Searching for hapiness. Something we all do and often enough for failure. What we lack though is the realization that our hapiness can be conditional, and not always what we expect them to be. We lay down rules to regulate our life. We manipulate time in order to fit in or remove what we don't want in it. We try so much to take control over everything that the seemless has now become overbearing and complicated. I have struggled with the thougt about just letting things be. Not everything is under our control or power. So how do we know when to take the lead in life and make our own destiny, and learn to let go of the things we no longer have control over (or for one reason or another, never had). Finding the rught time to say or do something takes time in itself. The planning, the arranging, scheduling and forecasting tomorrows itinerary.