• LadyGamer said on Jun 29, 2007....

  I've thought about it.
  I've done it.
  I found it exciting and very very different from the past cross gender experiences. I wouldn't say that I would move to that activity exclusively. But I am not ruling out future endeavors.

• lfbno7 said on Jun 30, 2007....

  when i was a teenager, i used to hang out with a guy who turned out to be gay.  i didn't know it at the time.  we got high together.  i wasn't the least bit attracted to him and sex was the farthest thing from my mind.
  
  we were sitting on his couch and he put his arm behind my back, not touching me.  i had my "holy shit" moment.  i realized he was into me.  and the marijuana was starting to kick in.
  
  i sat still for a minute.  i figured what the hell, i was curious, i'd let him do whatever he wanted, and see how it feels.  but i still wasn't attracted to him.
  
  he sensed the decision i made, to let him go for it.  he asked me if i minded if he fooled around.  i said no.
  
  i expected him to kiss me, like i kissed my girlfriends.  i expected him to do something romantic, like i was with girls.  he surprised me for the second time - he just went for the gold.  he unzipped my pants, got on his knees on the living room floor, and started fondling and sucking.  i was thinking "huh?"
  
  he stood up and took my hand and led me towards his bedroom.  my pants were down around my ankles.  it is not easy to walk that way.  you take baby steps and feel like a little kid.
  
  he didn't get me out of my clothes.  he was in too much of a hurry for that.  he just pulled my shirt up some, and pulled my pants down some, and got on top of me.  i wasn't into it but i wasn't repelled by it.  i liked the guy.  i just wanted to let the scene play out.  i was still curious.
  
  he couldn't make up his mind whether he wanted to rub on me, groin to groin, or go down on me.  so he kept doing both.  then he settled on going down on me.
  
  i put my hands on his shoulders because they were down around my chest somewhere as he went down on me.  but that was a bad move.  he had such masculine shoulders.  it turned me off.  i didn't feel turned on by a guy's shoulders.  i wanted to touch a girl.  i felt repelled by his body.
  
  he kept sucking, oblivious.
  
  i closed my eyes and decided to pretend he was a girl.  i kept my hands off him.  he did make me come.
  
  after it was done, he asked me to come back and see him again soon.  i said no, i don't think i'm going to do that.  i never did.
  
  he didn't get me involved.  he sucked my dick but he didn't engage me.  i didn't like his body.  i liked him as a friend, but that relationship was killed.  i wasn't at all angry at him.  i just wasn't at all interested in him.  and even though he made me come, i didn't particularly want him slobbering all over my dick.
  
  his only real shot would have been to bring out a more feminine side of me.  he didn't do that.  he might have had a shot if he tried to dominate me, but he didn't know that.  i don't know how i would have reacted to that.  i know i respond to dominance/submission from either side of that game.  no way i would have taken him over, but if he had tried to take me over maybe it would have had an effect.  i  don't know.
  
  i find guys boring and repulsive, and i don't want them slobbering on my dick.  that's from personal experience.  i was open minded enough to try, not homophobic, and i wasn't hurt by the experience, but i just like girls, that's all.
  
  girls are so soft and creamy.  tits feel so good.  guys have nothing to offer.  i'm not impressed by a dick.  i have one of my own, thanks.  not criticizing anyone, just sharing.
  
  

• silverwhisper said on Jun 30, 2007....

  in an episode of south park from a few years ago, chef tells the boys, "there's a time and a place for everything, children, and it's called college."
  
  i experimented in college with a good friend, tried a few things that i did or didn't like. but i learned that while the physical stimulation can be good, for me sex is more interesting when there's also love. and i can only love women.
  
  ed

• lfbno7 said on Jun 30, 2007....

  i admire your guts

• sweetsoul said on Jun 30, 2007....

  ditto what Lady Gamer said.

• Eilan said on Jun 30, 2007....

  Curious?  Yes.  Curious enough to act on it?  No.
  
  I'll never say never, though.
  

• RayPettus said on Jun 30, 2007....

  Thank you all for your comments, this is what I like about Soulcast the freedom to be who you are and share experiences without criticism. I especially appreciate the men ( not discounting the women mind you) who were able to be honest and not afraid of being labeled as gay by their admissions of curiosity. Therefore abandoning the macho stereotypes.

  ed, I have the utmost respect for you and to include the fact about including love with sex was right one time.

  I do not like labels but would say that I am attracted to men more so than women. But like ed, I too beleive that love has to be a factor in this equation. Without love you are left feeling empty and used, so one-night stands just don't work anymore for me. They had their place but as they say, "I did what I did then, until I knew to do better".

  Thanks for sharing,

  rp

• evil_twin said on Jun 30, 2007....

  Honestly, no, I've never been curious. I don't find men attractive in that way. And to me, sex is more than just someone sucking me off, regardless of who it is. My mind doesn't operate like that. I prefer to have sex inside of a relationship. And since I'm not gay, I've only had relationships with women. And I do have to be attracted to the person I'm with too. Even if it was a one night stand, I'd have to feel that attraction to them. Men just don't appeal to me in a sexual way, so the thought really has never occurred to me.
  
  -evil_twin LA
  

• silverwhisper said on Jul 01, 2007....

  ray, what i said doesn't warrant respect--it's merely the truth as i see it. b/c honestly, if there's no emotional connection, sex really isn't much different from masturbation.
  
  ed

• LadyGamer said on Jul 01, 2007....

  Exactly!
  That's probably a very good reason why I don't engage in auto-eroticism.

• MsBradford07 said on Jul 12, 2007....

  I have been curious about having sex with someone that is the same sex as me, but I don't know if I would that. Maybe, and maybe if I had a partner and he wanted that, then I would do it then.

• BreA2 said on Jul 13, 2007....

  even though i'm a girl...i'd have to agree with evil twin.... i've thought girls were pretty before...but nothing sexual...

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