Ok so I gave my hot friend my number a week ago and I haven't heard a thing. I was so excited to, I guess I am a little still since maybe he has a good excuse for taking so long, and maybe a week isn't that bad, but still I'm starting to get disappointed. It doesn't help that I have to much time to think about this, but I was really looking forward to telling him what I'm up to and hearing what he's up to and maybe just maybe see how interested he may be or may not be. Plus with everything going on in London it be nice to hear from him. I figure though if he was really interested he'd have called the first chance he got right? I know I would have, but I always over do things. Some of my guy friends say "Guys like to make girls wait, cause they're not to smart." or "If he's as polite as you say he is then he'll get in touch with you as soon as he can." Now that first one doesn't make much sense to me. I wouldn't think he'd be the type to play games, he's to nice and he's older. I hope the second opinion is more like it. He just made such an effort to see me while I was there and now I feel like I'm not so important. Well I guess thats understandable, but if he really liked me wouldn't he still try? I wonder what he's so busy with anyway, all I can think of is he's going out with tons of girls. I wonder also if theres something more I could say or do to show I'm interested. I'm scared I'm playing it to safe, but I don't want to get hurt either. I know he's a very active person though, but he says he doesn't have many friends. I don't know what I was expecting anyway. I don't even want to go out with anyone around here either, I'm just not interested. I know the odds are so low, but I was just so hopeful. Keep it fun and slow I suppose, but I guess this is as slow as it gets. Ugh, I think to much.
Comments
-
evil_twin said on Jul 01, 2007....
Ninja, I think that maybe he hasn't called simply because he might not see the point. Not because he doesn't like you, but because you live SO far from him. He might be thinking it's not worth the effort to keep in touch. It's sad, but possibly true. I hope I'm wrong though for your sake. Sometimes guys do wait awhile before calling. Not me, but I'm usually overeager too.
-evil_twin LA
-
ninjapirate said on Jul 01, 2007....
Evil: Ya that makes sense, but I figured he would have figured that out when I wrote him that first email. He could have easily ended it there. I guess thats why I was so surprised. Thanks for your imput though. I sure hope its something else! -
silverwhisper said on Jul 02, 2007....
maybe it's a time zone issue for him? 6 (or more) hours can be tricky, after all.
plus, overseas calls can be expensive, too.
ed -
ninjapirate said on Jul 02, 2007....
Silver: Ooh good point, that would make it a lot harder! For some reason I didn't think it be much of an issue. I sure hope it's something like that. Thanks! -
Meglpn2 said on Jul 02, 2007....
I hope he calls, I so hate waiting!!! Just do it already guys, Yall tortue us to much!! -
ninjapirate said on Jul 03, 2007....
Meg: No kidding! I'm just to impatient. Thanks for the support! -
DesertMermaid said on Jul 03, 2007....
Hello ninja, waiting is boring and so difficult too. I'm impatient as a rabbit, but lets not give up hope just as yet..Whatever happens do let us know ok? -
ninjapirate said on Jul 03, 2007....
Desert: Aww thank you! I was getting pretty disappointed and thinking what will I do if I never hear from him again, but maybe you're right not to give up just yet. I'll certainly write more if something happens. -
evil_twin said on Jul 03, 2007....
I may have missed you already saying this, but do you email him or have his chat ID? If calling is expensive, you might try to get in touch with him that way if you can. Sometimes it's easier to catch someone in a different time zone if you send them an email, then they can respond whenever.
-evil_twin LA
-
ninjapirate said on Jul 04, 2007....
Evil: Ah yes you've missed some of my blogs I see. Here is one where I've described what happened in London, it's kinda long though. Here's another blog, shorter one, that surprised me and happened when I got back. To sum up, yep we use email and he's the one who suggested that we talk on the phone, so I emailed him back my number and haven't heard a thing, no email, no nothing. I'm tempted to email him again, but I won't! Thanks for your suggestion though. -
I_alabdula_romnvskya said on Jul 04, 2007....
He would have called by now if he was interested. Move on and don't waste your time. Just because he is attractive doesn't mean that he has anything in common with you or that he is really interested, you know? -
ninjapirate said on Jul 06, 2007....
I_a: Ugh, sure seems more and more like it. It's not all about him being attractive, there was tons of things that interested me about him and that we had in common, just makes it worse, sigh. -
orangesummer said on Jul 06, 2007....
ninja! don't get down about it doll! I think that you are thinking too much into it. hugs!
Comment on "My hope is fading"
Related Posts:
fragglesrock
posted 3 days ago
| views: 123
|
I know I need help...It's becoming apparant that it really is time for me find the attentions of a member of the male species….... read entire post
CharRe
posted 3 days ago
| views: 41
|
ok Right now there is a guy that I can not seem to get out of mind. He seems nice but he is one of those people who points obvious things. Thats very annoying to me. So I guess my question is are there certain things you can ig... read entire post
CharRe
posted 5 days ago
| views: 34
|
Me and my friend was talking about romance and whether it still alive. So Soulcast do you believe that romance still exsists.... read entire post
callingyou
posted about 4 hours ago
| views: 14
|
It seems like all the guys I invest my time into have a hard time committing. For example, the situation with B recently ended. It was his decision and he didn't tell me why. He's been avoiding me like the plague. I respect that he wan... read entire post
escortservice
posted 5 days ago
| views: 22
|
ALEX@ 9953516911 Chennai Escort 4u is the India based agency. Chennai Escort 4u providing a high class India escort service, top Indian escorts.... read entire post