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hos·pi·tal·i·ty (hŏs´pĭ-tălʹĭ-tē) noun
plural hos·pi·tal·i·ties

1.     Cordial and generous reception of or disposition toward guests.

2.           An instance of cordial and generous treatment of guests.  

 

Sometime I find it very difficult to be a good Christian.  It’s hard to figure out how to reconcile what I view as my Christian duty with what is right, or comfortable, for everyone else; I find that it’s a delicate balancing act. 

 

On Sundays in the summer at Trinity we have what is called “A word with the preacher.”  (We discus elements of the Gospel, and the how they relate to our lives, and to the sermon to come.)  To me it’s always interesting.

 

Well, last Sunday a homeless young man, who had been coming for some years now, decided that he would try and hijack the group with his own personal problems.  In the past people had let him prattle on, and then went back to what ever the subject at hand was. 

 

Now understand, People have tried to get this young man help before, but he has refused that help.  He chooses to stay in his present situation.  Personally. I think he is a little unstable; I get the distinct impression that he is off whatever medication he is taking. 

 

Be that as it may, last Sunday he became very hostile.  So much so that I thought I would have to take action.  I’m not an old man, but I’m not a young one either, and this had the potential to get real ugly real quick.  I had spoken up for him in the past and now I regretted that, badly.  He walks around these days with a wooden stick, the top carved in the shape of a scull.  You see my problem?  I would have had to hurt that boy, again badly.  Thankfully, it didn’t come to that.  The preacher, who was also meeting with little success in calming him down, ended the session early.  It was decided that he should not return until such time as he got some help, or at the very least learned to be more hospitable.

 

I am not unsympathetic to the homeless, mentally ill, drug addicted, or any other person that society has marginalized, but I cannot allow people who are showing signs mental instability to trample on the feeling of, or take advantage of the hospitality of others.  What do you think?  Peace and Long Life.

 

Love Worf 

 

      

 

                 



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  • buckrogers said on Jul 26, 2007....
    I believe you handled the situation very well and you were lucky to avoid coming to blows.  This person obviously needs some professional help and to live in a controlled group setting.  Using tough love, as you did, is like frying a fish: turn it delicately without it falling apart.  Good luck!
  • lidstrom82 said on Jul 26, 2007....
    You did what you could, Worf. Sometimes we have situations where a person is crying out to be heard, and they are afflicted, and they express that in situations that won't give them the best care. Somebody needs to come alongside and place him where he will be cared for; it's not enough to shoo him out the door. I think that he has a bit of understanding that he's at a place where healing happens. But he could be angry and bitter too. Mental illness is something that we have mighty trouble with in everyday situations; it makes us uncomfortable.

    What if the guy is afflicted by demons? I don't think all mental illness is attributed to demons, but in some cases, you have to wonder if there's more than one consciousness in there. He could need spiritual as well as psychological healing.

    It was awesome that you were ready to do something if anything escalated, but you were good to go, man. Well done.
  • silverwhisper said on Jul 26, 2007....
    i think that the risk of injury or damage wins out here, myself.

    worf, it's good to see you again. :>

    ed
  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Jul 26, 2007....

    I thank you all for your comments.  LIDSTORM, Please know that I never discount the possibility that spirits of one kind, or another are in play.  In this case, however, I believe that mental illness is the culprit.  BUUUUUCKRODGERS, I don't think I've ever read anything you written yet, but know I always turn my fish lightly J  ED, It’s always good to hear from you, and that was my thinking as well.. Peace and Long Life.

    Love Worf

      

  • fearing said on Jul 27, 2007....
    Hi Worf - nice to meet a fellow believer.  I think you did the right thing also.  I understand your thoughts in what happened and the struggle in how to handle it.  It sorrows me that the popular belief is that Christians cannot have a strong opinions that may upset some, call wrong - wrong,  and that the men of the Church have to be 'nice guys'.  That implies weenie.  I don't believe God called men to be weak in any way.  It's wrong to bully.  It's wrong to be mean.  You have to stand up for what is right.  That guy needs some help and in the meantime, he doesn't need to be harassing others.  
  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Jul 28, 2007....

    Hi Fearing,

    I could not have said it better, differently maybe, but not better.  Peace and Long Life.

    Love Worf

  • fearing said on Jul 29, 2007....
    Thanks Worf!
  • lidstrom82 said on Jul 30, 2007....
    I agree, well said fearing. I echo your sentiments about meeting another fellow believer.
  • fearing said on Aug 01, 2007....
    Thanks Lidstrom!  
  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Aug 18, 2007....
    Fearing,

    you're welcome.  Peace and Long Life

    Love Worf
  • fearing said on Aug 18, 2007....
    I saw this come up on my comments page.....long time no see Worf.  Good to see you.

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