Things seem pretty much the same here as they always have. Mostly good people with a few random morons thrown in to keep things exciting.
It's summer. Some SoulCasters are actually out doing things. Having fun.
No, I don't think things have radically or even sigificantly changed.
But I do read Cops. I'm not subscribed to him but there's some people you shouldn't ignore, even if you don't like them much. He reminds me of someone I used to know.
To me, it is just like RL some people have their days. I really have seen some cursor pointing here. name calling etc w/o even reading the post - it has been in the title. But, in RL I just walk away and ignore it, and let the people involved carry on their todo. For the most part, I find the people I read and stay with very enjoyable and usually easy to respond to w/o fear I will say something wrong to set them off in a tizzy. But, yes, ed, I have "felt" the tension occasionally. I just don't understand the big issue over getting on the featured post page. Get over it already!! my 2 cents.
Well, I've been up here over a year now. And some more. I know I am not the one who is up here every day and knows everyone, reads everyone, but I am here. Some times get involved, sometimes just let my thoughts out and leave again.
But I know SC. It is not SC that's changing. It is us - you guys - who read and react to the changes inside yourselves. I know, I know, whoever know me, now says " here we go again, she starts with the whole concept of YOU". But I truely believe in this concept.
The world never changes. People do. We do. So as relationships never change. The people in it do.
This post and people commenting in it shows exactly how it works.
Think about it. Are you the type who can commit - let's say to a relationship - and make a long term connection, or are you the type who's "never happy"?
I can tell you right now, people who say SC is pretty much the same, and the mood changes are perfectly fine as the part of life, are the very same people who can live in long marriages, keep long term friendships, and know to acept people and things the way they are. Those who complain are mostly the ones who always find themselves in a relationship asking "why and where did it go wrong?"
I know I am the same way with people as I am with my interactive, online communities. I know who I really like and connect with, and I am pretty faithful too, but I do have my mood swings, so I come and go. With me, all you have to know, that I come back. Always. And I love to find you there welcoming me, noticing me, resonding to me without holding me responsible for being away a little bit. I need my feedom and I'll let you have yours.
Selection is indeed a main thing in these online communities. I now much more than I used to, and if I have something to say, I even comment. When I do there is no way you can miss that. With that, I've made a couple of friendships up here. People I want to read more, people I want to let into my world more.
I don't read things just for passing time. I don't read things that don't talk to me. Why would I bother when I know there are people who are probably going to make me feel good about me, about life. They are here. They ARE here. Not always shinning and happy, but than I wan tot be there for them. Not always deep and touching, but than I want to laugh with them, or just be nuaghty for the fun of it. That's a relationship.
I've only had two people I've had spicy conversations with in the past. Hunter and The Nacked. I don't even remember why. All I know that it all worked out in the end. I was actually looking forward for their answeres just because I knew there was going to be an intelligent come back that'll challange me. I like challanges. I respect other point of views.
I just don't getr into the hot and wet sex posts or the silly, childish ones. I don't read the borring blogs, I don't read the ones that don't interest me. I am not changing. At least not enough to blame it on the site.
It's all in your head guys. It's all in your head.
Ed,
No, you are not in the minority. I read people who enrich my undrstanding of the human condition through satire, or some other form of observation, that's my mainstay. I do sometimes read things moe frivolous because I need something nore lighthearted. I stay away from peoples rants, and ravings, everytime I haven't I've regreted it. some people, however, enjoy that sort of thing, and that's cool too. If you don't like it son't read it. Peace and Long Life
Love Worf
I don't mind the arguments as long as people are not being hurt. It's normal to have a difference of oppinion. But to start crap for no reason or to have fun at the expense of others feelings, or to intentionally hurt someone, That irks me to no end. Especially when it's someone who never bothers a soul but comes here to mingle and have a good time. There's always going to be one or two that have to make someone else miserable to have a good time. It gets old. It's like being at a party, everyone casually having a couple drinks and then some lunatic has to many and becomes the raging drunk who starts in on people and smashing things up. It spoils the mood and people start leaving.
I hav'nt been here long and already have had my run ins, which put me over the edge at one point. I think at some point you have to speak what's on your mind. But it's over with and I don't read them anymore or bother with them. I know who they are inside and I don't need that kinda aggravation although I'm not saying I'd back down if it came my way again. It's all a part of life and what you have to deal with. I still think SC is a great community as a whole and it will ever so slightly change as people come and go. New personalities, perrenials, and permanent. Families grow and expand and some leave the nest. That's life.
Howdy silverwhisper, & all my new neighbors.....Silver I started a comment here a bit ago and was going on and on so I went and Posted it I said it was inspired by you.. Sometimes it is hard to understand what I am trying to say and thought I better do this on my own walls lol Take care thanks for stopping by >>>warning....I'll Be Baackk...... lol God Bless You n Have a Great Day!
sliver - thank you :-) i guess doing moronic things and being moronic aren't the same thing, are they? just like inspiring to write and writing aren't the same, hmm? :-)
sudden - you've been at parties where that happens? i guess i don't get out enough! but i like how you put your sentiments. i think that most reasonable people would see it the same way. at least i do anyway.
Wow Passion I didn't see it like that....I wouldn't want anyone to feel threatend by me. Its weird when I first got here I thought it was like a My S. But Then i notice its a place away from all that and everyone seems to be friends in some way. I was invited here by a friend, who thought I would really enjoy some of the Posts here.. was told that it seemed to them I might possibly be a lot like this person and read what I saw interesting....I was like a kid in a candy store only I talk (Any way i can.. lol) I thought by Posting I was telling a bit of who I am...and opening the door for people to look me over....reading over I see you are only saying that may be the case with some..I just wanted to say for me I dont want to take over or care if anyone post on my page or not...well ok not quite like that lol I care>>> I thank you All and feel honored for friendships..that is what is important to me.....ok Im gonna do a Passion And Shake off the water...thanks for the insight Passion, I mean that serriously.
I'm Ready!!!! Putting Mentos in Diet Coke.... Ready>>>>Squirts*^**^^^***^^*^^^^^^^**^^^**^*^*^*^*^*^^^^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*
Your right, its not changing. Its been a bit of a crappy place. The annoymous postings ability means more than the usual types try and get away with crappy behavior.
Doesnt mean there isnt good folks......but there is more than the usual bad ones that I've seen.