silverwhisper's tags:
did you ever watch the show mad about you? paul reiser once described the basic premise of the show very simply: they spend the entire episode trying to have sex. :>

i was reading a blog entry by zsuzsio and she describes having a considerable sexual appetite. this got me thinking about my own libido and thinking about the daily logistical problems that interfere with the opportunity to do so.

and of course, all of this yielded (oo, surprise!) a poll!

how many times/day or how many times/week would you really want to have sex?

ed

p.s.: links fixed--thank you, infernal!

del.icio.us Digg reddit StumbleUpon

Comments

  • kruuyai said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Again, ed, not so simple!  In the early days of the relationship, when everything is fresh and new, I could be called Mrs. Cottontail, and if there's an element of forbidden fruit in the picture, well then, things could stretch out in that vein for a while.  But after things settle down and get cozy, maybe once or twice a week, if he's any good.  ;-)
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Second and third links don't go to what you want 'em to. ;-)

    Eh, if we have to be practical about it, I'd go with once per day (can - and do - exist on much less at times, and I wouldn't want to outright cause a heart attack in my libido-challenged better half), regardless of what my Scorpio blood insists would be ideal. :-D

    ~Infernal
  • beyondtheveil said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Ed- I'm with the kruugirl- word for word.
  • Alyss said on Aug 13, 2007....
     I have absolutely no idea. 
  • one_wired_kitty said on Aug 13, 2007....
    once or twice a day every day is good enough for me.
  • one_wired_kitty said on Aug 13, 2007....
    too bad my insecurities prevent such activity ...LOL
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 13, 2007....
    I can remember once when Wife and I were trying to conceive that we got to a frequency slightly greater than once a day for a week or more at the times of presumed greatest fertility. That was too high.
  • lyssa said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Considering that my libido is very high - twice a day would be nice. Or once a day for each passing day... possible? *smile* YYYeeeessssss!!!
     
    But I do agree with Kruuyai - once you get comfy and cozy, things just slow down a bit. That happened in a lot of my friends' marriages. Except for two of them that I know of... as for me, I would try to have at least once every other day - no matter what (when I am way older, of course)!!!
  • Pontius_Pilate said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Well for me right now, considering that it has been over 5 years since the last time. I would say as many times as possible within the first 48 hours. o_O

    LoL

    Seriously, once I get into a steady relationship with someone I've noticed that my libido gets into a pattern. Basicly once, or twice, every other day. That pretty much covers it for me. While sometimes it does alter a bit, that is the typical.
  • gingersoul said on Aug 13, 2007....

    Kruu and Beyond.......i have to disagree with you guys...because the last years of my marriage has been even wilder than the first ones. 

    The big dip in our sexual life happened in the middle and it was due to serious elements like a deep post partum depression followed by my struggling with my new life (moving here, adjusting to new rules and behaviors and so on).

    Once i overcame that shifting phase that lasted some time we got back on track actually reaching again and even surpassing our first years's appetite.    

     

  • quietone said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Oh, once a year if I had to.
  • uniquely-ironic said on Aug 13, 2007....
    I'll agree that at the beginning of the relationship it's possible to not get enough!  I have to admit that in most of my relationships that were long term that I had my man on the run he was so worn out.  After that I preferred to settle into quality over quantity of 2-3 times a week.  Of course I'd like to think that if I met someone that was really "the one" that it would be more often. 
  • kittens_in_mittens said on Aug 13, 2007....
    i very rarely feel the need for more than i have, so i guess that 1-3 times a week suits me just fine.......i do spend an awfully large portion of my time thinking about it though, it just doesn't always translate as an urge to do anything about it.....kits x
  • slirpuff said on Aug 13, 2007....
    I've been with my bride for 15 years and still
    find her hot !!!!
    We do it 5 times/days per week.....
    I'd like it 7 days a week  but she says she
    needs some time off for bad behavior...
    Steve
     
  • MissMimi said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Oh, quietone...  I shouldn't laugh, but that just made me giggle.  I so hear ya on that one.  At least for now. 
  • botoni said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Once every other day but the event should last for 12 hours minimum.
  • kruuyai said on Aug 13, 2007....
    beyond:  word for word?  lol... you'd better proofread my comment.  Is there, ummm, something you're not telling us?  :)

    quietone:  That put a smile on my face too... mostly because there have been times when I was right there!

    botoni:  You go, guy!
  • faulty_perfection said on Aug 13, 2007....
    PERVERTS!! ALL OF YOU!! How DARE you bring up the sacred act between a husband and a wife!!! THE ACT OF SEX IS FOR MARITAL PROCREATION ONLY!!
  • AlisonMarie19 said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Well, yeah, then I guess we're all perverts... The act hasn't been "sacred" for centuries. And if you really do feel this way, I pity you.
     
    ......Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.......
     
                      ali
  • moonstone said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Mad About You was one of my favorite shows! But in answer to your poll, I'd be happy to get it once a week. As it goes now, I can't even remember the last time I got it. Christmas? I think it might have been one of my presents.
  • kruuyai said on Aug 13, 2007....
    moonstone:  Yet another thing we have in common.  Mad About You was my all time favorite.  I used to have 100 episodes on video tape!   (Sorry, I'm not stalking you... really)  :)
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 13, 2007....
    kruu: actually, that sounded pretty darned simple to me. my experience doesn't match yours, but hey, we're different people and it makes sense that we'd feel differently about it, no?

    [scans list]

    fauly perception: bzzt! wrong answer, thank you for playing, have a lovely parting gift.

    i will talk about anything i like on my blog page. if you don't like it, don't read it.

    ed
  • AlisonMarie19 said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Ooh... I just thought of something.....
     
    The female clitoris serves no purpose except to provide a pleasurable sensation to the female.
     
    Why else would God create a female to have this small organ if He didn't want us to ENJOY having sex?? And if your reply is: "To make the female want to procreate, since it is pleasurable to do so.", that's not right either, because most females don't orgasm from sex alone! AND, what's the purpose of a female orgasm? Why would this even exist if sex was meant for procreation only?? Someone needs to wake up and smell this side of the century. Go ahead and make an argument about premarital sex, sure, but don't get on a soap box about married people having sex. That's just dumb.
     
                         ali
     
    PS: Good answer, Ed. :)
  • ZsuzsiO said on Aug 13, 2007....
    OMG! You guys had me rolling, whiping tears off my face! He he he! wow, what a laugh!
    slirpuff, if you wouldn't have a woman who you still find hot ( I cannot tell you how adorable that is ) I would think I am in love! But I do respect your relationship and I keep my attraction Platoic.
     
    Me? Well I know I've got you all curious, so I'll share.
    It's really a question of what I'd really like, or what reality allows.
    In my head, the secret of a good relationship is to start out the day with a smile - there is nothing like a half asleep quicky, before we even open our eyes. That one does not have to involve much kissing - it is not love making, it's like a goof wake up call.
    During the day one should no be bothered, unless both sides feel  they just can't resist. that mostly happenes in the beginning of the relationship, and there is no way to tell how many times that could occure =]
    But no matter what, there is no way one can go to sleep without making passionate love to that warm body that just slipped into the bed right under the same blanket, touching bare skin, sending electric shocks right to the heart, sending it around from head to toe.
    Idealistically, I'd prefer to keep this order most days of the week, but never force it if one of us happenes to be extremely tired, depressed or just not in the mood. Sex should never be a must, it should never become a duty.  So I guess, what I am saying is that once a relationship is calmer, than twice a day, 5-7 times a week is what I would, and know I could be happy with.
     
    Reality: The 3-4 times a week is a resonable amount, hoping that there is a nice ballance of morning sex and late night love making, combined with some "Saturday afternoon siesta sex".  We all go to work, we have stress factors, we get busy with things we wanted to do but we didn't have time for. We need some time apart some times in order to be able to miss the other one, and miss sex in general. We need some "me time" when we can just spend the night with a book, or up on SC, or whatever - it'd all part of our lives the same way as sex is.
     
    Still, the first couple of months should have nothing to do with reality. It's a time to go crazy, a time to be on La La Land, a time to forget about the world and just have good sex......
     
    PS: The last time I've had that kind of a relationship was in 2003. So there you go reality check.....
  • ZsuzsiO said on Aug 13, 2007....

    to Faulty Perfaction - If I'd find out that you are the guy I am seeing now under this name, I wouln't be surprised. If not I got to introduce you to him!!! Only, he doesn't want children as of right now, but he told me he's planning to punish his wife to be by getting her pregnant about 5-8 times once he'll finlly feel ready for marriage.

    Is that you, baby?

  • rightwingwizard said on Aug 13, 2007....
    As often as is both comfortable and acceptable to both parties.  No more...no less!
     
    rww
  • rightwingwizard said on Aug 13, 2007....
    And of course you are correct (this time), the question was simple as is my response.
     
    rww
  • SocialPenguin said on Aug 13, 2007....
       My wife and I have settled into a groove of about twice a week and that seems to work for both of us.  Both working full-time and having a two-year-old and a baby in the house makes it a bit difficult for any more than that, both because of time and exhaustion ;)
  • Mamie said on Aug 13, 2007....
    oh, Lord, I didn't know I was supposed to keep track!
  • LadyGamer said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Actually... if I had someone to do this with... I would wish to do so at least once per day. In one form or another, at least once. Even if just a little oral for the moment. I lika da nookie.
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Well, I thought that faulty_perception was making a funny. Evidently, my perception was faulty.
  • gentlepie said on Aug 13, 2007....

    once or twice a week, performance level! if theres more time, 3x a week would be nice. sex is just a facet of the relationship. its being together that really counts. movies, dinner, out-of-town weekends, and fun time with friends complete the relationship. of course theres a great deal of exchanges in all of em, may it be intellectual, emotional etc. these make for a satisfying relationship i think not to mention great sex! 

  • SeanRenaud said on Aug 13, 2007....
    As often as I can get it.  An ideal universe would be twice a day.  At least once a week I would get fresh meat simply to keep myself from getting bored. 
     
    In my sad reality I'm lucky to get twice a week and over the seven years of my adult life I've gotten two girls.  It is a well known fact that I rather suck at life.
  • gentlepie said on Aug 13, 2007....

    @ sean : ah, if life sucks, suck back harder! its the only way to get even. hehehe. peace! :)

  • Suddenrain said on Aug 13, 2007....
    EC, he forgot to say LoL.  ;-)
  • mom said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Bot- I LOVE YOU!  12 hours Yeah baby! 

    Ed- do you mean with someone? I think once a day would be great, and I would be content with once a week, once a month, oh hell even once a year!

    Sean- I have never known you to complain about anything sucking ;)
  • MissMimi said on Aug 13, 2007....
    I forgot to give my answer.  The correct answer for Mimi is 3.2 times per week.  The .2 allows for recreational kissing and fondling.
     
    Botty, 12 hours?  You're my hero.
  • travelr712 said on Aug 13, 2007....
    mamie - if you can't remember off the top of your head, then you're doing it plenty! :-)

    as for me, with my ex, twice a year was too often. with my true love, i think a schedule of 21 days on, 1 day off would be about right :-)
  • Eilan said on Aug 13, 2007....
    I suppose I shouldn't be having sex since I've had a tubal and can no longer procreate. I'd feel guilty about all the sperm my husband's wasted over the past 3 1/2 years, but his count was low to begin with, so it's not as bad as it could be.

    5-7 times a week is fine. That's pretty much what I'm getting at the moment.
  • rightwingwizard said on Aug 13, 2007....
    eilan:  How dare you subject those poor defenseless sperm (sparse or otherwise) to the futility of such a fruitless adventure? You should surely be ashamed of yourself.    lol
     
    rww
  • Eilan said on Aug 13, 2007....
    rww: After I made that post, the "Every sperm is sacred" song started going through my head.  Serves me right.
  • CreativeWoman said on Aug 13, 2007....
    It happens very infrequently in my current relationship.  I would like that to change if I am ever with someone else.  It all depends on chemistry for me.

    CW
  • truluv_whocares said on Aug 13, 2007....
    As often as possible...ideally 2 or 3 times a day 5-7 days a week. My man is gooooooood!
  • mom said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Truluv- braggart!  :)  My man is good too form what I can remember. LOL  Now he is just good at not giving me any. :)

    Eilan- some sperm are sacred and some are just scared.  I know that there have been times when I have heard those little guys screaming from dying.
  • travelr712 said on Aug 13, 2007....
    i've always had a problem with associating 'mom' and 'sex'... :-P
  • one_wired_kitty said on Aug 13, 2007....

    I was reading the comments that appeared after I left mine ..... looks like this faulty_perfection dude could use some heavy-duty electroshock therapy.

  • rightwingwizard said on Aug 13, 2007....
    eilan:  I've never heard that song, could you hum a few bars for me?  No need to spit beforehand.
     
    rww
  • Zayda said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Five to 6 times a week is always great, which is about what I'm getting now. Of course, it's not necessarily 1 time a day 5 to 6 days a week. ;)
  • mom said on Aug 13, 2007....
    Travelr- maybe that is the problem, I make him call me mom. LOL

    Zayda- You too?
  • wild-ting said on Aug 14, 2007....
    Hi have a high sexual appetite and I am a very sexual person. I would like to have sex--full intercourse--at least once a day. Twice a day would be nice. I need a little touching, and tasting throughout the day as well. I'm in a perpetual state of frustration due to the logistics of getting what I need throughout the day.

    Would love to have a playmate willing to meet for lunch, snack, after work action. People are so hung up about sex, who it's suppose to be with, and when and under what circumstances. Hell, I just want to be satisfied.
  • wild-ting said on Aug 14, 2007....
    AllisonMarie19 said: The female clitoris serves no purpose except to provide a pleasurable sensation to the female.

    Mine is so sensitive. I think that's why I am perpetually horny.
  • PassionTraveler said on Aug 14, 2007....
    I was married for 11.5 years before I left him. For most of that marriage, we had odd shifts, and only saw each other alert one day a week, and even then, one or both of us were obligated to a family dinner, some civic or charity function, and the majority of the time, it was only once a month for us.

    I changed schedules, not to mention hit 30 and my libido went through the roof. I was on the same schedule as him. Instead of making up for lost time, it got worse. he wouldn't touch me. I had to beg for it, and was lucky if I got it once every 2 or 3 months.

    Since then, I find many men bragging about how much they want it, but when it comes to putting their money where their mouth is, they can't keep up.

    I'm not insanely libidinous, but i think I'd like it at least 4-5 times a week. I'd settle for 2-3 a week. I suspect as schedules and life situations change, or if I have kids, (I'm 39 now), it might decrease, but I love and miss sex.

    PT

    Currently, I'm single, and not getting it frequently enough. LOL
  • mom said on Aug 14, 2007....
    Alison- I don't know I kind of like the way it looks too. :)
  • Suddenrain said on Aug 14, 2007....
    Travelr, LoLoL
  • Imladris said on Aug 14, 2007....
    I'm Single, so not much say, but I find at the start of a relationship I'm very keen, but as time goes by, maybe once or twice a week is enough for me. Perhaps I just haven't found the right man yet :-)
  • ZsuzsiO said on Aug 14, 2007....

    If we just match up all these people who -by the way. totally innocently - mentioned that they are single, not getting any, but would love to......

    I mean, hey guys - anyone in Israel?

    LOL

  • kruuyai said on Aug 14, 2007....
    Zsu:  What a great idea!  Any single guys in Prague?  

    (BTW... has anyone noticed that most of us who said we were single and couldn't get laid are women?  What's up with that?)
  • sweet_cookie01 said on Aug 14, 2007....

    hmmm this made me blush... LOL... but i will honestly answer it...

    semi hubby and i makes love averaging to 3 to 4 times a week and sometimes we could have it almost everyday... depending if we are both not fully loaded of work or chores for me during the day... and ofcourse if he doesnt have any golf tournament.

    and how long is our act hmmm i really dont count or time it... we just consume ourselves with the emotion and the flow of how our positions and rythm changes. sometimes we do get naughty that we would spend the whole day or night in bed resting in between acts just for a few hours....LOL....

  • exhibit_c said on Aug 14, 2007....
    Zsu: I suspect the single woman's problems getting laid are captured in this exchange from The Music Man:

    Marian Paroo: Do you think that I'd allow a common masher - ? Now, really, mama. I have my standards where men are concerned and I have no intention...
    Mrs. Paroo: I know all about your standards and if you don't mind my sayin' so there's not a man alive who could hope to measure up to that blend of Paul Bunyan, Saint Pat, and Noah Webster you've concocted for yourself out of your Irish imagination, your Iowa stubbornness, and your li'berry full of books!
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 14, 2007....
    OK, so everyone who is past their screw-by date meet down by the river (you know where!!) at 9:30 tonight....
  • ZsuzsiO said on Aug 14, 2007....
    Well, I always knew that men like to talk the talk, but it is us women who actually walk the walk.  Or do our men talk to us, but walk some where else?
    hmmmmmm......
     
  • quietone said on Aug 14, 2007....

    LOL what animal behvior here!!! I am lost for words!! All I can think of and we humans talk about "rabbits"!!! OMG!! have fun boys and girls, I will keep the home fires burning here at SC.  I guess I am getting old!  :o  Its a "sexpandemic"! Now ed, see what you started!!!!

  • inspiration2jms said on Aug 14, 2007....
    Once a day for six days, then a day off and twice on the eighth day to make up for it.  (hehehe)

    As for the relationships calming down and not wanting it as much, that may be true and it is okay in many cases.  Like my last relationship, although I wanted it more than he did, once he learned how to give good head, when I did get it it was so much better that I didn't mind not getting it as much.
  • travelr712 said on Aug 15, 2007....
    mom - i guess some people's mothers are more attractive than others? :-P
  • queenparanoia said on Aug 15, 2007....
    honestly... all the time... =)
  • mom said on Aug 15, 2007....
    Travelr- You are right  I am sure. :)
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 15, 2007....
    I certainly connect the concept of sex with the mom of my children.
  • destinydiva said on Aug 18, 2007....
    trav..i agree!!!!! lol  :-)

    7 days a week!!! morning sex most days!!! most evenings!! and the od quicky here and there!!!!  hmmmm  yep thats about it!!  :-)  ok...I'll allow for an off day.....  6 days a week :-)

    (and double the few days before my monthly visitor ...and treble a few days after!!  :-) i have a pretty high sex drive :-)

    Destiny xx
  • lfbno7 said on Aug 18, 2007....
    you asked what we'd want, without mentioning with who.

    what i'd want .... a few times a day.  probably two.  i wouldnt want to skip any days.

    but i'm not answering the same question kruu answered, because she took into consideration the relationship she's in, and i'm not.
  • wakingharmony said on Aug 18, 2007....

    ok 7 spit it OUT!! lol    But I think that your right he didn't say  who circumstances ect

  • mom said on Aug 18, 2007....
    LB- now that is not something I even thought of.  If the question is how many times with who then I would answer non-stop with ODED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    ODED where ever you are I love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • lfbno7 said on Aug 19, 2007....
    donno who oded is, but if we get to pick whoever we like, no matter their situation, then 11 times a day with susanna hoffs of the bangles
  • destinydiva said on Aug 19, 2007....
    the bangles??  I used to love them......  :-)  mr7 you can go 11 times a day????  wanna marry me ???  lollolololol   :-)

    xx

  • silverwhisper said on Aug 19, 2007....
    11 times/day? holy hell, man, that's most impressive!

    ed
  • lfbno7 said on Aug 19, 2007....
    thank you thank you thank you, and yes destiny i do.  get your tushie over the pond.  but what will we do with shelley?
  • ZsuzsiO said on Aug 19, 2007....
    even I can't do 11 times a day... that is way to much.
  • destinydiva said on Aug 19, 2007....
    lmao mr7!!!   no need to get rid of shelly! my tushie is getting its way over that pond but its planning to land on travs lilypad :-)

    (trav i know you read this...no pressure honestly...6 or 7 times a day would do me perfectly lol  :-)      actually just one day with you would do me perfectly right now :-)

    destiny xx
  • mom said on Aug 19, 2007....
    LB-Oded is Oded Fehr.  He played the gigolo in Deuce Bigalow.  He also played in the Mummy.  *sigh* and he has a big pecker too!  :)
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 19, 2007....
    zsuzsio: o, i bet you could for the right person. :>

    ed
  • travelr712 said on Aug 19, 2007....
    if i could do it 6 or 7 times, you're the only one i'd want to do it 6 or 7 times with :)
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Aug 19, 2007....
    Six or seven times in a day is quite doable for both genders, I daresay. ;-) Eleven?? Sounds like a personal challenge to me! :-D

    (not that tame Infernal would know...nope...)

    ~Infernal
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 19, 2007....
    traveler: 6 or 7 in a day?

    infernal: :D

    ed
  • lfbno7 said on Aug 20, 2007....
    11, i pulled that number out of a hat.  i've never done it 11 times in a day.  just thinking of my susanna hoffs inspired that.
  • destinydiva said on Aug 20, 2007....
    lol mr7
    trav i love you :-) xx
    silver another important factor to note....  are we talking ..in one session?  plus us girlies have the ability to have multiple orgasms dont forget ;-)

    :-) Destiny xx
  • lfbno7 said on Aug 20, 2007....
    yeah i know you girlies can have multiple orgasms, like 4 or 5 in a row, especially if someone is going down on you, and you can lose count of them all.
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 20, 2007....
    destiny: of course in a single session! and honestly, IMX, every woman is multi-orgasmic.

    ed
  • Suddenrain said on Aug 20, 2007....
    I have a strange urge to go have a ciggerette. Or 5. Or 11.  :-/
  • destinydiva said on Aug 20, 2007....
    lol ....  sex always makes me think of ciggerates too sudden !!!  he he :-) xx
    silver you sound like such a studmuffin in that sentence :-) xx
    mr 7~ (sorry trav)...but that made me tingle :-)  he he xx

    Destiny xx
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 20, 2007....
    i've just realized that i haven't answered my own darned question--sorry! me, i'd be just about right with twice or so/day.

    destiny: with only one or two exceptions, the women with whom i've slept were already friends and i already knew or at least could guess pretty damned well about their likes/dislikes. sorry, no studmuffin over here, i'm afraid. :>

    ed
  • Suddenrain said on Aug 20, 2007....
    Silver, when a man can "geuss" what a woman likes and satisfy her, that makes him a studmuffin.  : >
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 20, 2007....
    um...i should point out that i haven't exactly had a huge number of sexual partners over the years, you know--maybe i just was lucky?

    ed
  • destinydiva said on Aug 20, 2007....
    your so humble mr silver :-) i agree with sudden :-)

  • silverwhisper said on Aug 20, 2007....
    ladies, less than a dozen women doesn't make for a good statistical sampling.

    ed
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 20, 2007....
    stats aren't everything, ed. 
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 20, 2007....
    while i agree conceptually, i think it a meaningful point.

    ed
  • Suddenrain said on Aug 20, 2007....
    11 out of 11 are good statistics in my book. But hey, who am I to argue with the Silver tongued devil?  :-)
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 21, 2007....
    :p
  • rightwingwizard said on Aug 21, 2007....
    silver:  Back to the origional question.
     
    How often would I like to have it?
     
    Depends entirely on what it is.
     
    My wife and I very frequently 'made love' without having 'had sex'
    IMO the former exceeds the latter in both pleasure and satisfaction.
     
    As we made our way through our daily lives we were in a perpetual state of 'love making'   The physical act was reserved for the 'right' moment in terms of time, place and circumstance.
     
    Just a thought!
     
    rww
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 21, 2007....
    rww, thank you. it was a beautiful sentiment, eloquently expressed.

    ed
  • lyssa said on Aug 26, 2007....
    I would like to change my answer!! Now that I am back - 3 times a day for me!!!!
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 27, 2007....
    hah, too late!

    [twirls mustache]

    :D

    ed
  • Suddenrain said on Aug 27, 2007....
    Lmaooooo
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 27, 2007....
    How often?
    Well, once today would be great, and infinitely more than I'm like to get.
  • lyssa said on Aug 27, 2007....

    NNnoooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    LMAO

  • silverwhisper said on Aug 27, 2007....
    :D

    exhibit c: c'mon, realistically how often do you think you'd be able to average?

    ed
  • exhibit_c said on Aug 27, 2007....
    I think the third time each week would seem optional.
  • Zayda said on Aug 27, 2007....
    mom: me too what?
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 27, 2007....
    i think mom needs to talk w/ eilan... :D

    ed
  • mom said on Aug 27, 2007....
    Zayda- you too talking about the sex you get, I am still salivating.

    Ed- why?  What did I do?
  • silverwhisper said on Aug 27, 2007....
    your comment about just how...manly...oded is. :>

    ed
  • mom said on Aug 27, 2007....
    ooooooooo Yeah, Oded.  *sigh*
  • varada said on Oct 09, 2007....
    When there are no children around it is ok. But when you have a toddler in the house, how would you enjoy sex. Number of times is not the question. How much you enjoy by reaching full orgasm each time is the question. Sex is not just mechanical. So much of mental preparation is needed for enjoying it fully.
  • silverwhisper said on Oct 09, 2007....
    i've long said that sex is a matter of physics, whereas making love is a matter of chemistry. :>

    ed

Comment on "how often would you really want it?"

sex poll polls (Click to add tags below)

(Separate tags using commas, for example: New York, dating, vegetarian)

I just thought I'd drop in for a quick blog about life so you guys don't think I've forgotten you/died.

Anyway, I wrote about taking it slow with my new girlfriend. That didn't happen.

I was only staying round when the kids wern...
I'm going cuckoo bananas......
*rips paper into tiny pieces*...
Does the feel of his cum inside your pussy just drive you nuts? His orgasm affects me as strongly or stronger than mine... why is that?...
When it comes to sex, there is a slight mathematical equation that does not make sense to me. It is the equation that states :-
Penis Length - Vaginal depth = Penis wasted

Men are traditionally hung up with the length of their penis and...
a post for gingersoul and javadewd... :-)

i just wanna say my point of view since i was the example in your conversation... :-)...