• silverwhisper said on Jul 21, 2006....

  prewdaug: i'm curious what you do that people ask you to sell them such things. yes, these things would hurt and yes, that's kinda the point. i can get into the idea of bondage play but it's kind of like cayenne pepper: i like to use it but it doesn't need to be part of every meal. :> ed

• Zayda said on Jul 22, 2006....

  You know Silver that cayenne pepper comparison is a great analogy. Add a little spice occasionally, but too much and your palette doesn't detect the spice as well.

• silverwhisper said on Jul 22, 2006....

  thank you, zayda. you seem a kindred spirit. :> it goes w/out saying, i trust, that the palate does develop a certain familiarity w/ flavors you use frequently? :> ed

• Zayda said on Jul 22, 2006....

  I think there are great things about familiarity; familiarity with your lover/spouse is like a great pair of well-worn jeans--comfortable and fitting in all the right places. But, adding an accent to those jeans can often be thrilling, when done right.

• blueyedtiger said on Jul 22, 2006....

  I am into whips, chains cuffs, and the like, and I do agree that there is an extent to the bdsm fun. Some people just like to have intercourse where they are totally out of control... How many people do you (readers) know that would rather just lay back and let a willing partner tease them and please them untill they have mountainous orgazm after orgazm? Thats where the split comes in: ~ If you dont mind being the one to please, and you get enjoyment from pleasing others while they can't stop you, then you are most likely a Domme (Dominator/Dominatrix) ~ If you are the type of person that would rather put yourself into someone elses very talented hands, then you are probably more Submissive. Some couples play around with both areas, some simply love a Domme/Sub relationship. The thing that was told to me that sounded like the most fun, being the blindfolded(!!) person to climb into a box with lots of hand-sized holes in it, all over the entire box. Then having people from a small BDSM party caress/poke/prod/rub/tickle/pinch every inch of your body. The idea of rubbing your hands along someone that you know doesnt know you opens so many doors. THat definately sounds like my idea of a good party *blush* -Tiger

• anonymous said on Jul 22, 2006....

  How about latex? I have heard that there are people who dress up in latex or rubber suits and that they have holes strategically placed in some spots. Do people really do that? OR is this just some porn rag imagination type stuff? Wall flower

• hunter_boyce_chandler said on Jul 22, 2006....

  Once again I feel compelled to comment on topics that I have absolutely no idea what I'm talking about and no empirical experience from which to draw That having been said. Our play has evolved over the years. Usually the intensity is predicated on the situation. If we are alone for the first time after having an entire rock band including groupies parked at our house for two weeks, we might get a little rough with each other. If we are stealing a moment trying to be quiet so the company won't hear, we tend to be more tender. Then there's the skinny dipping in our pool.

• SaBu said on Jul 23, 2006....

  I have a fear of being tied up. I think that IF I ever try to get tied up,my lady friend would rob me for everything I have. Just imagine. You're laying there,enjoying the moment,then she gets up and starts to go through your things smiling and giggling. You sit there dangling all over the place trying to free yourself. All the tugging,pulling and straining.......you accidently fart. Not only is she robbing you while your tied up,but now she has a hell of a story to tell her friends. So now you're tied up,dangling all over the place, fresh air smells like a sewage site and the white sheets are probably brown now. I would be too embarrassed to call the cops. I would just let her get away with it,but i'd have to tell my cousin about it :) .NO WAY JOSE! I'll stick to the regular kinky stuff.

• silverwhisper said on Jul 23, 2006....

  sabu, that sounds like some [i]very[/i] serious trust issues. ed

• 00purple666 said on Aug 11, 2006....

  [color=purple] ahh this topic brings back memories....I was corrupted from a young age my 1st boyfriend opened up the world of bdsm to me! I must admit I did get off on inflicting pain muhahha I even had my own dungeon at one point..you name it I've seen it! However there must be a word that means stop! once I got to carried away and did not stop this actually scared me as I was actually then beating up my bf! That was about 6yrs ago now whilst I am somewhat kinky I can't see myself going back to being a proper mistress as in the end my bf could only have sex whilst being injured in someway and it just got boring! variety is the spice of life and all that [/color]

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