issues... i mean if your husband loses interest in you i would feel the same way you do...have you tried to talk to him? maybe somthing is bothering him, he may be stress out or it could be a side effect of a medicine he is taking.I really think you should sit and talk to him about how this is making you feel, there should be an open communication in marriage.I hope things work out.