• secretlife said on Jun 05, 2007....

  yes, i believe you.

  i also believe that you will find someone to love again.

• rainandsunshine said on Jun 05, 2007....

  well i wud love to meet sumone again.. but i always wonder will be able to love him with the same intensity , the same passion or have i lost the one big romance of my life???

• secretlife said on Jun 05, 2007....

  i have been in love with 3 men in my life. 

  i thought after each that i'd never experience it again.

  but if your heart and your mind are open, then i believe love finds you.

  don't think that you too won't be able to love as intensely again....because it's part of who we are.  you will heal, and you will be ready to risk again because you know the rewards.

• viciousgrl said on Jun 05, 2007....

  I believe in what u'r saying too... i don't think there is anything that even comes close to the feelings that love gives you... 

• rainandsunshine said on Jun 06, 2007....

  well then i'll hope and wait for the day wen i find love again....

  and pls help me on this , do u think its a gud idea to stay in touch with ur ex bf , wen u still love him loads??? pls help

• viciousgrl said on Jun 06, 2007....

  aaa...it depends...i think it's a good idea if u'r determined to get him back...otherwise, if u're just trying to clinge to something in ur past, if u'r just not ready to let him go (but hope that in the future u will)...well that might do you more harm than good. u would only be prolonging ur own suffering, i think...

• rainandsunshine said on Jun 08, 2007....

  i dont know... im not trying to get him bak ...of that im sure... but it feels so gud to talk to him , in watever way... even if we talk  as just as frends... everytine i talk to him , im devastated for a few days , but the high it gives is so worth it... so confused

• viciousgrl said on Jun 08, 2007....

  trust me, i know what u mean... i used...use to that too...but unfortunately i think u'r just punishing your self... i know how much a little thing like talking to him means, and how hard it seems to give that up, but is this what you want? him as a friend? i don't think so...not if you still have feeling for him... i'm speaking from my own experience, i thought that just having him as a friend would be enough, but every time i just kept remembering moments spent with him, and that got me even more down, to know how wonderful it was, and how it had turn out... i think that the thought itself,( that what i used to consider the love of my life, could only consider a friend now) hurt me the most.....
  
  Don't think there are too many options here. You could remain like this, which i just think is self inflicted torture. You could fight to get him back. or you could find somebody else, and hopefully fall in love again. But i think the last 2 are the ones that help, cause at least you'll have it figuered out, as in what you want .
  

• rainandsunshine said on Jun 08, 2007....

  oh i ove the way you put things... its like you express exactly how i feel......talking to him is like inflicting sweet torture on myself.... i guess im becoming a sadist... really confused.. i guess for now i'll just let things be , and see wat happens.... thanks a ton...

• viciousgrl said on Jun 09, 2007....

  like i've said...i've been in your situation myself...unfortunatelly.... so i really understand what you're going trough. And i feel so sorry that i can't tell you a certain way to solve things, because in my case i ended up deciding on my own what i wanted, and that was him back. So i don't think any advice could help you since you have to clear your thoughts on your own... after all you know best what'd make you happy. So untill that i'm just rooting for you, and hope everything will turn out for the best for you.
  

• rainandsunshine said on Jun 10, 2007....

  it feels so great just to know that someone understands wat you are going thru... the confusion and all....and im still deciding but i've almost made up my mind to let go... thers no future for us....so theres no point of holding on.. he has already committed to someone else , and i'd like to believe that i'll also meet sumone who i'll fall in love with .....so heres to great hopes

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