• silverwhisper said on Jul 26, 2006....

  i think that's just a reflection of the fact that even though it's very common for straight men to fantasize about their wife/girlfriend having see with them and another man, there's still a massive homophobic aspect at play to these things, IMHO. me, i've always preferred MFF. :> ed

• yoho said on Jul 26, 2006....

  MFF is also my favorite, but nothing motivates a woman to give a mind blowing blowjob like her getting pounded from behind.

• silverwhisper said on Jul 26, 2006....

  i dunno, man: you could say the same about motivating a woman to eat pussy. ed

• Dazlak said on Aug 12, 2006....

  Yes it is true, it is hypocritical. Pure homophobic. And consider this.. many of the female has difficulties in cumming, it often takes a good time and a lot of work to let a woman come... so if a MFF.. I think that few woman would be 100% satisfied.. but a MMF, that would probably guarantie her satisfaction and probably theirs too.

• Sybianlady said on May 09, 2007....

  Dazlak - don't underestimate the "multi-O" woman who surely would not fit into the category you are generalizing of MFF - whether she is straight or bi. Satisfaction is based upon the female libido and ability to climax.
   
  While it is true there is a wide spectrum of females - some who can't climax, some who moderately climax, and some who frequently climax - seems to be the
  three main categories. But then, there's the super multi-o's and squirters who can be satisfied (yup, over and over again), in very short order.
   
  Syb. 

• intuition897 said on Aug 22, 2008....

  You're right, actually.  There really is a double standard which I think is unfair.  People are just people, and it's no less normal for a man to want to explore his same-sex inclinations as it is for a woman to do so.  It's just cooler for women to be bisexual than men.  Is it right?  No, but that's the social climate.  The trend seems to be coming around and you do see more bi men involved than before, which is great.  But the fact remains, the "lifestyle" is a cross-section of society in all its glory.  The good, the bad and the ugly.  I still uphold that swingers tend to be more open-minded in many areas that non-swinger's are NOT.  But it doesn't my any means mean that they're perfect.  It just means that they aren't any LESS open-minded than your average joe, but potentially MORE open-minded because they do consider some things that others would just as soon avoid dealing with.

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