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I have not really been using this blog too much lately. I figured maybe I did not really have much interesting to say anyway! But sometimes you just feel like ranting a little...........
 
I have not been in my happiest of moods lately b/c some stuff was bothering me. Nothing worth speaking about.........
 
But since I was already not in the best of moods this day seemed especially butt flavored. It all started when this girl I work with had some surgery done a few weeks ago. She was not sick but getting liposuction! I wished her well and hugged her before she left. And I told her to let me know how she was doing.
 
She is not a GOOD friend, but a friend. We've worked together for a year. Well she is back at work now and everyone was talking about the really funny thank you card she'd given to everyone.........a thank you for what, I did not know. No one showed me the card.
 
And when I asked about it, I was told that everyone pitched in and bought HER a card and a present right before she left for her surgery!!! No one even told me about it :( My name was not on the card and I did not give them money for the gift. She prob. thinks I didn't even care!! But they deliberately left me out for some reason..........I was mad!!
 
Then I sat a patient in a room while the doctor watched me do it. It was a quick wound check and should have been a 5 minute visit. I put the chart on the wall like I'm supposed to and walked away. I presumed the doctor would go in after I left. He did not. The patient sat there for an HOUR and no one saw them!
 
Of course it was my fault. I did not TELL the doctor he had a wound check. But he SAW me put them in there!!! I did not think I needed to tell him too. Is he blind??? But I got in trouble.
 
Then I went to seat another patient and we are supposed to take the charts in order they are stacked at the desk. I took the next one in line, called their name, then I get rushed by another nurse telling me I called the wrong one back! Someone else was supposed to be next. How would I know?? I just grabbed the chart that was next. It was the triage desks fault, not mine!
 
But I got in trouble for that too. And for setting the patient in a room that we were apparently not using that day (which no one told me about either!!!)
 
Then I got admonished for putting a sticky note on someone's desk saying we were out of toilet paper. I did not write the stupid note but it was stuck to the cabinet in the back for hours and I assumed it needed to go on the desk of the person in charge of replenishing supplies.
 
The nurse who wrote it chased me down and asked me why I put the note on the desk when she wasn't done writing on it. She had lots of other things to add to it and I never should have touched it. Ahhhhh! So she wrote 'we need paper towels too' and then stuck it on the desk herself. That's LOTS of other stuff? Why not just make a new note? Did it really matter that much???
 
*sigh*
 
It was just a bad day.........one of those days where it seemed like I could do nothing right at all.........
 
Does anyone else have a day like that? You want a do-over! But I am starting to hate my job.........not the job itself but the people. Nobody is nice. And I still don't know why they excluded me from the gift exchange. I did not ask. I was too hurt to bother :(
 
Mean people suck.........


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  • evil_twin said on Sep 04, 2007....
    Mean people do suck. I'm sorry you had such a crappy day, but I did have to laugh at how you called it 'butt flavored'! Where do you come up with these words? :-P I hope your bad mood will lift after writing all this down. That's what this place is for. And the other stuff bothering you...I hope it's not bothering you anymore...

    But these work issues are crappy. I don't know how anyone could exclude you or be mean to you. People are a mystery to me. Sorry baby :-(

    love you,
    -Kyle
  • rightwingwizard said on Sep 04, 2007....
    cutie:  I have my share of those 'I can't seem to do anything right' days over the years.   I had a supervisor once who had a saying.  "If you're not making any mistakes you're probably not doing much!"
     
    Oh yeah, I've been that patient , you know, the one every one forgot about.  Not in ER though, at the doctors' office.  I was there for a follow-up to bloodwork and med changes.  Should have taken about fifteen minutes from the time I entered the examining room to walking out the door.  I was sitting in my alltogether for two hours.  Not a good feeling.
     
    rww
     
    rww
  • nursecutie said on Sep 04, 2007....
    No, I'm ok :) The other thing is not worth being annoyed with. You know that :) But work was worth being annoyed with!! Grrrrr. It did help a little to type it out though. It actually seems really silly now when i read it.......
     
    everyone will prob. think I'm silly for ranting about it!
     
    Thanks for reading this, honey :) Lucky you!! You get to hear about it AND read it! LOL!
     
    xxoo natalie xxoo
  • nursecutie said on Sep 04, 2007....

    rw-wizard, it was such a bad day! And I felt so bad for the poor patient that had to wait an hour for no reason :( Once I was left to wait in an office at my own doctors for over an hour until I finally got up and asked what was taking so long. The doctor had left the office to deliver a baby!! LOL And everyone forgot I was still sitting naked in the room waiting.........!

    xxoo natalie xxoo

  • evil_twin said on Sep 04, 2007....
    I am lucky! I don't mind listening and reading :-) That's what I'm here for! And you know that. It seems like we both know some stuff, huh? I'm glad you're good with everything else though. It's not worth being annoyed about.

    -Kyle
  • wombat said on Sep 04, 2007....
    I love the expression "butt flavored!"  I had one of those days, too, but nothing as dramatic, because I don't work with patients.  Well, in some ways, maybe I do--working with the public sometimes qualifies as working with "patients" as we are supposed to be like mini psychiatrists to them.  But I also messed up at work with procedures today--and ticked off my boss.  When I left, I decided I didn't care.  Fire me, or not. I am doing the best I can under the circumstances.  And I can bet you are, too. Rant and forge on.  That is all we can do, no matter what our jobs.
  • travelr712 said on Sep 04, 2007....
    i don't think anyone is going to think you're silly nat. kyle is right, that's what this place is for, so if you're silly, then so am i for writing down what happened to me last night.

    everybody has bad days. usually they happen when something else has been bugging you for awhile and things start coming to a head with that situation. so we all know how you feel. i hope things are better for you now that you've gotten home and can put your feet up. ask kyle to give you a foot massage, that'll make you feel better (if he isn't already doing it).
  • Mamie said on Sep 04, 2007....
    yea,
    Nat, when it rains it pours! That sucks about the gift esp. since I am sure you are wondering what else is going on behind your back. I hate that!! I tend to think of these things as a kind of "divine discontent" which will eventually re-direct you to a new job, with new people who love you and who you love working with, all the while probably making more money!! So hang in there and watch for any clues from the universe that a change is coming!!
  • minniemouse said on Sep 04, 2007....
    When it rains it pours, so they say....maybe you woke up on the wrong side of the bed?  lol....sorry...not trying to make light of your bad day, but just trying to make you smile.  It always seems to happen to me too....Once one thing happens, it just seems to snow ball from there. 
     
    I'm sorry you had a butt flavored day......{{{{hugs}}}}   Minnie
  • nursecutie said on Sep 04, 2007....

    wombat, I'm not sure where I come up with these silly words, but I'm glad you liked it! LOL Somedays it just seems that you mess up everything you touch, doesn't it? I am just glad to be home now!

    traveler, thank you :) Kyle is the one who told me to write my day here b/c I wasn't going to. But it was good to let it out! It makes it less dramatic in my head.......LOL And yes, other tensions made me crabby and maybe that's why I attracted such bad luck today? LOL I will ask for the massage..........right now we are just watching TV and computering. (is that a word? well it is now!)

    xxoo natalie xxoo

  • minniemouse said on Sep 04, 2007....
    LOL...Mamie...we posted at the same time and we both said "when it rains it pours...."  How funny!!!!  :-)  Minnie
  • travelr712 said on Sep 04, 2007....
    well, not really. the word is computing, but you were close :-)

    as i always say, sometimes you're the windshield, sometimes you're the bug (well, ok, mark knopfler said it first, but i still like it)
  • nursecutie said on Sep 04, 2007....

    Eeek! I missed a bunch of comments! LOL I think we all posted at the exact same time!

    Mamie, it is funny you would say that b/c I have been thinking of taking this new job someone told me about........I wasn't sure if I wanted it or not, but I just might send in my resume now! It might be good for me........

    minnie, I might have woken up on the wrong side of the bed! Or gone in the wrong door at work........I walked in the crap door instead of the main entrance.....LOL!

    traveler, computering sounds funnier though doesn't it? LOL And I have heard that sometimes you are the dog and sometimes you are the hydrant.......I got peed on today! LOL (not really......just metaphorically.....but w/my job you never know!)

    xxoo natalie xxoo

  • travelr712 said on Sep 04, 2007....
    but if you were the dog, wouldn't that lend more to the butt flavored day? :-P
  • MsStar39 said on Sep 05, 2007....
    nursecutie, I use to be in nursing, and it can get pretty rough sometime,
    As for the gift you didn't know about, maybe you were off the day when they collected money, I would still give her a small gift with am apology as to why it is late. You have got to learn to outsmart them.
  • D6fer said on Sep 05, 2007....
    "butt flavored" do they make a tootsie pop of that flavor yet? lol......oh yeah have had many of those days....they thin out as you get older and hopefully wiser....you just learn to sidestep the subtle bear traps of life....trust me.....oh...and sometimes being nurse "cutie" has it's downside, like dealing with nurses "ugly" and "fat"
     
    ;)
  • wakingharmony said on Sep 05, 2007....
    {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Nat}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} sometimes on days like that the only thing that will help is maybe a hug. I'm not there so this is the best i can do, Unless Et will give you extra one from me...
  • ninjapirate said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Man I hate days like that, I think we've all had them.  Since you're a nurse and I hear there's a shortage on them maybe you have tons of options with another job?  Just a thought :) 
  • fearing said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Nat - That upsets me!   You're so sweet - I can't imagine people wanting to be ugly to you.  This post summed up why I hate working with a bunch of women.  Catty.  I'm sorry you had a bad day.  Your title was cute.  ;-p  
  • destinydiva said on Sep 05, 2007....
    aaww natalie (((((((((huggggggssss)))))))))
    you did have a bad day, does anyone else have those kinda day? me always! :-) your not alone, and its good to rant about it instead of letting it eat away at you.
    I hope the next day your in work is a happier day :-)
    Destiny xx
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Sep 05, 2007....
    What an ewkie day! ((hugs))

    I can't fathom why someone would leave you out of anything. Thbpppt to them!

    ~Infernal
  • Battycat said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Yep, had plenty of days like that, not worked in ER but i have done itu and labour ward, staff do tend to be much bitchier in the acute areas, maybe it's stress, but there's no excuse to be nasty {{{{hug}}}}
  • JadeDom said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Are you sure it was intentional? Sometimes things just happen.
  • tizzygirl said on Sep 05, 2007....
    awwww nat I'm sorry your day was soooo butt flavored...but I'm going to have to use that one, butt flavored.  I'm hating my job too as I'm sure you know so to vent since I didn't want to share everything with everyone on here since some things are very specific and use names I have a word file that I write down everything my boss does that pisses me off!  After I'm done writing it I feel a bit better and seeing how long it is makes me know I'm doing the right thing switching jobs!!  I also am annoyed by people who work in the same building (I'm sure you remember the whore) and that makes my work environment even more horrible....there are others too...so I have to agree that mean people suck because if I worked with nice people I bet I wouldn't be hating my job!!  Hope today is better!!
  • uniquely-ironic said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Sounds like most of those things were communication problems.  Actually, most problems are.  Do you guys ever have group meetings?  If so, you might say that you are having problems with getting good communications from them.  Beyond that, if they're going to behave as asses, there's nothing you can do.  You might also make the point by asking lots of questions (i.e. Is this the next patient? When did we decide to NOT use this room?) so that it points out that they are not communicating properly.  It also shifts the blame to someone else.
  • silverwhisper said on Sep 05, 2007....
    nat, i was hoping i misread the title and that you meant to write "a butt-smelling day" but as i read, i realized just how apt that title was!

    there should so be a way to make a buffy quote title out of this but for the life of me, i can't think of one!

    ed
  • queenparanoia said on Sep 05, 2007....
    just remember natalie that when you go home you have a guy that really loves you and youre getting married soon!!! maybe theyre jealous??? well i hope you'll have a nice day tomorrow!!! =)
  • NotSoSinglechick25 said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Nat ~ I've had these days too.  I hate them :(  On the other hand.....I love your title and could immediately relate lol.  I've worked with doctors for the last seven years.  They are big babies and you have to hold their hand for everything, I swear.  Some are nice, many are fantastic doctors but damn.  Then again quite a few of them are men as well.  Man and doctor?  Not a good combo in my opinion!  lol
    J
  • kruuyai said on Sep 05, 2007....
    I hope your next day is butter flavored instead of butt flavored!  (maybe they didn't purposely leave you out of the gift thing... sometimes, with everyone busy, oversights get made).
  • mOOn_platOOn said on Sep 05, 2007....
    What are you? Human or something?
  • travelr712 said on Sep 05, 2007....
    nah moon, she's an angel :-)
  • husbandhater said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Ahh Nurse Cutie I think people in medicine think that being nice is an OCCUPATIONAL HAZZARD, but they seem to forget when to turn this ON and OFF.(Laugh now;~)  Please don't become one of "THOSE" Nurses. I hate working with these people and this was part of my gripe about the job I was asking you about. I was finally at the point where they were excepting of me and now I'm a goner until the freeze goes bye bye but I'm not waiting around for that.
     
    I like this blog. Butt flavored. And here I thought you were gonna tell a funny Butt story but this was just as good. This is what my days were like sometimes at the other job or covering the ass of much lazier or distracted persons who didn't get specimen's right, place the wrong info in patients charts(Yes this person still continues to have a job, it seems the city makes it hard for you to get fired), and misplaces peoples charts.
     
    At last there is always tommorrow. And the promise that it will be better. And P.S. we both know how ditzy the doctors can be. Even if you place something right infront of their faces they need a big show of it or an announcement made. I think it makes them feel important. Cheer up sweety.
  • lfbno7 said on Sep 05, 2007....
    I think there are no accidents, and those things had to happen the way they did.  Maybe it was the position of Mars in the sky, and how it impacted your astrological birth chart.  For example, maybe Mars was square your Moon or something.

    To everything there is a season.

    I think it is easier to accept a bad day like that if you believe that it was supposed to be that way.

    I have another theory.  Were you ever on a moving vehicle that made a sudden turn and the wheels screeched?  Sometimes the wheels screech in your life.  You know that sounds and feels wrong.  But the train had to make a turn.  Maybe something we don't understand had to make a turn, and things got jumbled together in an uncomfortable way for a day.

    How can you explain World War One?  So much misery and death.  The world was changing drastically, from a farm existence to a manufacturing existence.  The train was making a sharp turn.  Screeeeeeeech!!!!!  And then only 20 years later it continued its screeching, only louder, unbelievably louder.  Now we're on a different track.

    If your life does enough screeching, you'll put yourself on a different track too, I bet.  A track towards a more pleasant work environment.
  • nursecutie said on Sep 05, 2007....

    So many comments!! :) Thank you all for reading my silly rant!

    MsStar, nursing is a hard profession sometimes! I'm not sure if they could use the excuse I was not here when they thought of the gift idea.......I'm sure they had more than one day to prepare it. Grr....but that is life......

    D6, I hope they don't have a butt flavored tootsie pop! LOL I wonder what would be in the center of that? Ewww!!

    wakingharmony, thank you :) I love hugs! And yes I got lots of extra ones from Kyle last night!

    ninjapirate, I am thinking of finding a new job. Today I actually called someone about it...........we'll see what happens!! :)

    fearing, you're so sweet :) Thank you! It is hard to work w/a bunch of women and some of the men aren't so nice either! LOL I think it's b/c I'm still fairly new to the place and I always get the shaft! :(

    destiny, hopefully tomorrow will be better! I didn't work today :) Yay!! for days off!

    infernal, thank you! I will tell them you said Thbpppt to them! LOL!

    battycat, so you know what I'm talking about? I do think people just get grumpy and take it out on the easiest target. I guess yesterday was my day!

    Jadedom, I don't know.......I suppose it could have been an oversight, but there are not that many people in my area. It wouldn't make sense that they'd forget me when I am there ALL the time!

    tizzygirl, I know your job is butt flavored too! LOL Hopefully we will both find something better soon?

    uniquely-ironic, we do have meetings. But not yesterday. I think maybe everyone was just not in the mood to work b/c Monday was a holiday.......everyone was just in a bad mood or something. But sometimes it feels like they purposely don't tell me stuff just so I look bad.........it's not the first time. :(

    Ed, a butt smelling day?! LOL! I've had those.........they're not good either. I'd rather not smell butts......or know what flavor they are either! LOL

    QueenP, thank you :) I do have a great guy and he makes me happy! I wish he worked with me..........LOL That would make my day much happier!

    Notsosingle, you get it! yes, doctors are annoying sometimes. They are very smart at medicine, but idiot men otherwise......LOL

    kruuyai, butter flavored! That's much better. I hope tomorrow is butter flavored......

    moon platoon, am I human? LOL No, I am a robot.........but I'm very well made!

    Traveler, awww, you're sweet. Thank you :)

    husbandhater, I knew you'd be able to relate!!  It takes awhile to fit in with these people because they are very territorial. And just when you think you are in with them, they do something like this! Doctors are morons sometimes. I think sometimes they just want to see if we'll hold their hand and tell them what to do........not because they need it, but because it makes them feel all powerful, like you said! That is soooooo how it is!


     

  • nursecutie said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Lfbno, I liked what you said! You have a good way with words :) I think that maybe my screeching tires are telling me to find a new job, maybe? I am looking into it. I think it is time for a change, and not just b/c of yesterday. This is an ongoing issue.........and I think I need to change b/c this isn't changing. Thank you :)
  • travelr712 said on Sep 05, 2007....
    he does have a good point nat, your life is already heading on a different track
  • pickersplock said on Sep 05, 2007....
    I can't believe anyone would sit in a room for an hour and not complain.
    If it had been me, I would have waited 15-20 minutes tops, and then opened the door and asked someone how much longer the doctor would be.
    Sorry you had such a bad day, cutie.  I hope tomorrow is better.
  • nursecutie said on Sep 05, 2007....

    traveler, I have thought lately that my reason for being at this job is over now. I was supposed to be there to meet Kyle. And now that I have, I think it's time for me to go onto something else! I hope so......

    pickersplock, I wish he would have complained sooner! Then I would not have gotten in as much trouble.......LOL I still can't believe that doctor didn't go in there to see him right away.........he was standing around drinking coffee while the man just sat there! then he went and saw four more patients!

  • travelr712 said on Sep 05, 2007....
    well, that would definitely make you more sensitive to things that before were minor incidents. things like this happen every day all day to everyone, we just don't normally pay any attention to them once the situation has passed, unless there is some other element causing us to be more sensitive to them. you feel like your time there is over, so you're subconsciously starting to separate yourself from that place. you're preparing to make the transition so that it won't seem so abrupt and traumatic, it will seem like a very good idea. in fact, right now, (and i'm not saying this will happen, this is just an example) they could fire you, and you would be glad they did. 6 months ago, you would have been devastated. they haven't changed, nat, you have.
  • tizzygirl said on Sep 06, 2007....
    oooo nat are you going to apply for that other job you were telling me about??
  • nursecutie said on Sep 06, 2007....

    traveler, you could be right about that! Maybe i have already started preparing myself to leave there?? That's a new way to look at it :)

    tizzy, yes! I forgot I had mentioned it to you........but that's the one! I talked w/my friend who works there, and she said they were going to be needing someone very soon. Someone is leaving so yay for me!!! we'll see what happens.....

    xxoo natalie xxoo

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