Who's reading loushusjacob (7):
why does it always come around to it, we meet people, we make them part of lifes.
How well do we know people when we meet them on line?
 
i have just this very moment , got rid of the monster that my other half as said from the start to be sucking the life out of me, Of course i never listened to my partner when she said this, as i put it down to just jealousy , but you know as predicted , this so called friend of mine showed her true manipulative colours.
 
its right, how do we know who they are, they may say, they have 3 kids, a home and partner, life in new york, by 32 years old, but could always be living in leeds with their mother, aged 47 and have nothing but the internet to fulfil their lifes, while this is fine, i think lying about who you ARE and have motives behind all you do is wrong
 
i really do just take people at face value, never suspect anything, and then the games start, and am just going to reside myself to say, am not going in any chat rooms ever again,
 
am so sick of liars and bloodsuckers, and am done with head trippers, and i will always listen to wife first!!!
 
arhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh am so mad!!!! at myself.


del.icio.us Digg reddit StumbleUpon

Comments

  • Eilan said on Jun 03, 2007....
    Sorry you had a bad experience.  I haven't been burned by online friends and/or acquaintances, but I've known people who have.
  • loushusjacob said on Jun 04, 2007....
    i think the thing is eilan, we can all pretend to be something we are not, its just when people start to make judgements on you, and i never thought it to be true , but now proved wrong, that some people really do fill their lifes, with messings with others minds for the sake of it.
     
    i've calmed down, its my own fault, i was warned about this person, i just always like to give a chance to people, i just cant believe the bad, first .
     
    hope youre well today
    x
     
  • darkpearl said on Jun 04, 2007....
    Yes i am not that keen on chatrooms either. I am sorry that you were hurt but I am happy that you make your own decisions about people. It's nice to know that there are a few optimists left regardless of a their bad experiences. Take care loushus
  • loushusjacob said on Jun 04, 2007....
    thankyou darkpearl,
     
    i suppose, if i just block everyone out of my life, i will never meet any new friends, and the thing is, i cant say or judge someone until i have seen them do what everyone says they will do, for myself, does that make scence?
     
    even at work, i always say, perhaps you feel like that , to my peers, but they have always been alright with me, am honest, maybe that backfires on me, but i prefer to be honest with myself,
     
    i cant think ill of everyone, and i like to give second chances, as i always hope that people will treat me the same was i treat them, i know this doesnt always happen , but my mind rests if am fair. lol
     
    thanks for your advice darkpearl.
  • darkpearl said on Jun 04, 2007....
    You are taking the smartest route even though it is the most difficult. good for you
  • loushusjacob said on Jun 05, 2007....
    thanks darkpearl
     
    :)
  • Frlncwrtr said on Jun 06, 2007....
    Loishus:  I've always heard that chat rooms are places that you are likely to get entangled with weirdos.  I know there are a lot of them out there. 
     
    I'm sorry to hear that you had a bad experience, but I'm glad to see that you are openminded and hopeful. Despite the bad ones, there are a lot of good people.  You just have to weed them out, I guess.
  • loushusjacob said on Jun 07, 2007....

    yes i think you right, frlncwrtr, we have to weed em out, dispite this blog, i have to remember i met my other half online, and one of our best friends and her husband, so sometimes there's the keepers!

     

    just the negatives ones we cant escape, thanks for your comments

    :)x

  • athena39 said on Jun 07, 2007....
    not nice loishus, hope you have calmed down now........hmmmm I seem to recall we met in a chat room lol and look at us now after all these years, love you both.
  • loushusjacob said on Jun 07, 2007....

    hello athena39, everyone, this is one of our best friends, and yes i stand corrected we met in a chat room am calm now, its that bloody secondlife i should have never started with the thing!

    :)

     

  • loushusjacob said on Jun 07, 2007....
    but athean i did put,  i met one of our best friends and her husband on my last cooment that was you !!!

Comment on "Getting Rid Of Blood Sucker"


(Separate tags using commas, for example: New York, dating, vegetarian)
Comment Anonymously

It had to happen eventually....
I was talking to a friend and she asked what is means to be in a relationship today. She had this same discussion with a male friend of hers. What he said in a nutshell was that today people get into relationships for selfish reasons. One may want a rela...
I dedicate these words to poetzsoul, in hopes that her next 25 years are motivating....
The quick version.......
You do not really have to worry whether your ex is thinking about you or not. More than likely, your ex is actually thinking about you even when you don't make any effort....