• exhibit_c said on Aug 28, 2007....

  No, not weird.

• wild-ting said on Aug 29, 2007....

  No, your feelings aren't weird. It's nice to have a fantasy and very healthy. You mentioned your thoughts about sexual relations with a women come mainly when you're sexually aroused and I believe that is because as you mentioned we are 'softer, prettier, better smelling and delicate." I love the female form, it is beautiful...doesn't mean that there is something wrong with me (or you). I simply appreciate beauty.
  
  A threesome can be complicated...
  
  If your desires become more than a curiosity, I think you should be with a female alone--no boyfriend. You may decide that the fantasy was nicer.
  

• Brunettebmshell said on Aug 29, 2007....

  Exhibit ~ Thanks for the reassuring words.

  Wild ~ Yes I definitely agree with you. I think having a threesome would absolutely create a sticky situation... in more ways than one, ha!

  I'm not saying that being bisexual, gay, or in my case bi-curious is "weird" or there would be something wrong with me, it's just coming from a background like mine, it wouldn't be very excepting at all. So it's kind of dangerous to flirt with the idea. Anyway, thanks for taking the time to stop by and give me some advice! :-)

  BB

• namyogrl said on Aug 29, 2007....

  I have so many sexual fantasies about women, for years I have
  held them in and told no one, untill I met my current boyfriend
  Talking about it during the act has really enhanced our time
  together. I don't think I could ever act on it but it has been a lot
  of fun.

• Brunettebmshell said on Aug 29, 2007....

  It's nice when you can finally talk about it with someone isn't namyogrl? I couldn't discuss it for the longest time, even with my own bf until recently. Talking about it does seem to boost excitement in our sex life as well :)

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• vacantmind said on Aug 29, 2007....

  I am bisexual. I am happily married but I also have a girlfriend. My husband knows that is something I need. I would say I was bi-curious for a number of years. Until I met someone that I was comfortable exploring with. You may just be able to live on the fantasy alone, alot of women toy with the idea of being with another woman. If you ever decide to act on those desires, go it alone. You need time to explore your own sexuality before trying to please two people. Its not an easy task and jealousy is a mean emotion.

• Brunettebmshell said on Aug 29, 2007....

   
  Very interesting... Thank you Vacant. How does your husband like the idea of you having a girlfriend? Does he ever get jealous? And how did you approach him about being bisexual? Thanks for the info!
   
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• vacantmind said on Aug 29, 2007....

  My husband travels alot. We have an agreement that I don't bring her home nor do I see her when he is town. It keeps the jealousy at bay. He doesn't see us interact so there is none of that "you look at her differently." Or "you enjoy it more with her." I simply told my husband that this was a part of me. I needed to explore it. Which he agreed and it eventually left me feeling more satisfied and not trying to find a way out of our marriage.

  Which is why he is okay with me having a girlfriend. Being able to be myself allowed me to open up in our marriage and in the bedroom. Sex is better. He likes me having a girlfriend now.

  He does get jealous from time to time. But it is usually about the amount of time I am able to spend with her not really about our sexual relationship. He knows her and trusts that she won't interfer with our marriage. She doesn't try to convince me to leave him.  My husband also knows he comes first. I will leave her before I leave him.

• wombat said on Aug 29, 2007....

  Hi 100th reader!  I check out your blog and this is what I see!  lol!  Your honesty is refreshing.  I would imagine there are many women out there who have these feelings but won't talk about it.  (And many couples who talk about it in private)

• Brunettebmshell said on Aug 29, 2007....

   
  Vacant ~ It's amazing that you are able to be so honest with your husband. I'm glad he is ok with who you are, and is not too jealous about you having a girlfriend. It's also good that you both have boundaries that you have set up, I think that is important.
   
  Thanks for sharing!
   
  wombat ~ Well aren't you popular, lol ;P It's very nice to meet you.
   
  It's kind of strange for me to openly discuss something like this that I have kept inside and haven't shared with anyone, (besides my bf of couse). It's very freeing, and even though I will probably never act on my feelings it's nice to talk about it without being judged. Thanks everyone!
   
  BB
   

• wombat said on Aug 30, 2007....

  Brunettebmshell:  Nice to meet you, too.  I am learning to spell your SC name without looking!  Ha.

• lfbno7 said on Nov 10, 2007....

  I think it's normal for a girl to be bisexual. I think most girls have that capability, but just don't act on it. I also think that one hell of a lot of them do act on it. You are bisexual. That makes you normal. Just being attracted is enough to prove it. The spark is there.

• Brunettebmshell said on Nov 11, 2007....

   
  Hahahaha... I don't think I would call myself a bisexual... I would say more bi-curious?
   
  But the thing is... I don't find just any girl attractive. I am extremely picky about the type of women I would even consider being sexually attracted to. And I don't know if I could ever act on my feelings. Might be real weird, so I think I'll just keep it as a little fantasy :)
   
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• vacantmind said on Nov 11, 2007....

  I am also very picky about who i am attracted to. That's to be expected. I was very much like you and thought I would never act on it and found it to be a bit strange outside the fantasy world. Then the right girl came along at the right time. Bi-curious is appropriate for you right now and you may never experience a same sex relationship but then again you might. It is a matter of being open to it when the situation warrants.

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