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In high school, Public Display of Affection was banned. Hand holding was permitted, but kissing, hugging, etc. was not. There was a dress code too, of course, which emphasized modesty.

On the other end of the spectrum, I had a neighbor who put his hand up his wife's skirt - briefly, as if to check on her underwear - in my presence.

In our marriage, public hand holding, hugs, brief kisses are about the max. All else is private.

What is the most overtly sexual PDA that you will do in public?


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  • uniquely-ironic said on Aug 16, 2007....
    It would depend on the situation.  I don't think it's at all cool to make others uncomfortable by my display of affection.
     
    I have done some intense kissing and holding when saying goodbye at an airport.  Not right in the middle of the walkway, but I didn't go find a corner either.  Public sex, I don't think so!
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 16, 2007....
    Passionate good-byes are a staple at airports and train stations.
  • wild-ting said on Aug 16, 2007....
    Once while partying at a club, watching a live band, my then lover pulled up the back of my mini-skirt and fucked me from the rear. Right on the dance floor. He had his pants up but pulled his cock out through the open zipper. At first nobody really notice. We were just gyrating to the music. But then it felt so good, and was such a turn on to be fucked in public that I bent completely over, put my hands of the floor with my ass in the air and got fucked wildly. Ooh, it was so nice. The spectators just stepped a few feet away and watched. After we climaxed, we ran out of the club. *giggle*
  • secretlife said on Aug 16, 2007....
    hand holding, a kiss or a hug...
    especially if you know others are watching.
    but the notion of doing something sexual in a public place without necessarily being caught......hmmmm......that turns me on. 
     
    it's the potential to be caught that is exciting to me.
     
     
  • LloydTheBarber said on Aug 16, 2007....
    Yeah, its all fun and games until you end up with an "indecent exposure" charge on your record. Jesus, i have had a really hard time getting a job since!
  • kruuyai said on Aug 17, 2007....
    On the Prague metro, people will make out to the point of dry humping 2 inches in front of your face, when it's so crowded you can't even move to get away.  In Mexico, teens were always making big displays of Frenching in public (they didn't have anywhere else to go). When I first saw it, I thought it was sweet.  But after a while, it got annoying if it was happening right in my path or line of view.  I can't say why excessive (excessive to be defined by the individual) PDA makes me feel uncomfortable, but it does.  I guess I was more physically demonstrative in public when I was much younger (probably so I could show the world.. look!  somebody loves me!), but now I wouldn't do much more than a very simple kiss on the lips or maybe just a quick slip of the tongue if no one's looking, but I don't want to make other people uncomfortable, (or myself either for that matter).  My boyfriend in Mexico always wanted to be very demonstrative in public, but it pissed me off.  Not only did it make me feel uncomfortable, but I felt that he was doing it to publicly stake his claim on me.  Very possessive.  In Thailand, even husbands and wives don't touch each other in public.  Not even to hold hands. 
  • queenparanoia said on Aug 17, 2007....
    i'm not really into PDA... i'll rather be naughty when we are alone together... ;)
  • mom said on Aug 18, 2007....
    I am much more toned down now than I was in my youth.  I no longer have sex at the window in Dairy Queen.  Now it is usually a quick peck if anything at all.
  • kruuyai said on Aug 18, 2007....
    mom:  But seriously, how quickly can he peck with that big pecker of his?
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 18, 2007....
    Dairy Queen, LOL! That's like a scene from a movie.
  • TheKinkyCupcake said on Aug 18, 2007....
    All depends on the place I suppose. My boyfriend is always pinching my butt or touching me. To be honest, I don't care what people think. Whether they see it or not, I'm going to have people talking because I'm white and he's black. I settle for simple hand holding and kissing though. Just as long as people know he's mine. :3
  • mommyof2 said on Aug 18, 2007....

    It twas a party outside at the sand dunes, on top of a

    car with everyone cheering, people skinny dipping in the small lake close by, beer, pot, pills, I was maybe 15, I think I vomited on him after, and did not know him.

  • mom said on Aug 18, 2007....
    Kruu- you would be surprised just how fast. :(  I call him the jiffy lube guy sometimes.

    Exhibit- I was in a car, but not hidden very well. 
  • amyispretty said on Aug 19, 2007....
    Hmmm, depends on the situation.  I've made out in bars, but if you're drunk it seems acceptable.  With my current bf, we kiss on the lips in public at times, but not for more than a few seconds.  However, he smacks my ass all the time, and his favorite time to do this is when we're in line at walmart w/people behind us.  He's a strange one.
  • pinaybj said on Aug 23, 2007....
    Several time I have made the sex in public place. Several time I give the boy handjob or the blowjob in bar or coffee shop or theater. This not so unusual in Manila.
    I also several time have the sex handjob or blowjob or intercourse on beach or on boat. One time I sex in taxi. many time I sex in the private car.
     
  • FreeSpirit22 said on Aug 23, 2007....
    During my freshman year of high school, my boyfriend at the time somehow convinced me to have sex with him behind the gym in broad daylight. I still wonder how no one saw!!!
  • wild-ting said on Sep 02, 2007....
    FreeSpirit22,

    We saw...we saw it all! LOL

  • jimidean said on Sep 28, 2007....
    I've given and received oral sex in a movie theater in high school.  Does that count?

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