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In the big wide world of the Internet, there are sites, especially if you blog or participate in discussion forums, where it feels like home. 
 
Literotica was my first home, and still one of my very favorites.  My other home is SoulCast.  If I've had a bad day, or need to be comforted, this is where I come.  It's familiar and comfortable, like a friendly coffee shop where you know exactly which red vinyl booth has a rip in the seat, and which table wobbles unless you stick a piece of cardboard underneath one of the legs, and your friends show up everyday and say hello.
 
I recently made a foray into a different kind of world for me.  Let's just say, it was not a comfortable fit.  Never have I felt so on display, with stern faced men tapping my mouth with their riding crops, and saying, "Open your mouth, girl, and let me count your teeth."  Of course I'm speaking metaphorically, but the feeling was still there.
 
I wanted to see what it was like and I did.  No thank you.  I'm staying here where people care about your heart and mind.  There are good people here.  I'm sure there are good people there.  But this is my home.
 
 


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  • kruuyai said on Aug 30, 2007....
    Mimi:  I feel the same, and I'm glad you're here.  {{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
  • quietone said on Aug 30, 2007....
    ditto here mimi   I also am glad you are here...wouldn't be the same w/o ya.
  • skald said on Aug 30, 2007....
    Mimi. I think we all like you. At least so do I and here is home. (((((Hugs)))) There are are also just two homes for me  SoulCast and the Icelandic blog .
  • Me-Myself&I said on Aug 30, 2007....
    I'll throw my two cents in here. I have a couple of other sites but since i have
    came here, i stay here.I really like it here too because of all the great souls. 
    This is my neighborhood!!.....howdy, neighbors **smile**
  • Mamie said on Aug 30, 2007....
    niiiiice. Mamie throws the frisbee over the fence line and thwack, it hits the Divine Miss M upside the head. Haha, gotchu!! Mimi gives a swift nod of her head and Ed comes running with a frozen trout! Oy vey!  Mamie runs over and hides behind Ginger's flowers....help!
    There goes the neighborhood!
    ps love you too!!
  • evil_twin said on Aug 30, 2007....
    I've been to lots of places online myself, and this one is definitely different than most. There are some great people here. And for the most part (except for a few people I don't need to name) everyone here is incredibly friendly. I'm glad you came back home :-)

    -evil_twin LA
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 31, 2007....
    i can understand that, mimi.

    [hug]

    ed
  • sweet_cookie01 said on Aug 31, 2007....
    this is my home too... the only blogsite i have ever been involved with.
  • lioneljay said on Aug 31, 2007....
    What do you have against stern-faced men with riding crops? I are one. :D
  • Battycat said on Aug 31, 2007....
    Yes this is definately  the most friendly place on line :-)
  • MissMimi said on Aug 31, 2007....
    LJ, my friend, you are not a stern faced man!  You're a bigger smartass than I am.  If you touched me with a riding crop I would hope it wouldn't be to use it on my teeth.  Besides I know you have a new toy you've been itching to try out. ;)
     
    Hi cookie, how have you been feeling?
     
    Thanks, Ed. {hug back}
     
    e_t, I'm glad you decided to stay too.  :)
     
    Mamie!  You're one of those crazy neighbors, aren't you?  LOL  I won't let Ed smack you with that stinky fish.
     
    Thanks, MM&I!  I'm glad you're sticking around.
     
    Thanks, skaldikins! :)
     
    quietone, I'm glad you're here too.  I always enjoy others who love to quilt.
     
    Kruu-ey!  {{{{{Hug!}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}  You're such a wild woman!
  • MissMimi said on Aug 31, 2007....
    Batty, you snuck in while I was typing.  It's a big happy family, with a few crazy relatives hidden in the attic. :D
  • Alyss said on Aug 31, 2007....
    I visit a couple of other forums but SC has a certain something to it. ;-)
  • MindfulOne said on Aug 31, 2007....
    If I've told you once I've told you a thousand times... don't go out alone after dark! I'll go with you! ;)
     
    Crazy chick, what am I going to do with you huh? 
  • lioneljay said on Sep 02, 2007....
    MindfulOne, I suggest that you start with a sensuous pass of a soft flogger alternated with strokes from a rabbit fur mitten. Slowly build up the intensity of the flogger strokes and reduce the number of passes with the fur. Finish with a flurry of sharp flogger strokes and then "cool down" with long passes of the rabbit fur.
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 02, 2007....
    Sometimes it takes a while to find your niche. Sorry the experience was difficult for you Mimi.
     
    Now LJ ...my, how that excites me. Care to demonstrate for MindfulOne?
  • MindfulOne said on Sep 02, 2007....

    You know LJ and SS, the increase in my SF level just shot up.


    It's I that needs the demo.  However, no matter what, my foray into such activities must be "Animal Friendly" as well as "Green".  I'm sure I could find a faux rabbit fur mitten, right? As for the flogger, our Miss Mimi can fashion one herself for my use. ;)

  • MissMimi said on Sep 02, 2007....

    Why MindlessOne, I'm sure I have no idea what you're talking about. :p

  • MindfulOne said on Sep 02, 2007....
    Oh for the love of Pete, just because you have rubber on your wheels doesn't mean you're safe from lightning strikes!    Bigger :P to you.
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 02, 2007....
    MindfulOne...I must admit LJ has a way of increasing one's SF...in a good way of course ;) lol at lightening striking Mimi.
     
    Lucky me...I'm not so concerned re animals.
     
    psst Mimi...want me to help out with your alzheimers? *chuckles*
     
  • mom said on Sep 02, 2007....
    Mimi- I love the fact that you are one of those that are constant.  You are you and there is a sense of security that comes with that.  I love ya.  I have always thought of you as the person that is very calming and I know that you are there when I need ya. I like it here too.
  • lioneljay said on Sep 03, 2007....
    SS, are you offering to be the "victim" for this demonstration? I'm sure we could work something out.  :devil:
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....
    LJ...that wasn't quite what I meant...and I don't do 'victim'...but since MindfulOne is such a good soul...I'll consider putting my ass on the line.
  • MissMimi said on Sep 03, 2007....
    SS, a flogging demonstration right here on my blog?  Way to take one for the team!  :D  [Watching intently...]
     
    Momma mia, you're right--I'm a constant alright...  A constant goofball. ;)
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....
    Christ Mimi now you're inviting the whole team! You know I don't play in public. ;)
  • mom said on Sep 03, 2007....
    *settles down with popcorn and her "I am a lecher" button on*
    Come on Sweet, you are among friends here. ;)
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....
    mom...if you want to sit and watch, you'll have to pass some of that popcorn over my way...LJ may be leaving my hands free, but I doubt my ass is going to be able to get up to come over to you to get some popcorn. ;)
     
     
  • lioneljay said on Sep 03, 2007....
    Who said anything about leaving your hands free, SS? I'm growing fond of rope tricks and their use in intimate encounters.
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....
    I said 'may' which was meant to imply that you may not as well. Rope tricks you say? Is that similar to chain tricks? giggles
  • lioneljay said on Sep 03, 2007....
    Ropes and chains are used for two entirely different things, SS. At least in my world. But if you'd like to also demonstrate the chain trick, I'm sure we could work that out. (or in)
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....

    Now LJ, I don't recall MindfulOne asking for a demonstration of any chain trick...and MindfulOne don't you dare disagree with me!!! *I am not an exhibitionist...I am not an exhibitionist*

     

  • mom said on Sep 03, 2007....
    Sweet- ok I will feed it to you, but don't choke on the kernels.  Do you want plain, salted, or extra butter?  What do you  want to drink?  A protein shake seems to be the ticket for this little episode. :)
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....
    actually choking is a real possibility...could I bother you for some cold water instead please mom? Something tells me I'll be working up a sweat...
  • MissMimi said on Sep 03, 2007....
    I am going to rename this post 'The Wacky World of Mimi's Dungeon:  Special Guest Flogger:  Sir LJ'
     
     
  • lioneljay said on Sep 03, 2007....
    Someone say something about a protein shake? I could see why this occasion is drawing popcorn-level interest. I like mine (popcorn that is) with some light butter and maybe a hint of cheddar.
  • mom said on Sep 03, 2007....
    SS- sure I will put some ice in it. :)    How about a wet cool towel for your head or red butt. :)

    Mimi- You sure know how to throw a party ;)

    LJ-  Yes, you  want a protein shake too?  Wow you are a man after my own heart.  I love popcorn with white cheddar.  I am eating some now.  Want me to pass you some?  You will need your strength.
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....
    Mimi...I knew you'd see the humour in this hijack but hey don't I get on that billing too? My ass on the line here. :)
     
    LJ!  You wicked man! *oops forgetting that flogger is nearby...lowers head and closes mouth*
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....
    mom...that sounded like an experience offer for my butt...and trust me it will need it more than my head will.
  • MissMimi said on Sep 03, 2007....

    Okay, SS, how's this:

    The Wacky World of Mimi's Dungeon featuring Sweetsoul's delightfully round ass; Guest Flogger:  Sir LJ

    mom, we ought to consider merchandising.  There's money to be made here.  Tee shirts would be a hit I think ...  I Watched SS get her butt warmed... and all I got was this stupid tee shirt..

    :D

  • lioneljay said on Sep 03, 2007....
    Mom, I'm a giver and not a taker, if you get my drift. But a bit of popcorn is always a good thing.

    And why do you figure that I'll need to keep up my strength? I train for this sort of thing.

    SS, I haven't even begun to show my true wickedness here. You might want to be careful what you wish for. :D
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....

    Mimi quit making me roflmao...you know LJ will both take advantage of that and discipline me for not submitting.

     

    LJ...yes, yes I can only imagine. *wishing LJ will show me more of his wickedness...bahaves, hopeful* ;)

  • MissMimi said on Sep 03, 2007....
    Oh no, my dear SS, it's not my fault you laughed...  It's not my butt on the line... ;)
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....

    Mimi...dear...you're being awfully brave from over their aren't you now woman.

    And yes it is your fault. I was laughing at your smart ass post. My ass is definitely round and some have thought it delightful. You and your merchandising!

  • MissMimi said on Sep 03, 2007....

    But SS, your ass will be famous-- the object of adoration and carnal desires!  Think of the royalties!

    And yes, I can be brave-- I sit on my ass all the time.  It's a lot harder to get to.  :p

  • sweetsoul said on Sep 03, 2007....
    roflmao...oh there are royalties too!? That will help lots when I'm whimpering and yelping as LJ comes down on my ass with increased force again and again. I hear he has a nice new flogger too.
  • MissMimi said on Sep 03, 2007....

    You can use some of the royalties to buy a nice tushie cushie. ;)

    Yes, I've heard the flogger is expertly made.  :D

  • mom said on Sep 04, 2007....
    Mimi- Good idea, we can call it "Floggers Paradise" a place where being a pain in the ass is a pleasant thing. Some of our t-shirts might say, I turned the other cheek at Floggers Paradise; I got cheeky at Floggers Paradise.

    LJ- I did not know you were such an expert, I always thought you were more of a wannabe.  I have to say I am impressed. I will have to watch and take notes, sometimes my husbands needs a good flogging.  You got any tips on gagging?  It annoys me when he whines and cries.
  • Alyss said on Sep 04, 2007....
    roflmao.

    This was a hysterical read but now I'm feeling left out. :P

    < looks at watch > Shouldn't you guys all be in bed?

    Off to work for me....
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 04, 2007....

    mom - lol cute...but don't give LJ any ideas about gagging. I only volunteered to have my ass reddened. Feels so good...looks so good. *sigh*

    Alyss...we were in bed by then...glad you enjoyed. Left out eh? Care to volunteer for mom's suggested gagging? or maybe you'd prefer to be blindfolded and have some sensory play?

  • MissMimi said on Sep 04, 2007....

    Alyss, you want your butt warmed too?  Awesome, there's a whole underground society of pervy ladies at SC! 

    LJ might get flogger's shoulder.  We need to recruit reinforcements.

    I have the number somewhere for SADIST (Secret Association Dealing In Sadistic Torture)...

  • lioneljay said on Sep 04, 2007....
    Mom, I'm hardly an expert but I pay attention when I have a chance to learn. I just don't see much need to blog about private interests in any kind of depth.

    Gagging has its merits but you also have to deal with a huge increase in drool. You get what you pay for, so to speak.
  • Alyss said on Sep 04, 2007....
    Not at all sure what my proclivities would be in that regard Mimi but I watched 'The Secretary' the other day and thought it was very tame.

    Not sure about having my derriere warmed but the sensory experience might be more up my alley so to speak. ;-)
  • MissMimi said on Sep 04, 2007....
    I've heard about that movie, Alyss, but I've never seen it.  I guess I better get busy.
     
    Just think what fun you could have exploring all those proclivities... Very cool word, by the way.  Proclivities.  Proclivities.  :D
  • lioneljay said on Sep 04, 2007....
    Just wondering if there's such a thing as amateur clivities?

    Secretary is a well done exploration of how people come to accept that dominance or submission is their true identity. Sure, there's plenty of activities in the BDSM tent that are much more extreme than were shown in the film, but that's not what it was about.
  • Alyss said on Sep 04, 2007....
    I agree LJ that it was interesting and I thought the exploration of the self harm leading to the submissive/dominant response was good.

    What I meant was that if one were expecting a more graphic exploration of bdsm which could be construed from the box blurb that they would be mistaken.
  • MissMimi said on Sep 04, 2007....
    proclivities and playclivities?  ;)
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 04, 2007....
    I'll add my vote for Secretary Mimi...I think it's almost considered a classic by now.
     
     
    Looks through my collection of books to see if there's anything that I might read to LJ.
  • lioneljay said on Sep 04, 2007....
    S, how about that classic bedtime story, Goldyflogs and the Three Subs?
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 04, 2007....
    LJ....smiles wryly...looks through my collection of children's books...don't think I have that one. How does it go?
  • lioneljay said on Sep 04, 2007....
    Well, Goldyflogs tries out his new flogger on the three subs. The first one cries too easily. The second one refuses to use her safeword and nearly passes out from the pain. The third sub went deliciously into sub space and was rewarded with a long session of g-spot massage.
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 04, 2007....
    oh oh please sir may I be the third sub???
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 04, 2007....
    oh oh please sir may I be the third sub???
  • lioneljay said on Sep 04, 2007....
    I don't know, SS. We'll have to try you out.
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 04, 2007....
    ok Mimi, mom, Alyss any of you up for this? I'm not going first or second.
     
    Lowers head....stands still.
  • MissMimi said on Sep 04, 2007....

    SS, you were so excited, you asked twice!  How cute is that?!  Lowers head...stifles giggles... sits still.  I'm right next to you, SS.

    Okay, I can not be thinking about this now...  I'm not allowed.

  • Zayda said on Sep 04, 2007....
    [sneaks in to watch the action]
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 04, 2007....
    hehe didn't realize that...but yes I was excited. :)
     
    ok Mimi's going as first sub...now to find a second one so I can go third.
     
    but just why aren't you allowed Mimi?
  • lioneljay said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Hmmm....is that Z I see in the corner, perhaps secretly wishing to try out the feel of the flogger?
  • sweetsoul said on Sep 05, 2007....
    oh please Z please.....
     
    *still waiting to be third* sigh
  • Zayda said on Sep 05, 2007....
    heh...i'm not going first.
  • lioneljay said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Have none of you ladies heard of the sensuous feel of leather on skin? A flogger need not be swung balls-to-the-wall all the time. It can be a highly sensuous implement.
  • MissMimi said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Zeeee.... come on... You know you want to...  The whole pleasure and pain thing, hon...  [smiles sweetly]
  • sweet_rose said on Sep 05, 2007....

    Balls to the wall flogger hitting.... omg That is a pleasure I have had and will beg for. There is no such thing as being hit TO hard with a flogger. :-D

    ((momemt)) a leather flogger kissing the skin of your back and ass... sliding across the opening of your pussy, teasing the pain and pleasure. I will arch my ass to that any day of the week... come rain, snow, shine, my period... I just don't care...lol Ohh and it has to be done with my Dominant standing behind me. That's the purest of pleasure for me.

  • MissMimi said on Sep 05, 2007....

    OMG, rose, enouigh!  You're killing me here... :p

    How's your little problem, sweet pea?  Heehee...

  • sweetsoul said on Sep 05, 2007....
    LJ why do you think I'm in line? mmmmmm
     
    sweet rose I beg to differ. While I've not experienced it yet, I think that, for me, it would be possible to hit me too hard with a flogger. That said, I'll agree it can be extrememly pleasureable and worth begging for. :)
  • lioneljay said on Sep 05, 2007....
    Begging? Did someone mention begging to be flogged? Ah, life is good (even if this part of it is mostly virtual). I do so enjoy the sound of a a whimpered beg.
  • MissMimi said on Sep 05, 2007....

    Pleasepleasepleasepleaseplease... Please flog SS, LJ.  Pretty please? 

     

    How's that, SS?  Did I do good? ;)

  • sweetsoul said on Sep 05, 2007....

    roflmao Mimi....was there some whimpering in there?  with gusto?

    hon I can't answer you. It's LJ that has to provide the answer. He's the one with the flogger...but I wanted to go third not first. I thought you were going first, then Z, then me.

  • DaddysLittleSlut said on Apr 04, 2008....
    Could you still possibly be waiting for a third ass to flog??? **~giggles and shyly looks up

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