• secretlife said on Jul 10, 2007....

  May 30; i am 47 (*shivers*

  I have 3 children.  2 girls 17 and 14 and a boy who is 11.

  I think you can love 2 people at once.  i don't know about being in love with two people at once. 

  I have a husband.  We've been married 22 yrs.  We met at a bar.

  There's lots about me that could shock you.  i've got a blog full of my secrets...

   

• machershey said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Perdy- I would love to tell you so much about me but, I don't think that will be smart of me, secondly I probably wouldn't be myself on Soulcast again, because you or anyone else reading this comment might be my neighbor or colleague. Cheers :- >

• Perdy said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Secret: Thanks for stopping by. I look forward to learning more about you!
   
  Mac: Thanks for .....sorta telling me about you...a little. Haha...Who will you be if not yourself?

• leadoffkarma said on Jul 10, 2007....

  • July 5th, I just turned 24
  • I have a 3 year old daughter.
  • I think you can love 2 people and like secretlife said I do not about being in love that seems more difficult.
  • I have been separated for about 3 years in the middle of finishing my divorce. I am very lucky to say that I have found the one and we are currently dating. I met him online. I actually have a post about it.
  • As far as something shocking. I am pretty boring. So there is nothing shocking really in my life.

• Mamie said on Jul 10, 2007....

  hi there, i am in my forties and my birthday is in May. I am married to my college sweetheart and we have one daughter who is 17. We met at his frat house and he is a RED too! Gotta love it!
  I think it may be shocking about me that I have many friends but a very small circle of true friends. I can keep a secret and I am not tempted to tell ever. So there fore, I cannot tell you any of mine!
  I don't think you can be in love with two people at the same time...there has to be a tipping point I think that would pop out if you thought about it long enough.
  I am trying to convince my daughter to get her belly button pierced with me...she still thinks I am gross. What? I think I may have missed the window of popularity. Dammit!
   
   

• wordman said on Jul 10, 2007....

  As for me,  I do believe the mystery of the person behind the words is more intriging than the reality. I, for one, told more than I expected to in the "tell me about yourself" blog. And I am certain that it is more than anyone in here wanted to know about me. For those who partake, it will be fun, I'm sure. Enjoy!  

• genalonewolf said on Jul 10, 2007....

  May 30th I will be 37 (*shivers but not as big as secret did*)

  I have no actual kids of my own

  I don't think you can be in love with two people at the same time

  Oh yeah her name is pickle and I love her and adore her. Met her through my brother in law.

  hhhmm a secret, well I think I am smarter than I let people know about.

• beyondtheveil said on Jul 10, 2007....

  perdygirl-
  
  My birthday is March 4 and my memory isn't good enough to know how old I'll be.
  I have five kids and the two most helpful ones also wag their tails.
  I've never loved two at the same time. Don't want to either, one's enough to keep up with.
  I met my wife at the restaurant I most frequented.
  My secret you'd be most shocked to know is that I was electrocuted once.
  

• MissMimi said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Birthday's tomorrow, and if they put the correct number of candles on the cake, the smoke detector would go off.
   
  I have two grown children, one of each.
   
  I think it's very possible to love two people at once.
   
  I met my husband in college.
   
  My secret?  I just got a tattoo.

• skald said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Perd y girl.
  My birhtday is on January 20th and I´m old old old.
  I have wo boys ages 32 and 29. I have 4 grandchidren. ages 2 , almost 6almost 7 and 9.
  It might be possible to be in love with two people at the same time. I have never been.
  I met my husband on a ship. He was a deck hand, I was a passager. Secrets well guess I have foegotten them all lol
  

• Perdy said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Lead: Happy Belated Birthday! Thanks for stopping by!
   
  Mamie: Thanks for commenting...Does your redhead have a temper too?! Or did you get lucky? Haha...Ooh, and I say, go on and get your belly pierced, if you've got the tummy to do it, then you deserve one! Especially after having kiddos!
   
  Word: Thanks for stopping by...okay, okay I won't pry...I'll learn little bits about you (or who you want me to know) as I read your posts!
   
  Gen: Pickle is a cute nickname...What does she call you, dare I ask? Thanks for stoppin' by!
   
  Beyond: I guess you give new meaning to being called "Electrifying" don't ya? How did this come about?  I agree that one is enough, haha!
   
  Mimi: Happy birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you!!! What is your tattoo of? And where is it located? oo0o0o0o...I love tattoos!
   
  Skald: You met on a ship? That's very romantic and sweet! I bet thats a great story, love to hear it sometime!

• Zayda said on Jul 10, 2007....

  My birthday is in September; I'm in my mid-30s.  (Sorry, I don't reveal my exact birthdate/age as a prevention to identity theft.)
  
  I have one child who is 6.  And three cats that are like children.
  
  I am married. For the story to how I met my husband, see my comments in Polarheart's blog interrogation of me.
  
  I don't really have any big shocking secrets.  I have tattoos and a pierced nose, but that's not really shocking.
  
  
  
  
  

• Perdy said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Zayda: Thanks for your comment. It took me a while to read through the "interrogation"...But I found it quite internesting. Thanks for sharing that with me. You seem to have a very good head on your shoulders!

• Sarafina said on Jul 10, 2007....

  My birthday is October 12.... and I will be 30 this year.  That is scary.  Really.  I am seriously in denial when I am not crying.  Where has my life gone?  What do I have to show for 30 years?  (ok rant over)
   
  I have one son, who is 20 months old.  I never wanted to be a mom before, I had planned on a childless life, and I was fine with that.  But now that he is here, I love being a mom, its what was missing my entire adult life.
   
  I think you can be in love with 2 people at once, but you always love one person more, if you are honest with yourself.  And in hindsight, that is very evident, and becomes crystal clear. 
   
  I have been married to my husband for nearly 10 years.  I love him to bits, even though he is stubborn and grizzly at times.  We met through friends that we both met on the internet.  He met them first and stayed with them one night a week because he was out of town for business stuff.  I met them (a couple, I should have mentioned that before I guess) after breaking up with my boyfriend of 2 years, and moving back to my home town.  I went to their house in the country for a week to find some peace.  Turns out my husband was there while I was, he spent his night there, we talked lots, and he came back on the weekend to see me again.  We have been inseperable since.
   
  I have lots of secrets, but nothing that I can tell on here.  Well, nothing juicy anyways.    I am pretty boring.....now ;)

• uniquely-ironic said on Jul 10, 2007....

  My birthday is April 25th and I am going to be 45 going on 21. (I feel young)

  I have one of each.  Both teenagers, the boy is older.

  I think you can love a bunch of people at the same time, but there can only be one at a time that you trust your heart to.

  I have a BF and I met him at a national jujitsu convention.  I'm trying to figure out it he is "the one".

  There is so much in my life that might shock a person.  I suppose the thing that shocked me the most was having my mother sue me for 1/2 of my house, having to act as my own attorney, and walking away the winner despite having to out think an attorney.

• Lioness said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Hi! I was born on August 8, I am turning 33 next month.
  
  I am happily single.
  
  Yes. I think one can love two people at once, but not at the same degree.
  
  Still searching. =)
  
  
  Secret, nothing shocking. I have this scar on my belly, which looks like a c-section. It's actually a remnant of the appendectomy I had 6 years ago. 

• MissMimi said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Hi Perdy, this will tell you all about Tattoo Madness.  Thanks for the b-day wishes! :)

• genalonewolf said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Um pickle calls me pookie for some reason. Maybe because I remind her of Garfield? I don't really know , I will have to ask her.

• allswell said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Hi perdy..it's nice to meet you!
  My birthday is dec.13th i'll be 34
  I have three boys...
  I'm sure you can be in love with two different people but luckily it's never happend to me!
  I'm newly single sence january...i was married for 15 years
  I don't really have any good secrets....i'm pretty boring
   
  alls:) 

• Eilan said on Jul 10, 2007....

  I'll be 34 on my birthday.
  
  I have four daughters, ages 9, 6, 4, and 3.  The three youngest have birthdays coming up within the next six weeks.
  
  I think it's possible to be in love with two people at once, but I'm not sure if I'm wired that way.
  
  My husband and I have been married almost 5 1/2 years.  We met online.
  
  My third child was (intentionally) conceived while my husband and I were still legally married to, though separated from, our former spouses.
  

• Zayda said on Jul 10, 2007....

  ohhh, i just noticed i missed a question. yes, i think it's possible to be in love with two people at once. not everyone is wired that way though.

• LifesLittleMistakes said on Jul 10, 2007....

  My B-day is March 3rd. and I'll be 23 next year
   
  I have a son who is turning 5 and a daughter who is 5 months
   
  I believe that you can love two people at the same time, like others said before me, not to the same degree.
   
  I met my current boyfriend online about a year ago but we just started dating 2 months ago
   
  As for shocking secrets I have so many that would leave you speechless and most you wouldnt believe.

• DesertMermaid said on Jul 10, 2007....

  Hi Perdy, a big hello to you :)

  My birthday is on the 25th of Dec (yeah honest! ) and I'm just 2 years younger to you.

  I'm not yet married, got no plans in the near future and no children till date.

  Frankly, I was stupid enough to believe that I loved 2 people at one point of time. One of them, the later 1 turned out to be an infatuation. It became too complicated and I'd rather forget all that.

  My steady boyfriend of 3 years was my best friend in high school we are still best friends and sweethearts at the same time. He happens to be my neighbour too !

  I think my secret is pretty simple but its still a secret. Well actually I happen to have these symbolic dreams from time to time. I dont even understand half of them and at times they just freak me out! Thats one reason that I dont really discuss them. Mostly I get them before, after or while things go wrong. 90 percent of the time its about animals and scary as hell.

• D6fer said on Jul 10, 2007....

  My Julian is 2438594.61944

  I have a spouse that dropped two eggs with julians of 2447518.31806 and 2447518.32222 respectively

  yes you can ...but it can get you into a lot of trouble

  yes we met on 2445931.29167   mini golf....a movie (ghostbusters).....and dinner(chinese food)

  I have secrets.....no one can know! ;p

• MyPerception said on Jul 11, 2007....

  well too much info is a bit dangerous for me and defeats the anonymous purpose that allows me to be so open when I blog.
  But here is a bit:
  I'm 32
  No kids
  Divorced 
  Being in love, well I am in love with being in love sometimes that doesn't allow me to know how I really love a person
  My shocking secrets are either a bit too shocking or a bit too sexual, so I'll save them for enquiring minds that may want to know more otherwise it will seem like I am some arrogant guy trying to brag and that is not the case.
  
  

• BleedingHeart80 said on Jul 11, 2007....

  My bday is March 1 and I'm 27

  I don't have any kids but i have a dog that'a requires just as much attention

  Yes u can b in love w/ 2 people@ the same time but sooner or later u gotta make a choice

  I have a spouse but I'm in love w/ another man.I met both @ work

  I have secrets beyond belief...they actualy make life pretty hard at times but I'm the type of person that tries to sweep things under the rug emotions and all.I've been called Bree Vandecamp (Desperate Houswives)by a couple of friends and family members.

• hotaka said on Jul 11, 2007....

  2/11 (month/day) 37
  No. Not even a dog. There is a jumping spider that hangs out under my fridge though that I let stay around.
  No. Recently went through that. I knew I had to choose only one. I went with the one that was in my heart at the time. Mistake. Should've stayed with the other.
  Not at the moment.
  I once threw a grape from a distance of three metres right down the cleavage well of a friend's bathing suit.
  Gotta go. Students are waiting.
  

• jadestar said on Jul 11, 2007....

  I'll be turning 40 soon, too soon. Like Zayda, I don't like to reveal too much - ID theft, predators etc etc but I will say this in December this year, you can send a message that says something to the effect of "enjoy your last month or so in your 30's"
  single. Not sure about the being in love with two people.
  One daughter.
  I have too many memories in my past that would shock you but they just sicken me. Nowadays, I'm pretty ....... mellow.
  I can tell you though, when I was 17, I shaved my head into a mohican. When I was 25 I grew dreadlocks - pretty hard with dead straight hair - it was more like 'natty' dreads. Nothing shocking, but thinking back, it is pretty funny

• hotaka said on Jul 11, 2007....

  D6fer, are you writing in stardates?

• D6fer said on Jul 11, 2007....

  he he he.....a simple riddle...all the clues are there. ;)

• Suddenrain said on Jul 11, 2007....

  • I don't give out my birthdate because of security reasons, but will tell you I'm a little more than twice your age.
  • I have four children.
  • I do believe you can be in love with two people at the same time.
  • Everything about me is a secret on here so far because I'm new. Let me think of something...I'm well educated in many subjects, and continue to educate myself by reading and speaking to a lot of people. I sound boreing. Ahhh well...

   

• leadoffkarma said on Jul 11, 2007....

  Hotaka: You are an aquariuas like my daughter. She was also born on 2/11we say she was my brother's gift since his birthday is 2/12.

• mommyof2 said on Jul 11, 2007....

  My b-day just passed, turned 36, 2 girls 11 and almost 8, there is many different types of love, so I believe you can, and I have, I met my other half of 18 years through my old boyfriend, we had a threesome for a couple of years, and yes I loved them both, not a secret from other half that I am bisexual.
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

• exhibit_c said on Jul 11, 2007....

  1. I'm a Libra and way old enough to know better.
  2. Two kids, both in their 20's.
  3. You can feel all sorts of things with multiple people, but only one pair bond.
  4. Married. A connection thru a college friend.
  5. I can still hardly believe that an good woman shares her bed with me.
  

• hotaka said on Jul 11, 2007....

  leadoffkarma - all my life growing up and early adult years I never met anyone who shared my birthday. After coming to Japan I met three people with the same b-day. Here 2/11 is National Foundation Day, basically Japan's birthday celebration as a nation, like Independence Day or Canada Day. So my birthday is always a holiday over here. Too bad next year it's on my usual day off anyway.

• leadoffkarma said on Jul 11, 2007....

  hotaka: Well know you can add my little girl who just turned 3 to your list of people you know. I only know one more person othe than you now that was born on that same day. When I first took my daughter in she was surprise to read her chart. The doctor's nurse was also born on 2/11 and is also named Emily like my little girl.
   
  The good thing about you being in Japan and celebrating it there is that you always get the day off. I was born on the 5th of July and end up celebrating me birthday on the 4th of July ( Independence Day) and  I never get it off.

• hotaka said on Jul 11, 2007....

  I think the 5th of July is Denmark's national day. My mother's mother was born on that day (she was Danish).

• Expendable said on Jul 11, 2007....

  Halloween. No kids. No significant other. Yes, I do think it's possible to be in love with two people at once. My shocking secrets I keep locked up tight, sorry. But I am a Japanophile/Anglophile/Bibliophile (I like Japan, Britian and Books). ^_^

  -ex.

• polarheart said on Jul 11, 2007....

  Hi Perdy!
   
  I'm 36 going on 100 :-)
  I have one son, known as Tigger here at SC - he is 3.
  I have never been inlove with two people at the same time - I have been infated with one and inlove with the other - there is quite a big difference.
  I have a husband of almost 15 years, we met when I was an uninvited guest at his birthday party.
  My secret is that the more I contemplate having another child, the more I am warming to the idea!

• mirrorimage said on Jul 11, 2007....

  Hi Perdy
   
  I am going to be 28 in a few months...feeling the downhill slide toward 30 although it doesn't bother me like it did a few months ago.
   
  I have two sons.... 7 and 3.
   
  I'm not sure if you can be in love with two people at once...I know very little about love and the conversation gives me a headache! LOL :)
   
  I am married but we are not actually together. Divorce is a big decision and we're taking our time with it. We met through a mutual friend...we were set up on a blind date.
   
  I'm not sure if there is really anything shocking to reveal about myself...i'll come back and comment again if I think of anything.

• fearing said on Jul 12, 2007....

  Hi! 
  I'm 36.
  I have 2 sons.
  I think you can love 2 people at the same time.
  I am engaged.  I actually know 'of' him from 17 years ago.  I worked with his ex-wife in an office.  I really didn't know him though.  I left that job and saw him once a few years later.  (No sparks - he was married and so was I) Then, a year after my ex-husband and I separated, a friend of mine re-introduced us.  I found out he and his ex-wife had been apart for almost 2 years at that point.  We went out, the rest is history.
  Shocking is a strong word.  I could say there are things about me that would surprise you.  ;-)
  

• moonriver said on Jul 12, 2007....

  moonriver k'ung fu-tzu say:
  
  When is your birthday? And how old will you be on your next one?
  Birthday be exactly 365 days from my last one, and me to be exactly one year older. Fire monkey make sense to you?
  
  Do you have children? What are their ages?
  Me have children, all below 20 y-o.
  
  Do you think you can be in love with two people at once?
  Me not just think, me do. Me in love with two people, only different kind of love. Me stay here at Soulcast for concubine research, recruit interested volunteers.
  
  Do you have a spouse or a significant other? Where did you meet them?
  Sophie and I married, but we live apart. Some issues we not settle easily. She gourmet, me slob, so we meet in neutral ground, Chinese noodle shop. Me write cute fictionalized version of how we first met.
  
  Tell me a secret that I would be SHOCKED to know.
  If me tell you secret, no longer secret. Something like Heisenberg principle. Me offer you link to funny story happen to Sophie and me many moons ago.
  
  

• exhibit_c said on Jul 12, 2007....

  Well, Perdy, this thread has been a success and a failure. Getting 43
  responses is pretty good, but, on the other hand, there have been no
  shocking secrets at all. None! Not a single person has fessed up to
  fucking her best friend's groom at the batchelor party or using male
  prostitutes or swapping sex for cocaine or cheating on their physical
  chemistry finals or ANYTHING!
  So, I was reviewing a lifetime of sin (interspersed with virtue) to see
  if I could break the ice. I have plenty of secrets but the fact is,
  they don't shock. They might disgust, or bore, or cheapen my image, but
  they don't shock.
  I do feel urges to do many things that that would be shocking
  deviations from social norms. This woman's mouth appeals to me; I would
  like a blow job from her. That woman's breasts appeal; I would like to
  feel them. Another woman's stance is sexy; I would like to stick my
  hand up her skirt. All these urges are surpressed. My self-control is
  excellent. I am well socialized. They are my secrets, but as urges,
  they are not shocking. Only if I acted on them would they be shocking.
  

• Perdy said on Jul 12, 2007....

  Moonriver:......HUH?! You. my dear, are crazy...But you made me laugh! Thanks for commenting!

   

  Exhibit_C: Nothing shocks me about men anymore...Nope, not a thing...It is funny how, you went from "This woman's mouth appeals to me; I would like a blow job from her....Why not a sweet kiss or even a crazy makeout session? Ahhh, I know why...because you're a dude...Hehe...Silly me! Thanks for stoppin' by, you crazy dude! *sticks tongue out*

• exhibit_c said on Jul 12, 2007....

  Um, Perdy, I wasn't talking about all my urges, only my urges to do potentially shocking things. I have the occasional urge to wash the dishes or make the bed, too, but they didn't apply here.

• Perdy said on Jul 12, 2007....

  *giggles*

  I think a man having an urge to make the bed and do the dishes could quite possibly be the MOST shockin' thing I've read yet. Hope I didn't offend you with my response, was totally not meant to be offensive. I think you're silly..:) It's nice.

   

• lioneljay said on Jul 12, 2007....

  Hello, Perdy. And welcome to SC.
  
  When is your birthday? And how old will you be on your next one?
  On my next birthday I will be what at first blush appears to be a prime number but is not and one of our revered former Presidents will also be a year older.
  
  Do you have children? What are their ages?
  I have three children, who will be 16, 20, and 24 by the end of this summer.
  
  Do you think you can be in love with two people at once?
  I know I can.
  
  Do you have a spouse or a significant other? Where did you meet them?
  Yes. We met at work a long time ago in a galaxy far away.
  
  Tell me a secret that I would be SHOCKED to know.
  How do I know what might shock you? According to Eilan, who is the only one who has seen it up close enough to measure, my e-penis is 13 inches long when aroused. Does that count? Or would it shock you to know that, despite all rumors to the contrary, I do not own a flogger?
  

• moonriver said on Jul 12, 2007....

  LJ -- LOL! thinking you really had a flogger was the biggest reason i feared getting near your blogs... ;-) and your banana-peanut-butter-sandwich blog was so funny i didn't know how to comment hahaha.
  
  

• Perdy said on Jul 12, 2007....

  What the crap is a flogger? I need some help here! LOL

  So, you and Eilan are married? Am I confused? Having a blonde moment or something? I am so lost in my blondeness right now.

• Expendable said on Jul 12, 2007....

  a flogger is an S&M toy.

  -ex

• moonriver said on Jul 12, 2007....

  perdy -- lol, no, lj and eilan aren't married to each other. i think they know each other from another site, and have these long-running private jokes about e-penises and flogging equipment... ;-0
  
  

• Perdy said on Jul 13, 2007....

  Well then, I'm glad that's cleared up.

  Thanks,

  Perdy

• missunderstood1162 said on Jul 14, 2007....

  First of all MY BIRTHDAY IS 2/11
  
  it's true it's true......
  
  
  • When is your birthday? And how old will you be on your next one?
  
  I will be old but not fifty yet.  But I am over 40.
  
  
  • Do you have children? What are their ages?
  Yes we have five kids (blended family) one is deceased, we also have a daughter in law and three wonderful grandchildren and a really psychotic cat.  Kids ages are 24, 24, 22, 22 our oldest would have been 26 in May of this year, however she passed away in April.
  
  
  • Do you think you can be in love with two people at once? (I'm not. I just wonder what everyone else thinks)
  You can love people but no two loves are the same.  You just can't have it all.  I agree...you do have to choose eventually.
  
  • Do you have a spouse or a significant other? Where did you meet them?
  Yes I have a husband and I met him at work.  We were co-workers at the time.  We no longer work together (um during the day that is...lol)
  
  •  Tell me a secret that I would be SHOCKED to know. If you're kinda boring like me you can just tell me a simple secret. 
    
  a simple secret.  okay.  I know someone that is going to have something really exciting happen in their lives within the next year.  I know this sounds like a cop out but it's true.  it's a secret.  the person told me not to tell anyone but it will be exciting and really great.  I am very happy for this person and can't wait to hear more about this.  There.  You just heard a secret but sorry I can't tell you any more than that.  LOL.
  
  

• kram said on Jul 14, 2007....

  MARCH 17 I WILL BE 23

  NO KIDS

  HELL YES, LOVE CHOOSES YOU

  I DATE A GIRL I CANT STAND TO BE AROUND OR EVEN TALK TO

  I AM SEEING A MARRIED WOMAN AND NOBODY KNOWS.

  IT GETS BETTER THAN THAT, BUT U NEVER KNOW WHO MIGHT BE READING.

• anonymous said on Jul 14, 2007....

  In church, I tune out during the sermon, and look around at the women. I wonder which ones could be seduced, what their naked bodies are like, and what they would be like in bed. I would never be unfaithful, but I would like to try other women. I fantasize that the universe will split, and I can be faithful in one reality, and a seducer in the another.

• jadestar said on Jul 16, 2007....

  Thanks for opening my eyes to just who could be out there, anonymous. I will be carrying mace to church from now on, I think

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