over the past 3 months i've watched my sister lose her entire left side. first the muscles of her face, then her shoulder, arm, hand, and now this past few weeks her left leg.
you take for granted all the things you use even your left side for. first it provides balance. she has a hard time standing because of this paralysis. simple things like walking you have to re-learn....and we're having alot of problems with it. speech is another thing. without the left side of your mouth, your speech becomes garbled, and people cannot understand you...
the physical therapist said to climb a step, 50% of the thrust comes from the opposite leg. without that, it's a complete relearning of how to do even the simplest thing....taking steps.
i was with her yesterday. she said she can't wait until she can pull up her own pants again without help.
if you think you'd hate to lose your vision, or your hearing, imagine what it's like to need help when you go to the bathroom. to get there, and to clean yourself afterwards.
i'd hate to lose so many things. i'd hate most to lose my independence....to have to rely on others to do even the most private of things.
we take so much for granted....
I have lived all of my life with virtually no use of my left leg, and impaired use of my left arm. While I do have a certain amount of curiosity about what it feels like to run and dance, I've gotten along without the full use of my body. I have motor paralysis--losing sensory paralysis would be devasting to me. Of the senses of sight or hearing, I could live without my sight, but if I lost the ability to hear music or the voices of my loved ones, well, I'd have a lot of trouble with that.
It's all perspective I guess. Somewhere I think you find the strength to deal with the loss of use of body parts and senses. It's hard, to be sure, but eventually you can become accustomed to anything. After all, what's the alternative? Just one person's opinion.
First ...Secret....i am so sad to read what your sister is going thru .....and so sorry for you because you are witnessing it all...{{{{{hugs}}}}}
You are rigth...we go in life taking everything for granted. But ist the only way we can have a normal life. We would be constantly paralyzed by the terror otherwise.......
As for me....losing my sight would be the worst. I am a visual. Sight means control of the sorroundings.. Even if cant walk around or hear or taste or smell. What's the purpose of moving if i dont see where i am and what i have around me and who is with me. And not seeing the face of my loved ones?.....No way.
And since memory is indeed a sense for me...i would be devastated without memory..
LG, the deaf can still dance, it's just a matter of feeling the vibration in the air. Of course, it helps that the music's got a definite beat to it. Beethoven's best work was done when he was completely deaf.
Touch is the one sense I'd have a problem living without - because without it, you're completely alone.