This blog has been inspired by Mimi's last post. She found herself humbled by the fact that life sometimes makes fun of even the most firm beliefs we might claim to possess. She thought it was arrived the time last nigth to let some truth out. It takes gut to share.
Her post made me wonder how many times we had said to ourself "Never again" or "I will never do this" or "Just kill me now if i let you do this".
Aren't we all a little silly? How can we so easily put these "Forever" or "Never" in our mouths?
Is it really possible to keep our words neverthless our personal changings, our sorrounding's changes?
I, like you, i have discovered several times that "Never say Never" i possibly the only truth inscribed in the stone. It can be a sad or energetic thought. It depends by the perspective, i think.
I have done things i endless times said i would never do, i felt emotions i promised myself never to allow myself to feel again. Anytime we say Never we fool ourselves. Yet we keep repeating this mantra over and over again.
Yes, Mimi, life is just a huge, sticky mess. And we can just do our best to survive.
I bet all of you too have some Never or Forevert you didn't quite follow thru.
For example.....I promised to never again let too much time passing by between a decision and its realization. I felt so strong about it. I was so sick of my attitude. Instead, I am back by 2 weeks now and i stil have to return that invitation for that social gathering. I swore i was going to do it and yet, day after day, the number is still close to the phone, unused. NsN.
I also promised i would never cry over my ex husband again. Never say Never.
I also promised i would never eat too much bread again. Never say Never.
Which one, right now, is your biggest NsN?
