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Since the beginning of time, it has always been a biased standard between men and women and sex. Why do I say this? 'Cause it seems like it is so cool for a men to slept with 5 to 100 women; he's a pimp, mack, or a playa, but when a woman has slept with more than one man she's a hoe, bitch, or slut.
 
Why???
Why is it ok for men to sleep around and not a woman??
What makes a woman a "slut" or "hoe" than a man??


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  • blastfromthepast said on Aug 22, 2007....
    I would say, IMHO, that anyone in this day and age who has slept with 100 people would be best kept at a safe distance.   He or she might have picked up a few 'gifts that keep on giving'.
     
    IMHO (again) it's okay for men to sleep around because they're hoping to gain experience from women who sleep around, and they do it because they like teaching.  Personally, I got tired of teaching and so I married my husband, lol!
  • SeanRenaud said on Aug 22, 2007....
    guys and girls are different, it's not a very complex situation.  Though I don't really think that women should be considered sluts and hoes it is worse for a woman to sleep around than a guy.
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 22, 2007....
    personally, i don't think i know that i can define it.

    nice to see you again, ms bradford. i hope you've been well?

    ed
  • E_Eyes said on Aug 23, 2007....
    thoughts of a feather
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 23, 2007....
    I think the cultural attitude reflects individual preference. Women conflate sex with children and home to a greater extent than men. Besides, the consequences of sex have always been greater for women than men which makes them more cautious.
  • slirpuff said on Aug 23, 2007....
    It dates back when men were always looking
    for the "untouched / virgin " bride. If she had
    been active so to speak, he was "used material"
    and that only fallen women had multi partners.
    They wanted to be her 1st and if she lied about
    being a virgin, it was grounds for an anullment.
    Men on the other hand needed to be "experience"
    so they could please their new wife and show her
    they were a "manly man".
    This has changed to the point where very few are
    untouched anymore but with everything out there,
    no one wants to be with someone who's been out
    there any very active.
    Steve
     
  • anonymous said on Aug 23, 2007....
    I really consider a slut or a hoe to be just name calling by a select groups of slut, pimp, mack dad and hoe, which i have been throught my life time called even when, at the time, i was innocence.
  • Expendable said on Aug 23, 2007....
    You don't feel as guilty about the mean things you do to someone when you think they're less than human.
  • destinydiva said on Aug 23, 2007....
    blast I love how you put that!!!

    msbrad, good question! that always rags me off how its cool for men but slutty for women....  not that I have or would have slept with 100 men :-) but!!!  us ladies have sexual needs too right??  :-)

    Destiny xx
  • MsBradford07 said on Aug 23, 2007....
    Silver: I have been doing good, just been working really hard lately.
     
    Destiny: I totally agree with you and wonder whycan't a woman fulfill her sexual needs without being a slut??
     
    Everyone thanks for the comments..
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 24, 2007....
    Do you know the Peter Whimsey novel "Gaudy Night" by Dorothy Sayers? There is a lot of early 20th century claptrap about virgin women scholars at Oxford and how they must all be neurotic. I could never quite reconcile that with the birde-is-virgin view of life.

    But they did seem to feel that the proper state for a woman is to be a wife getting regular marital sex.
  • anonymous said on Aug 24, 2007....

    A hoe (whore) charges for services rendered. A slut does not. I prefer sluts! As for women getting ragged because they have had a lot of partners, well that is a small price to pay for being able to get some whenever you want. Lets face it a guy just can’t say, "who wants a rocket ride" and get immediate takers. A woman can ask, "who want’s some" and BANG, she’s gonna get laid. That’s not far either.

  • desertsienna2 said on Aug 25, 2007....

    Don't believe in double standards.  Men and women are capable of the same actions sexually.  There are times when women can be deceived and exploited, but is not the welfare-dependant bar sex fan in search of that next child support check who is the victim here.  Some people choose to do this.  I knew a forty-seven-year-old woman who used drugs during her entire marriage, ignored her son and insisted on getting custody while continuing with her ways.  She got alimony and child support while insisting on more money for the dentist and spending more of her money on luxury designer clothes and drugs.  She still goes down the biker bars and wears thin, tight shirts showing her breasts to pick them up for a one-night stand.  She uses her ex-boyfriends and male friends for sex without attachment on weekends.  You can't stop someone from doing this and it's not a slag on single mothers but I will not protect single mothers from criticism anymore than housewives or career women.  It's not an issue of that.  It's an issue of hypocrisy and personal responsibility. 

    I think that a person can be a victim of addiction and sexual exploitation but it depends on the situation.  I have a lot of sympathy for addicts on the street and hookers but little for someone who actively chooses this lifestyle and forces it on children and spouses.  There is sexual harassment, stalking, assault and pornography, which are unacceptable.  If you feel like deliberately subjecting yourself to what this woman does, be forewarned there is no victimization here.  It is a choice.  I am not judging or hating.  She could get out of it if she wants to but she gets no sympathy, respect or help from me.

  • x0_gemini_0x said on Oct 29, 2007....
    THAT'S JUST THE WAY THE WORLD WORKS AND THAT'S NEVER GONNA CHANGE.  I truly believe it's built into our DNA that men feel certain things and women feel certain things.  It's all about chemical reactions in the brain and in the air around us...which some may call an aura. =) Believe me, if a woman wants to still have fun, she can do it without being called those names if she does it right...=) *wink wink*

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