• LloydTheBarber said on Jun 16, 2007....

  I am 32, and the older i get, the more i like the idea of  dating a younger woman. When i come across a 20 something that is dating an older guy, my first instinct isnt to judge her...it is to charm her!!

• NotSoSinglechick25 said on Jun 16, 2007....

  Lloyd ~ pretty cute! 
   
  Jadea ~ I am 26 and live with a 50 year old man.  And no he's not my dad.  Our age difference is the only thing that overshaddowed the judgements made about our meeting on the internet!  We'll always get a lot of looks and people will always wonder and judge.  I don't care.  I love him and he loves me - so there!  phbbbt!!! lol.  In all seriousness, I rarely think about our age difference.  It just doesn't occur to me.
  J

• Eilan said on Jun 16, 2007....

  I'm 33 and my husband will be 50 at the end of this month.  If anyone's judging us, they're doing a good job of keeping it to themselves.  Or it could be that we're just oblivious to the stares.
  

• secretlife said on Jun 16, 2007....

  i've dated a man 20 years older-
  and never felt judged.

• fearing said on Jun 16, 2007....

  I've always been attracted to older men.  I like the maturity level. :-)

• mobil said on Jun 16, 2007....

  The problem for a female hooking on to the wagon of a much older male, is
  that she is destined to spend allot of time alone.
   
  It's hard for an older woman to find a man, simply because there are much
  fewer older men than women. Knowing this, if a younger woman stll wants
  to hook that wagon to the older guy.........go for it.

• RollingC said on Jun 16, 2007....

  How about the other way around ?
  It's a classic that an older man goes out with a younger woman but a younger man with an older woman ?
  How would you feel about that? In my younger days I had a terrific love affair with an older woman....13yrs older.... which lasted several years and if I had been more mature back then I would've married her.
  Rc.
  

• quietone said on Jun 17, 2007....

  RC ~ you said it there, as one who was with a younger man, 12 years younger, it didn't last because of his lack of maturity and life expeirences.  But, he is a nice guy and we do remain friends. 
  But it is true more women are "judged" with being with a younger man than the other way around,I think anyway.  I also was with a man who looked much older everyone thought he was my "dad". But as long as one is truly happy who cares......others are probably jealous

• destinydiva said on Jun 17, 2007....

  I tend to be attracted to older men...and relationships with guys the same age never satisfied me........I like a man with maturity.....knowledge.....wisdom and experience that can only be obtained with age.....
  
  anyways..  I try not to judge anybody....but I have to admit...the only time my mind brings forward the question or waivers towards judging..... is if you see a rich old man...with a very young woman...   or  an old man who seems to enjoy the 'trophey' aspect of a younger woman on his arm ......    (i mean when this is obviously the situation......not that I just assume that )
  
  But my first thoughts.... are love conquers anything and everything.....that must be true love :-)
  
  Destiny x
  

• mirrorimage said on Jun 17, 2007....

  I usually don't give it a second thought when I see younger women with older men.

• ALIENated said on Jun 17, 2007....

  I think they would be more compatible sex wise. I would not want someone too
  young to remember and appreciate the Beatles, though.
  

• RollingC said on Jun 17, 2007....

  Why not  Alien ?  Think of all the fun you'll have of introducing her to that music and the volumes that they produced.....      :>)

• copsunited said on Jun 17, 2007....

  My second wife was 20 years my junior..and it never made a bit of difference.

  I was just 40 and she had just turned 20 when we met. It was a mutual attraction and seemed perfectly comfortable...she died of cancer...never mind..I dont want to go there right now..

  laters...luvs ya..JD

• ALIENated said on Jun 17, 2007....

  I mean, I would shy away from a woman too much younger. I do not want to
  have to explain every little thing I say that is a reference to something too far
  back. I could handle a younger woman in the bedroom, but I am not that much
  on going out and partying anymore. I fear a younger woman would tire of my
  laziness.
  

• copsunited said on Jun 17, 2007....

  Hey..I doubt I could handle a younger woman in bed..hmmm.

  The thught is that it would be fun..well for a bit...well..hmmm.

  Put my money where my mouth has been.?? Okay...that'll work...

   

  YOU Dirty old man...ayuppers....dat be true.

• genalonewolf said on Jun 17, 2007....

  Pickle is ten years younger than I but you really can't tell because she is so mature for her age. I think she has to be since having her children at such an early age. The difference doesn't bother her at all except when we go to buy smokes and she gets carded and I don't.

• mommyof2 said on Jun 17, 2007....

  Older men to me have more of a brain in both heads!!!
  I'm 35 for a few more days here, he's 52, we got together when I was 17.

• CreativeWoman said on Jun 17, 2007....

  Maturity is the big thing for me rather than age.  I like a man who is confident in who he is.
  
  CW
  

• aliendudeintheuk said on Jun 18, 2007....

  Mine"s a bit different.Am a younger guy(i am 26) and i like dating older women.Society never judges the guy doing it but they always judge the ladies when they date older men.Remember the society is biased..lol
  Thomas

• Susmaryosep said on Jun 18, 2007....

  Not too young, not less than 25, but not loder than 50 :-)) 

• cotteralladams3 said on Jun 20, 2007....

  He is probably looking for a nurse to take care of him and she is looking for a father.  Sounds like a bad combination.  There is some truth in the notion that older men make better fathers and maybe didn't get it right the first time around because of career demands and other issues of maturity, but that doesn't require a sixty-year-old man to marry a twenty-three-year-old girl.  A man of forty-five marrying a woman of thirty-five is understandable.

• copsunited said on Jun 22, 2007....

  HEY HEY HEY HEY..what's the matter with a 60 plus man marrying a 26 year old?? Man...I might not live long after that but it sure would be a fun way to go out..yuppers..besides that I'd leave her very well off..now that's a consideration...it works for some..yeth it do...

• Susmaryosep said on Jun 22, 2007....

  Just do it!
  
  

• nonewiser said on Jul 21, 2007....

  well i m 45 and married and my sexual power isnt abbated a bit, in fact, i m more sexually active and enjoy sex more with age advance, does tht mean i m abnormal? i dunno....but i enjoy it!

• Susmaryosep said on Jul 23, 2007....

  Well, You cant enjoy sex alone.... :-((
  
  
  

• anonymous said on Apr 01, 2009....

  It's not judging to wonder why people would do this on both sides. I'm talking about a healthy, long term relationship. (Actually, why the younger woman would want to) Why the man would do it is clear. I hear all the security, maturity, even sexual reasons (short term) and money issues that could be pleasing to a younger woman. but...........They will die sooner, quit having sex sooner, and have health issues sooner. Things in common, baggage etc. are more issues to ponder if you care to. If you, as a younger woman, want to take on that kind of relationship, more power to ya. There really are probably some psychologic issues going on that you may want to look at (and rarely do people like to hear that). I think the only person who really wins in these situations is the dirty old man frankly. He gets the goodies, feels younger etc. while the last few years roll by. A twenty year age gap is simply creepy. Sorry older guys...just how many people feel. Right on for you! if you can pull it of but it's truly not going to be healthy and..... I feel sorry for the younger women. By the way, If you haven't seen people staring or snickering, you haven't been looking - but that's not relevant. 38 y/o male.

• anonymous said on Apr 01, 2009....

  Judging is one thing but people can have opinions.   Women who date much older men have issues they need to fulfil and can't or won't for whatever reason with younger, more attractive people.  YES...people do tend to notice those things and sort of cringe or laugh.  I personally don't say anything out loud or comment but feel sorry for the younger woman.  I admit I also look at the older man as sort of scummy too...

• addukae said on Oct 07, 2009....

  I am a 21 year and im in a relationship with a 56 year old man, i love him amd he loves me too. So it dont matter about d age it is how u both feel about each other and yes if i want to have children we would

• sexyLIOUS said on Oct 07, 2009....

  yes

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