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how do you manage your private messages? do you tend to keep them all, delete them all, trim away a few only?

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  • sweet_cookie01 said on Jul 10, 2007....
    i trim only a few... those that are not too important gets deleted but the ones with certain contents i keep...
  • genalonewolf said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I only delete the ones from people wanting to have sex with me or the ones wanting threesomes with me and pickle. What? I can't help it. I get em. Whats a hot guy supposed to do? lol
  • LtCmdrWorf1 said on Jul 10, 2007....

    Hey! Ed,

    I do this (souldcast) differently than my email.  I tend to let whatever people writei n response stay right where it is so that I have some record of how people feel about my writing.  If someone is consistantly obnoxious, I will block their user. 

    Now, all that assumes that I understood the question:)  Peace and Long Life

    Love Worf 

  • evil_twin said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I was keeping them all at first. But then my inbox was 10 pages long. I had to delete! Especially since some of the messages were very simple like, "hey, what're you up to?" I didn't really need to hang onto that. So I deleted everything except a few really nice and important messages that I might want to read over again.

    -evil_twin LA
  • Expendable said on Jul 10, 2007....
    Just the important ones.
  • NotSoSinglechick25 said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I've only gotten one message here on soulcast.  Is that sad or what? lol
    J
  • the_infernal_optimist said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I keep them unless it's a one-word answer to a question I asked, or a random "How's it going?" or something along those lines.

    ~Infernal
  • MissMimi said on Jul 10, 2007....

    If they're especially sweet or humorous, I keep them.  I don't get all that many though.

    Gen, when you've got it, you've got it...  Lucky Pickle.  ;)  :D

  • Perdy said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I've not gotten a message on here yet...Not sure even how I would know if I got one. Ha! But....I'll probably keep my first one forever, unless it's mean and nasty...Then, straight to the garbage it'll go *snaps fingers*....
    ~Perdy
  • GrapeKoolaid said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I'll echo many here and say, "depends on the content".  
  • cakebottom said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I'm with NotSo, I've only gotten one message, though I believe it's still sitting there.
  • destinydiva said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I file them in a word document.......   heres my filing cabinet contents list....

    1   cute guy keep file  :-)
    2   helpful advise file
    3   Need to look at when Im feeling down file
    4   do not look at when feeling down file :-)
    5   flirt file #1
    6   flirt file #2
    7   flirt file #3
    8   flirt file #4
    9   cyber sex :-)
    10   nice messages file
    11   nasty messages file
    12   answers to nosey questions file
    13   nosey questions file
    14   ok I am lying.....

    I don't even have enough messages to need organising :-(
    I have a few though and I wouldnt delete any unless I got to inbox full stage
    I do wish it stored sent messages though.....  my memory is terrible so I forget what I've wrote :-)

    destiny x



  • Alyss said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I don't get many here or elsewhere so it's not really an issue but basically I keep the important ones and delete the rest.
  • Zayda said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I only keep the important ones. And it it's important enough, I might copy and paste it to a Word doc and save it on my computer as well.
  • skald said on Jul 10, 2007....
    So far Ive kept them all. 
  • StupidGenius said on Jul 10, 2007....
    Strangly enough i dont get any. Might be down to that honey and vinegar theory you had silver. SG
  • uniquely-ironic said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I would save something important, but maybe not online, but in a file on my computer.  I think saving things on the net is a little risky, so why take the chance?
  • mirrorimage said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I've only gotten about two and I deleted them...lol
  • bloc said on Jul 10, 2007....
    This is totally off topic, but every time I see uniquely-ironic's name I think of that time Bush was speaking with an older woman about social security. She said that she was working 3 jobs and he said "fantastic" and "uniquely american".

    That's uniquely ironic ;) 
  • Mamie said on Jul 10, 2007....
    deleted. I have too many efiles already.
  • pickersplock said on Jul 10, 2007....
    Depends on the message.  I've kept most of them so far.
  • Actorguy said on Jul 10, 2007....
    Like gena, I only delete the one's who want to have sex with me, so I haven't deleted any yet LOL.  But seriously, I don't get many so I just keep them.
     
    Destiny: polar had the great idea to send a copy to yourself whenever you send a message.  That way you will have a copy of what you said.
  • allswell said on Jul 10, 2007....
    Silver....I keep all of mine, of course i don't get that many so it's easy
     
    alls:) 
  • Lioness said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I don't get a lot, ed, but I also delete the unimportant ones. =)
  • CreativeWoman said on Jul 10, 2007....
    I usually delete them about once a week if I have any. 

    CW
  • DesertMermaid said on Jul 10, 2007....

    I have received very few till now so naturally I save them all !

  • SecretFetish said on Jul 10, 2007....

    Eh, I only have one so far. Not so hard to keep organized. heh  
    cray
  • moonriver said on Jul 10, 2007....
    the number of PM's i've got so far are so few and far in-between, i look at them as rare shells thrown by the soulcast sea to this beach-comber's feet. each one of them, and i mean literally every single one of them, has brought a big smile to my face. thus, i see no need to delete any.

  • D6fer said on Jul 11, 2007....
    I keep most....especially the naked pics that all of you Soulcast Women have been sending me....quite a collection....so if you haven't gotten yours to me yet and are feeling left out....better send it soon! ;p
  • hotaka said on Jul 11, 2007....
    Most of them have been important. Once I reply I delete them because I don't like to keep too much clutter. I was surprised to look at my messages and found a dozen or so, many from weeks ago. Some were really heart-warming and special. But I still like to clean up.
  • luci-fur said on Jul 11, 2007....
    i haven't got one yet, so i don't have this problem!! not that i've sent any either... so i guess it figga's that i haven't received any! um.... with the other site i go on, i just read them, respond and delete them straight away. love luci
  • jadestar said on Jul 11, 2007....
    What, all 5 of them? I just leave them there & go look back everytime I want to smile or feel wanted.
  • destinydiva said on Jul 11, 2007....
    secretfish...how do you use emoticons in posts???

    (please)

    :-)
  • silverwhisper said on Jul 11, 2007....
    sweet cookie: that seems reasonable.

    gen: is that why you never reply to mine?! :D

    worf: um...soulcast has a new feature, private messages, which are quite different from blog entry comments. by the time you read this, you'll have rec'd one. :>

    e_t: be glad we can't keep our sent ones--trimming those is a real PITA!

    ex: yep, that's what i thought.

    notsosingle: well, let's see if we can't do something about that... :D

    infernal: yeah, basic small-talk/conversational ones i usually delete upon replying.

    mimi: what, you don't keep the sexy ones?! :> btw, happy b-day, mimi!

    perdy: that's the right attitude. :>

    grape: yep, kinda figured.

    cakebottom: i'll confess i find that suprising. for some reason i just figured you'd have more than that.

    destiny: to keep a copy of messages you send, just add yourself as a recipient. :>

    alyss: i had a feeling. :>

    super z: outputting to an external file is something i should consider for a few...

    skald: i'm just curious, is that a deliberate decision you've made or have you just not given the matter much thought?

    SG: well, that and the fact that you've been gone for frigging 9 months! :>

    u-i: fair point.

    MI: you know, for some reason, i'm surprised by that.

    bloc: wow. he really said that?! i know i shouldn't be surprised, but still...

    mamie: you must be hell on wheels when you clean! :D

    pickers: yep, i can certainly understand that.

    actorguy: that's right, i forgot polar suggested that! that sneaky polar--she's always one step ahead of me!

    allswell: well, that does make things simple... :>

    lioness: yeah, i don't really get that many, either.

    CW: yeah, i can see given the demands on your time that managing your PMs might be a bit too much work on a day-to-day basis. :>

    desertmermaid: like i said to allswell, there's a lot to be said for simplicity. :>

    secretfetish: i've been trying to figure out how to embed smileys--thank you! it never once occurred to me to do it that way! uploading the smiley into flickr--clever! i guess it shows that i never use flickr, huh? :>

    moon: now that's pretty damned cool, moon. :>

    d6: bwa-ha-ha-ha-ha!

    hotaka: i know what you mean--on a message board i frequent, i keep a bunch and ever few months i'll go look at the ones i didn't file and invariably trim out a few here or there.

    luci: say what? now that can't be right!

    jadestar: no, you must create a complex filing system for the 5! :D

    ed
  • bloc said on Jul 11, 2007....
    I don't get many so I haven't needed to delete any yet. I'm a minimalist though, and will delete most if I start to get them regularly. 
  • destinydiva said on Jul 11, 2007....
    aaahhh  good plan!!!  thanks silver :-)

  • silverwhisper said on Jul 11, 2007....
    bloc: that makes sense.

    destiny: as you can see from actorguy's comment, polar has suggested this in the past, too. :>

    ed
  • cakebottom said on Jul 11, 2007....
    Oh come on silver, I'm not as popular as you are!  I only have a small group of people who really read my blog, and y'all don't have any reason to send private messages.
  • silverwhisper said on Jul 11, 2007....
    you might be surprised at how infrequently i get PMs, cakebottom. :>

    ed
  • StupidGenius said on Jul 14, 2007....
    I got a message!!!! maybe I was wrong after all and god sent it to me!!! he took the name perdy and he asked me about religion.... this is a sign!!
     
    oh...er....no.....
     
    I dont believe in signs or god.... must be a message that evolved over time and became a soulcast message. praise the......????
     
    ;-}
     
    SG
  • silverwhisper said on Jul 16, 2007....
    ...flying spaghetti monster, perhaps?

    SG, it's always good to see your sense of humor in evidence. :>

    ed

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