• viciousgrl said on Jun 29, 2007....

  god..that's messy! ...well, let's see here...my opinion on the subject: have u asked him how he feels about the two of you? i mean, where do each of u gals stand for... because i feel like u might find the right thing to do starting from there. if he does love u indeed, and more than her....if u think there is a chance to gain him back, to make him cancel the marriage, then it might be worth it giving it a try and listening to ur heart. BUT, if he doesn't love you, at least not as much as he loves her, than there's no point in going through all that pain, so that he can have his little adventure. I really think u should be careful here, about what his intentions are, and that is the first thing u need to find out before jumping into this again. best wishes, vc

• slirpuff said on Jun 29, 2007....

  This may sound a little hard, but can you say
  out loud that he's just going to "use" me for
  two months, break it off and I can live with that !
  Where will his bride to be while this is going on..
  If this is just the last fling before he ties the knot
  great, that is until his bride to be finds out and your labeled
  the slut who was fooling around with her man..
  If he wants you back on a perment basis go for it,
  but if he's just looking to have a little affair think twice.

• Mamie said on Jun 29, 2007....

  Run.

• lfbno7 said on Jun 30, 2007....

  he's playing you for a total idiot.  are you a total idiot?  figure out the answer to that one.

• sweet_cookie01 said on Jun 30, 2007....

  all i could say is... though it is tempting... dont play with fire... put yourself in the finacees shoes... give yourself some importance and respect...

• rainandsunshine said on Jul 01, 2007....

  thanks you guys... your words seem to emphasise just wat i was thinking.... i'll tell him the same , but its going to be really hard.....

• lfbno7 said on Jul 01, 2007....

  oh come on, you're going to see him.   you're stuck on him.  and he's going to keep you around as his sex toy for a long time.  his marriage isn't going to mean enough to him to be faithful to his wife.  and you will be permanently heartbroken on a string, unable to develop a relationship of your own because all you will think about is this taker who doesn't give a damn about you but just uses you for sex and ego.  Mr. Right will come and go, and you won't notice because you are so stuck on this dork.

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