• silverwhisper said on Jun 13, 2007....

  honestly, i think it depends on the person. for me, it isn't possible but i have friends for whom it is. indeed, a woman with whom i was once involved was in love with me and someone else, so clearly, it's possible for some.
  
  just my humble opinion.
  
  ed

• trapbutterfly said on Jun 14, 2007....

  
  Thanks Silverwhisper,
  Your humble opinion is highly appreciated. ja, now you make me wonder if people that know their partner is in love with someone else too, would still stay with them. I don't think I would. Gosh, when it comes to love relationships i'm so freaking selfish....

• silverwhisper said on Jun 15, 2007....

  well, i think that people are all different about their relationships, to be honest.
  
  ed

• rupert7 said on Jun 16, 2007....

  you can be in love or you can love.
  
  My first and dearest love was killed in an accident 25 years ago. I have never forgotten her,my feelings for her have not changed and I still miss her more than  can say. I have had 2 wives since then,and have not felt toward them what I felt(still feel) toward the one that died. It is just not the same.
  
  I think you can love one and be in love with another at the same time,but you cannot be in love with 2 at the same time,no,in my humble opinion,and from my experience-no you cannot!
  

• countqueen said on Jun 26, 2007....

  i think that you can only truely love one person at one time, and what you feel for the other is most likely to be lust or desire. true love is about wanting to be faithful and committed to one person only. its possible that there are others out there that are also compatable with you other then your partner, but i dont think you can have two at once its just not possible to be in love with two. must likely you've already fell out of love or sink with your current partner or they are not meeting some of your needs/desires and someone els is or can. and your confusion lead you to think you love two. when you steo back from the situation or when the sutiation passes.....you will realise who, you really feel more strongly for or love.

• anonymous said on Nov 07, 2009....

  i believe that you can be in love with one person and love another i am 17 years old when i was 14 i fell in love with a guy and i felt every emotion go through my body i thought we would be together forever we broke up several months ago i am now a senior and see him everyday in school. He dates my friend and i date someone as well. We still speak and talk sometimes we speak about the past. I am still in love with him and i like my boyfriend but nothing is the same Sometimes i catch him staring at me and i wonder sometimes will history repeat itself but sometimes you have to let things go

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