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First, ladies feel free to answer this question from your own point of view.
 
From there guys what is the first thing you notice when you look at a woman?  I keep hearing this bullshit story of the eyes.  The thing is that 90% of time when I notice a girl she is too far away to make out her eyes.  It's not to say they aren't important, my own girlfriend's eyes are enchanting, the kinds of pools a man can drown in with a smile, doesn't mean that I was that close when I first noticed her.  Focus on how many men claim to be ass men (in fact am I the only breast man left cus it sure as fuck seems that way some days)
 
The first thing I notice on a woman is her general weight/shape.  I like girls stomachs to be smaller than their breasts and hips.  Which doesn't mean rail thin, it means that if your tits blend in with your stomach you had better have one helluva personality. 
 
What about the rest of you?  And drop the bullshit, if your not blind and you claim you notice somebodies personality first you best have one helluva reason.


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  • silverwhisper said on Jul 19, 2007....
    you know, it depends on the woman and the circumstances. from a distance, there's little to go on besides her body and the way she's dressed. and to be honest, i tend to notice the way she dresses more than her body.

    up close, i notice eyes and face first b/c believe it or not, that's what i look at first.

    although there's a woman who works in my building...damn, i think the first time i saw her, i almost literally walked into something. perfect combination of pretty and a really eclectic wardrobe that says so much about her all by itself.

    ed
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jul 19, 2007....
    I notice a man's body first.  Why deny what is blatantly the first thing you CAN see?  It's not neccesarily a deal breaker, but if he's overweight by more than a few pounds he had better have a hell of a personality.  I do not want to be involved with someone that has overwhelming food issues.  I like to see broad shoulders, long toned legs, good posture and a nice tush doesn't hurt a bit!
  • jasonrest said on Jul 23, 2007....
    well, its your lucky day UI.......;)
    I matured at a very early age and realized very early on that none of these things matter.(to me anyway) Cup size, waist size etc. It's all irrelevant.
    That may sound like a load of crap, but I kidd you not.
    I just watch her and if possible, I would like to hear her speak. If she's dumb, doesnt matter if she has d cups and a rail thin waist, she's useless. NOW! I do acknowledge that I am a man and I have a penis, so of course I may be persuaded to have a fling(as long as she doesn't speak) but as for a relationship, ummmmmm NO!
  • starchini said on Jul 23, 2007....
    Well here is a question, I have huge knockers size 38DD.  I also have a relativly flat tummy.  Im an hourglass shape.  men never approach me.  Im a size 14 with big boobs and long ass legs.  So i dont think all men notice general shape first.  I think men notice sluts.  If a girl isnt all naked they dont look. 
  • SeanRenaud said on Jul 23, 2007....
    That's not true, a size 14 is a decent sized girl in most cases.  I can't judge you without a picture but generally that is a decent sized girl.  That said from your description your borderline intimidating.  I might not approach you just because I know you wouldn't waste time on me.
  • starchini said on Jul 23, 2007....

    hmm...interesting concept, kinda sucks for me though.

    but im a flirt, i think i am anyway.  Does looking at a guy count as flirting?  Cause thats sorta as far as my flirtation goes. lol, what can i say im shy.

  • SeanRenaud said on Jul 24, 2007....
    I hope you live in southern california.  I can get down with a shy 38DD sane girl.  You probably live in Maine though or Hawaii just to be as far away as possible.
  • starchini said on Jul 24, 2007....
    lol, im flattered.  Do you have a problem with tall women? bc im pushing 6ft...i live in south dakota
  • starchini said on Jul 24, 2007....
    i have family in cali though :P  i think i have a blog crush, there goes my sanity lol
  • SeanRenaud said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Nope, actually I prefer tall women.  I don't want to lean down to kiss.  South Dakota?  Still hella stupid far.
  • starchini said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Im just  shocked youve heard of it.  You have no idea how many west coast people cant name hardly one state in the midwest
  • starchini said on Jul 24, 2007....
    u sound like cartman with the hella stupid stuff...you ever watch southpark? one of my many guilty pleasures.
  • mom said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Physical attraction is always the first thing that gets noticed.  I always look at the face and never really think much about it if the guy is far away. When I can get a good look at the guy, I will usually notice his face first, and then I look at his hands.  I don't care if he is muscular but he has to have the right kind of hands.  Also I don't like a man whose hands are soft  like a womans, that turns me off.  In fact if his hands look weather beaten and rough all the better.
    I guess you would not find me appealing Sean as I am just 5'4" and you would have to bend over for me.
  • starchini said on Jul 24, 2007....
    actually mom i dont think either one of us knows how tall sean is....maybe id have to bend over for him...I like rough hands too.
    and long fingers :)
  • mom said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Hi Starchini,
    Sean is a cutie and well  worth it whether to bend over for him or not, yep rough hands and long thick fingers :)
  • starchini said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Hi mom, sounds like you have a crush on sean too...wow a man worth bending over to kiss, sean must be special. Rough hands long think fingers and abnormally large feet...i wonder if our sean fits these stipulations...
  • mom said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Starchini, how can any female not have a crush on our Sean? Sean is not a man to just bend over for a kiss but to just bend over for. :)  He has a very muscular chest and arms, I haven't seen his booty but I can only imagine it is probably hard as a rock and very grabbable. He has bedroom eyes and a smile to die for.   Unfortunately I have sons older than he is so he is just my fantasy guy.  Sean is a sweetheart and a true Gentleman. He already told me how big his woofer is ;).  LOL
  • starchini said on Jul 24, 2007....
    wow, mom. now i really do have a crush...tell me about his mouth, i like a sensual mouth. Please do tell me how big his "woofer" is, im dying to know LOL :P
  • mom said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Starchini, he has a nice mouth, a very kissable mouth, he has a kissable everything ;)
    I shouldn't tell you about his measurements, I am sure he will be happy to tell you but I can give you a hint. He is bigger than seven but smaller than nine :)
  • queenparanoia said on Jul 24, 2007....

    the first thingi notice especially if he's shirtless is his abs...

     

    hi mom! i miss you!!! =)

  • SeanRenaud said on Jul 24, 2007....
    It's a good thing that blushing doesn't show with my complexion.  I'm 5'11 or 6 depending on the day tht I get measured for.
  • SeanRenaud said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Never been called a gentleman, not by anybody who knew me though.
  • starchini said on Jul 24, 2007....
    So sean is mom right about those measurements and why arent you a gentleman?
  • SeanRenaud said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Cus I have a lot more fun being wicked.
  • mom said on Jul 24, 2007....
    Queen!!!!!!!!!!!!  Hi, I miss you too :)

    Sean- a lot of women don't want a man who is a gentlemen in the bedroom, but if you are a gentleman in the right times, you can get her in the bedroom to be just as wicked as you want.
  • queenparanoia said on Jul 25, 2007....
    mom i agree!
  • doccoolmac said on Aug 09, 2007....
    this can go on for years, debating on what do we notice first for men and women alike. but we have to agree that noticing is an "eye" trait, and what does an eye want? an eye process stuff taken directly to the brain. and what does the brain wants?

    in simple terms, since men arrived into existence may it come from the apes or out from the ashes, we all look for our biological functions, FOR MEN we tend to see the best of the female species to please or arouse us, so she have to be big breast, great hips, nice looking body and a pretty face, everything comes in second.

    FOR WOMEN they tend to look for the best candidate for the alpha male type, he must be MANLY enough so he can produce the woman some great bouncing offsprings. so height and body comes into play as the things women look into men to pick him off the crowd

    those two prime examples and much more topics about seduction, love, life and relationships can be tackled in my blog, so give it a visit one of these days. Http://reallovedoc.blogspot.com

    good day happy discussion to all of you
  • starchini said on Aug 09, 2007....
    Doc your biological and procreation reasons made me laugh hysterically it made me think of the time i was at a check out and an old man tapped me on the shoulder as said "you have great birthing hips"...haha

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